If you could cheat on your spouse and your spouse not find out would you?

OH-EM-GEE!!

I know I'm probably going to get a lot of thumbs down for this, but I did cheat on my husband (yes, I know what a horrible person I am). I put myself in a bad situation and gave into temptation, which by the way, was the biggest mistake I've ever made. I told myself that I would never tell my husband, that it would be a secret I would take to my grave. But the guilt ate away at me for about a year. In that year, I was a total mess. I hated myself and wanted to die. I drank until I passed out every single night just to escape the guilt. And I was an emotional train wreck. I am actually a really good person, and I love my husband very, very much, but I made a terrible mistake and couldn't live with myself. So one day I broke down and told him. He knew there was something wrong, so I think it was actually a relief to finally find out what my problem was. He of course, was devastated. It took him a few days, but he was finally able to talk about it. I asked him if he was going to leave me, and he said no. I honestly thought that he was going to leave me, and that I deserved it. But he didn't leave me. We were able to talk it out, many, many times. It's been almost a year since I broke that news to him, and I can honestly say that our relationship is stronger than ever. I love him more than anything, and he knows that I'm going to spend the rest of my life making up for my mistake. Anyway, I just wrote more than I needed to, I'm sure. But my point is that, I ****** up, and I took responsibility for my actions. I could not have kept that from him forever. I know he still thinks about it all the time, and trust me....he has his moments where he's still really mad at me. But I believe he has forgiven me about 95%. I'm still working on forgiving myself though.

nene111782

No way. If I ever felt something for someone else, I would be honest with my fiance and break it off. If you care for someone you should be straight with them.

Psylence

I wouldn't do it. If I did, there'd be no point in being in my relationship with her. Cheating is the worst possible thing to do next to abuse and murder.

Rosessis

no i couldn't

*huge sigh*

No. I love and adore my husband, and would not want to hurt him.

november_special

You've answered your own question - the guilt would be there inside for anybody I would imagine but there are always the people out there with no morals.

Allison, aka Nice Lady

If I would, I would have already done it.

The answer is no.

MiZz SaAk

no i love my husband to much to do that...im the one that would have to live with that the rest of my life!!!

mcp24

It wouldn't be fair.

whodeyflya

Nope...I wouldn't want her to cheat on me so I wouldn't do it to her. Besides even if i got away with it, it would still be on my conscience.

Look Away, I'm Hideous

no, why get married?

â™¥â™¥ Colton's Mom! â™¥â™¥

i would never do that to him. i love him too much and would never want him to betray me so i would never do this to him.

Princess Kitty

NEVER... love is not worth sleeping around!!!

QueenBee

No I would not cheat on my boyfriend.. Ive had several occasions where I could of and he never would of found out..

but its a little world called KARMA and that comes back..

DONT DO WHAT YOU WOULDNT WANT DONE TO YOU!!

StarGirl

No. Just because he did not find out does not mean I could live with the guilt.

StringsofFire

It's just not right....and NO i never would! I wouldn't be able to live with the guilt....and besides if you really love someone..you don't think about those things

*ireland*

i'm in college and not married but if i were, i wouldn't cheat. even if he never found out. it's against my beliefs

Reality Check

No way. There is too much time and trust invested in our relationship to ever jeopardize this. Maybe when I was younger and *thought* I was in love...and didn't really care. But true love = commitment.

Miss.Diabolic.

I wouldn't do it.

He/she doesn't deserve it. Why make the person a victim of a situation like that?

Plus, why create more drama to begin with.. Life is hard as it is.

vbgirl_686

I would not be able to cheat on my boyfriend. I don't got the heart to wether he knows or not. I love him so much the guilt would follow me knowing that I did and eventually I would crack and become a psycho case. Cheating in all ends I believe isn't right, and the moral part of cheating would tear me apart if I did.

â™¥ Nichole[never gives up]â™¥

No, because I wouldn't want him to do the same. If I love that person and like him, I would be with only that person. If I didn't like the person anymore, I would break up and then screw around with someone else.

Kaya M

NO, because I'm man enough to tell her things are not working out and leave her before I do such a thing. I would rather her respect me for what I did instead of resent me for the rest of my life. Wow, I must be getting older.

andrew

i wouldnt because a broken heart is hard to fix

Mushu

How about being honest to yourself?

littleluvkitty

no i would not. i think that cheating is really just lazy. if you want to be with someone esle then you should leave your husband not cheat on him.

everybody should be happy

no. i wouldn't have a peace of mind. the guilt feeling would kill me.

crazylegs

Bryan like yourself I do not believe that I could in good conscience ever be unfaithful to the woman I promised to love, honour and cherish until we leave this earth. Cheating is certainly not all it is cracked up to be or what people who have an extra affair attempt to sell it as. I know that the five minutes or so of pleasure that I would derive from cheating isn't worth spoiling the rest of my live over.

flagger

I can cheat on my wife and she would never find out.

I just don't do it.

Guys who chaet are scumbags.
I have a higher opinion of myself than that.

Elly

Everyone can think about cheating.
But if you really love that person,
you'd NEVER cheat. Not even if you knew they wouldn't know.

That guilt would drive me insane til i told him.
I would never cheat.

chrissyb

absolutely not. That's disrespectful. I wouldn't want him cheating on me so why would I do it .

Samham

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