If my husband punched me should I be worried?

everybody should be happy

what the ****? why you let him do that to you? leave him, don't forgive him for this or give him punishment if he ask forgiveness from you....

MR. Tumnus

YES! Call the police and file a report with them, and leave. From personal experience I can tell you that if you don't go to the police, you will regret it, because if he comes back later, does something else to you, and you have to take action against him, the first incident matters by half as much. Also, once he does it, he will do it again. People like that don't change.

kissie623

IF HE DID IT ONCE HE WILL DO IT AGAIN.JUST PACK UP AND LEAVE.IF HE LOVED YOU HE WOULD NEVER DO THAT.

lisalfranks

By all means...take your kids and run as fast as you can. You can always talk about things like that, but it very seldom just happens one time and then goes away. I've been there, done that, just go!!

rolahey

Call the cops, get him out, file for an order of protection and follow through and press charges. Do NOT let him back into your life.
This sounds harsh but a friend of mine years ago had a similar situation..... it started with yelling, then later to a push. Months later he punched her but in places that didn't show. She stayed and stayed. He killed her in an "accidental" rage because there was egg remnants on a fork that was in the utensil drawer.
Such a waste.
Keep yourself safe at all cost and especially if there are kids involved.
You need to get him out now. It is wiser to call the cops when he is asleep if it happened today.
Hope this helps.

koneko007@sbcglobal.net

report it, leave him

briandoogan13

If he does it once and gets away with it, he'll do it a second time. Leave him!

JeffyB

To quote a line from the cheesy film "Amityville Horror", GET OUuuuuT!!!

If he did it once, he can do it again. Next time might be worse. Guys that hit women are cowards.

Robert

leave

jincr

Hell yes, be worried. You cannot let him even think that is okay. Get into some counseling right away, or leave until you guys decide to get counseling or split up. That is NOT okay behavior. If you allow it, history shows, it'll get worse.

Uncle John

yes, you should worry. Ask him if he'd mind not hitting you. Suggest an alternative. Even if it's not more likable anything is better than punching and getting punched.

Mercedes A

if he does it one more time...LEAVE

strawbarrycheey

RUN FAR AWAY

shirleyinnampa

YES-YES-YES.
I was married to a man that I had loved all my life. We got along perfectly, until he got angry. At first he pushed me, then we were fine, he was sorry. then he slaped me, then we were fine, he was sorry. That is when I packed my clothes and left.
I figured that the next time I would be on the floor, and I would not let any one on this earth do that to me, no matter what the reason. I am a real person and no one should do that to another human being.
Three years later he went to jail because he beat his girl friend almost to death.
It dosent matter how much you love him, or how sorry he is, or the tears he may cry, the next time you may not walk away. And remember that it isn't your falut, no matter what he says. You didn't do any thing wrong. It is HIM!!!!!!! NO ONE IS WORTH IT. NO ONE IS THAT GOOD IN BED.!!!!!

Melanie

get the **** out of there before he ***** you up. or becomes a controling tyrant and you never leave your house again. im sure that you have heard about stories similar to this which began in this same fashion. get out while you still stand a chance

ft3535

have him arrested

ryanisalifestyle

Um... violence... aggression... yeah.

Thats a sign. I suggest you guys get counceling (NOT FROM A PSYCHIATRIST) or something. If he loved you he wouldnt dare think of hurting you on purpose.

PS
Try not to argue about stupid things or antaginize him for that jst fans the flames.

heartache

Leave sweetie! Now. Don't listen to him when he says it will never happen again...go run. Now. What are you waiting for. Next time he could do worse

justathought

Leave , get counseling.
Don't let him think he can get away with that.

wraith_calling

Yes, it always starts small. It will get worse.

dynabody

call the police, he needs help with anger management, the situation is getting out of control!!!

billie_db

Yes, definitely be worried.

leave before the abuse escalates.

HOBBY

Be mad at him and don't even talk to him a single word..stay away and let him be alone..Force him to apologize or other wise you will take another action,,Make him understand that what he did is just an absence and he has to promise you not to do it again because if he did you will not keep quiet.

you should really think about leaving, it usually escalates over time, but you don't want to be around for the next time...family, church, shelters can all help...if you have no children it's easier if you have children all the more important you do it

delarosa74868

kill that sob.

catsclaw

A real man never hits a woman

midnight

Every good dog is allowed one bite. If you decide to forgive him, forgive him on the condition it does not happen again. Make it clear that, if it does, you will have no hesitation in leaving him.

Some men see physical abuse as a proof of being a man. And, it has to be said, I have met women who actually seek relationships with men who behave this way. (I can't think why when there are nice guys like me around!)

It takes all sorts to make a world, I suppose. Best to decide which 'sort' you are!

bluez

No, it's perfectly normal for your husband to beat you....are you really asking this?! GET OUT!

perth_cityboy

you should talk to someone that might understand. if this continues you should call the women abuse hotline and they will handle it there. make sure he knows you got a lot of power over him or he will think he can control you and he might think he can do anything

Keep.It.Simple

This is not a good sign.... I have never hit a girl, but if he does it again maybe consider removing yourself from his presence. Did he do it hard? Be careful - this may the start of something more. Sorry!

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