If u suspect and 9o% sure your husband had or still having affair but he denies it totally what should be the?

naughty and nice

Can you say "Private Investigator". Do this quietly and still ask him to see if he will continue this lie. When, or if the evidence speaks for itself and cannot be denied, lay it out and give him a proper send off.

dxb

you're still relying on uncertain proof even though u say u're 90% sure that your husband is having an affair. get concrete proof first that will confirm your fears and then react . u said "still having an affair ?" which means you're husband did cheart on u earlier ...........pls be careful before the confrontation since u need to have solid details before u close on , on him regd this.

Netty

Dont shout at him. Take him in confidence, give him courage to speak the truth, ask him what is the truth and if he is really having affair, find out if he can stop doing that (peacefully), and if he can not stop, kick him out of your life(peacfully).

purdy

well! duno really its hard i know but thers a web site find a cheting spouse gives u all details how to catch im at it!

You call that CHANGE?

Get the facts, find out for sure, and then divorce him, and take him for every dime hes got!

rae-rae

Get a nextel w/ gps and track him online! call the cell co. and block restricted #'s. So they have to call w/ out block go online look @ the bill before it comes and call it!!!!

apleasure2u

im the type to be straight forward so my question to him would be " so i can call this number on your cell, right? " lol

ok so i wouldnt even ask lol...i would just do it and find out myself and if he is doing this id leave him asap...no man is ever going to cheat on me again ( i was married for 14 yrs. and was cheated on 3 times...its stupid to stay and id never go down that road again.

Men who cheat and cant be honest about it when they are caught are wuzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz wuzz wuzz..lol

mkaamsel

Simple, get even

Giggles

Confront him and move on

bern

I would take off work and follow him and see where he goes and see if I could catch him in the act.

Happyface

What does your instinct tell you? When I was pregnant I suspected my partner was 'playing away', I even dreamt about it, however, this was all put down to my 'hormones'! During and after the birth his behaviour was 'weird' but this was put down to him 'adjusting to the baby'. It got all too much when baby was 4 months old - I was extremely unhappy and his behaviour was awful so I left. He never contacted me to ensure either myself or baby were ok. Guess what - 1 month later 'suddenly' he had a new girlfriend he was happy to parade about!!
Thank God I left him!
Always trust your instinct!

Fairy Tale

If your wrong this accusing will have down falls , if your right have you asked does it matter ? Really , many women will have anger , then pain , then forgiveness ,so if you trap a rat , you have to have a plan ,An answer ! Or just play stupid and hope he doesn't fall in love enough to leave .It isn't really hard to catch a cheater . It's a question do you want to know .For if he knows you know and forgave , you won't ever keep him from doing it again .Now cheating has it's reasons .Sometimes it's the thrilling of no one knowing , or her husband might not like your husband .If you really want to know how to catch him , I can tell you , just email me .Just keep in mind , you need to decide if he is then what ?

joquetta16

go to your divorce lawyer, immediately after reading this

jai74lin

If you feel it in your gut..he probably is. You will look back when you find out the truth and then you will see all of the signs that you are ignoring now.

udayy2

hey grow up lady
let him be free
if he comes back he is yrs
if he doesnt he was never yours
try this
either behappy with him or
get-rid of him
dont ask more nw

jude

Ring the number, find the address and deal with it. Give him a last chance to tell you the truth, if he still denies it and you are not happy with they reply, ask him to call the number in front of you and ask to speak directly to the person. If he declines, tell him to pack his bag and leave you. You are worth more than his deceit.

kelsey

If you don't trust him then leave him. Trust should be the most important thing in your marriage and if you don't have that then your relationship will go down hill.

JaneyBird

The paranoia will drive you mad.....I'm going through it now. I love my BF very much apart from those feelings i have when his phone beeps with a message. He tells me she is only a friend but i just don't believe him....Its over when it gets to this stage.....Plenty of love just no trust

fernmaid

Have you showed him the cell phone bill then asked who's numbers they are? That's the first thing i'd do

Mar

if you have a gut feeling go with it.

berry

He is cheating on you. If you need more solid, concrete proof hire a private investigator.

minerva

if you can't trust him then it's over anyway so try a period apart and see how much effort he makes to get you back. then you'll know if he wants you!

thementalpatient2005

call cheaters hell they will pay the bill if hes cheating like you thing he is

SweetSatinDoll47

That's a very high percentage so if you are 90% sure then you no longer suspect. Is he around you (home) at those times of day and those days of the week? Follow your intuitions.

agron c

it is nothing you love him...

misty

why dont you hire a secret detective to follow him or if you7 are 90% sure why dont you confront him with what evidence that you have

starla

call the tv show cheaters.

G L

Go with your feelings. Life is too short to have to worry about whether someone is faithful or telling you the truth. You have to look within yourself and see if this is something you're willing to tolerate for the rest of your life.

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