If my husband receives an e-mail that says they hope that can become more than friends, what should I do?

Anarchy99

If he has not received it i am sure it will wait till he returns!

malanina

CALL THE NUMBER AND SAY WHO IS THIS EMAILING MY HUSBAND!!!

mouse3801

You write them back and act like it is him writing the letter and make it clear as heck that he is very happy and no longer wants letters or anything from them!!!!!!!! He dont need to know you did anything, he should not have been put in the situation in the first place so there for he needed caught!

Kayleighs Mommy

um why dont you call the #, and talk to the girl maybe she doesnt know he is married?!? Maybe she is just trying to start trouble, give your husband the benefit of the doubt, but I would get both sides of the story

kny390

Call the number and tell her that you are his wife and intend to remain so.

djs

Confront him, hes cheating or will be soon

heandI

I was in the same situation. It could just be a "companion" while he is away..BUT, I would get the number and call. I would base whether or not I confronted the husband on how the conversation goes. It could be many things..she may not know he is married..SHE may be psychotic and after a man in uniform..but one peice of advice I would give you, is that if there IS a relationship bwtween the two of them, get out while you can..my ex had an online affair that turned into a one night stand..I wasted 13 months in couseling, just for him to do it to me and our daughters..AGAIN

kissie623

call the number and say look he is married

nyot

"They"? More than one persons, hmmm.... maybe they're his friends in military and making good relationship between him then ask him to be more than friends, maybe it means to be kinda family, like their brother.it's only my opinion.
actually, u should ask your husband about it.

Sugar

call that number. tell them to get a life this man is taken. and if you see that number again you will report it for harassment

(:â™¥TayLeeâ™¥:)

If I were you I would call the number and ask what the ____ is going on.

powhound

oh oh.

Maybe it's spam?

EDIT:

I think your approach is fine. Don't sweat it, just talk to your husband when you can...but face to face is the best. If he knows you read his e-mail, I highly doubt he would set up contacts with extras through that account...and some girls are relentless.

Ask your husband when you can to see if he can get that person blocked.

I agree about spouses reading emails...my wife and I have access to the others account. There should be no secrecy between spouses.

Except mine doesn't know I spend so much time on Yahoo Answers! oh, I do feel guilty!

LINDA B

hi, y don't u take the number down and call yourself to see who it is and if that doesn't work try to sak him without fighting when he gets back.

Crystal

hold on to the number then ask him about it as calmly as you can

sunflowerchick

i would also be very upset. This person sent him that email for a reason he is probably not cheating on you physically but mentally he sure his.

sandrawiltzen

Sounds to me like a "RED FLAG" situation. Infidelity is a real problem. Approximately, 30 to 60% of all married people will be unfaithful at some point during their marriage, and affairs are even more common among people who are just dating.

Not only is infidelity quite common, but more often than not, it goes undetected or unproven. On the other hand, most people would like to know the truth: Is my spouse cheating?

This is one of the clear signs that he has been "cheating" in some form or another. The fact that he got this email and she "misses" him and he can "call" should send signals that he is cheating or will be very soon. I would confront him with tact and diplomacy - no ultimatums, let him know that you know about this email; also it wouldn't hurt to call the phone number and state that you are his wife, I'm sure she doesn't even know hes married. Good Luck!

pleeks

Just because I am old and cranky, I would reply to the email stating that I am his wife and demand to know who they think they are .

TIMOTHY D L

Tell the guy you were there first!
I would confront your husband

robert w

I am a 40 year old married man of 7 years. Sound like your husband has had previous contact with this woman before if she says she misses him. If you don't know this woman, and your husband has never mentioned her, then I would be concerned. What you should have done was e mailed her back acting like you were him and get as much info out of her as possible and then wait for your husband to come home to confront him with all the information you found out.

SANDY G

I don't know you but reading what you just wrote makes me furious at him an her,Ok this is what I would do ,I would write back as if he got her e-mail an tell her to call you ,then I would tell her he is not in right now but your his wife an would be glad to tell him to call her back!! Then for as him wait until he comes home an sit back and see if he acts nervous because if he does then if she has been having a affair with him she will contact him to let him know what you have done an just sit an watch how he reacts to you when he comes home,if he don't seem like she has called him an let him in on this then I would print out the letter an save it and confront him an if he wants to lie then tell him to tell the truth because your considering taking it to his higher up in military an I know from a friend of mine this happned to the military will call him down on this one especially if you have proof so hide the printed out letter. Hopefully this is not true an maybe a mistaken e-mail from someone but in the event it is not then you have a problem with a adultreous husband .I can't stomach people that are so sneaky that they think they can just go out an mess around on thier wives or husbands . It is sickning to me because actually I have divorced because of adultery! I tried to hear the I'm sorry story an stayed with him for a year but I never trusted him an the love went right out of the window because of mistrust!

Nanniekc

E-mail her back and let her know there is a little women at home !!!

osu2720@sbcglobal.net

Just ask him. You will drive yourself insane if you keep letting your mind run wild so until you have an answer from him assume he is innocent. Or if this really drives you insane call the number and be nosey, but be honest when you tell your husband about calling them or he will think that you don't trust him and it will cause alot of heartache that might not be easy to repair.

knowledgeisgood

Look up the phone number. www.intellius.com and see who it is. I would so some spy-girl research and find out what's up. It could be a scam, a wrong address (I have gotten two emails in the last 6 months from people who had the wrong address), or an overzealous, yet desperate admirer. My BF gets those on a regular basis through his work email that is public. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but do investigate. If you don't like what you find, call the number under the premise that you handle your husband's affairs (not a pun) while he is on duty and inquire as to how you might assist this person. Just remain calm. I hope it all turns out OK for you.

nanny2

i would be very upset and talk to him and her and find out what is going on.

shelly

wait til you can talk to him, then ask him about it. that's the easiest way.

lily

In the past I have simply called the girl and asked what is going on. The girl has always been upfront with me and told me every little thing that had been going on and what was going on and where it was heading. Don't wait, don't worry and don't depend on him to be honest with you.

breaker_1020

tell him u know. call her and let her know about u and to stay away from your husband. be nice about it tho...

spunkyshell2000

I say respond to it, don't give any clue that ur the wife. See what happens from there.

starfox

dont take that **** man. if u let it go he's gonna keep on doing it and there r plenty of good men out there that would take care of u and not cheat.

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