If i were to find a girls number in my husband's phone, what must i do, suppose they are having an affair?

kimmy

confront him and ask him bowt it maybe they are just friends and your just being paranoid or if that duznt satisfy you enough then maybe you could get some1 to check her out or summin

mlscherr

Just ask him.

the_reverend2u2

Before you loose your mind and go crazy with BAD thoughts. I would simply ask.. hunny whos __________ and why is her # in your phone. if he says oh that so and so my new boss or whatever i would let it lye, if he gets all bent.. chances are there is something he is hiding..

j b

Confront your husband. God Bless.

ndnqt1966

Ask him why he has a girl's number in his phone. Don't just assume it is an affair. Might be something completely innocent...but then again it might not be...JUST ASK!

Kaja

doesn't mean a dang thing
ask him, how he responds will let you know why way to lean

Forever Pink

ummm..maybe talk to him about it!

mamadana

why do people in relationships walk these fences!!! If you are married or in a serious relationship DO NOT put yourself in a position that could turn into an affair, or "accident", they "it just happened" doesn't fly. Confront your husband and save the trust!

first ask ur hubby

diva_500

You could always call the number and say:

"Hi. I found this number on my phone and didn't know who it was. Do you know me (your name) or my husband (his name)?"

If she didn't know he was married, she might be shocked and back off. If she hangs up suddenly, there might be something going on...

Either way, you might want to ask your husband.

Elaine P...is for Poetry

Maybe it's the saleswoman who is going to send you flowers. What are you doing looking through your husband's phone? A marriage based on this kind of sneaking around is in trouble. And I suspect that you're the cause of it.

Mr. Taco

It COULD be an affair. But not necessarily. It could be a co-worker he calls for work-related stuff. Could be a doctor. A cousin. The girl who made the present he bought you for your birthday. Who knows? Do you have another reason to think he is cheating on you? Is she in his "five?" Has he been talking to her a lot? Why did you look at his phone? Were you suspicous? If you have other reasons to think he is having an affair, then maybe that is the girl. Otherwise, you may be being paranoid. Ask him who she is and see if he stutters or stumbles in his speech or gets really defensive. If he does, you probably have a cheater on your hands. Or you COULD call the girl and ask her! If he IS having an affair, she might not even know he is married! Time to start asking some questions.

gogo

I would ask him about it nicely without attacking just to see what his reaction is.

sarah

just ask him it might be just a friend. dont worry too much. just ask him. if you find too many girls' numbers then i think your husband has issues.

sashay

Ask him about it.

Melissa

I would call the number and find out who it is then confront him.

Vanilla

Not necessarily! It might be someone from work... or a family member, or some insignificant person. Best thing to do is ask.... or... be sneaky and call the number, but he might not like that. :P

free_angel

Suppose they were and suppose you found out and shoved his phone up his *** sideways.

tender loving dyke

No I wouldn't assume anything. If you want to know who she is ask your husband. If call the number and its innocent your gonna make yourself stupid.

You can also google the number to see what kind of info comes up.

dhustle

well talk to him bout it unless you were just snooping through his phone..but you should talk to him bout it dont go staright to ecusing though

Happy-2

I just counted, and there are 13 girls' numbers in my cell phone. It may shock you to hear this, but I'm having an affair with none of them. A few are relatives, a few are co-workers, and a few are friends of my daughter's (who doesn't have her own cell phone and likes to use mine sometimes). I wonder why you are so paranoid.

The West Coast Avenger

If you have an open honest relationship with him, ask him what it is. If his answer is reasonable, and you trust him, let it go.

rajan l

Just ask him about this very calmly and if there is a real affair then you take your own decision taking into consideration about family, children, society, your love for him etc. Since you are the best person to decide future actions.

whateva

yes, you should assume the cat is creepin'.

Moni

NO! that is the biggest mistake...if you do not have proof do not accuse him of an affair. What I will do is have someone else call it. Also, if your husband is not acting different that usual then don't worry about it. A woman knows when her man is up to something and if you do feel like he is cheating just ask him....his first reaction will tell you if he is or not.

bad_brad

i have lots of girls phone numbers in my phone but i haven't had an affair with any of them...i just keep the number incase i should ever need to call them for things...but none are to call for dates or anything. if you can confront him about things you find don't be snooping for things....a good relationship is built on trust and being open with one another....loosen up.

as i

before jumbing into a conclusion beleive ur
husband

LICKMYFOODSTAMP

I would call the number real late at night. She'd most likely have it turned off. You'd listen to her voice mail message, and probably know her name and possibly another number to reach her at!

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