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If you could get away with it would you have an affair? Or even a one night stand?
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If you could get away with it would you have an affair? Or even a one night stand?

Go on tell the truth, You would wouldn't you?


    




Sugarplum
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No I wouldn't... I love and respect my partner... If I want it from somewhere else then I would leave my partner first...


Han
No - I just wouldn't be able to look him in the eye if I did that. The guilt would consume me and I'd end up telling him.


cae07290
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I've cheated on exes and gotten away with it but I never felt very good about it after the fact. I always ended up hating myself even though they never found out about it. And in the end it ended up ruining that relationship.


Baby #1 due 18th June 09
No.

I have too much of a conscience and the guilt would eat me up.

Plus, i love the man i am with and i am totally happy and content so i could never stray even if he never found out.


slavebunney
With STD's, and HIV.... you really got to lay low. You really can't trust anyone unless they show you a recent lab report indicating that there clean. Nahh... sorry but it's not worth my life.


Queen of Beer
No, I have a conscience.


Щїʼnάķσ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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No. Not interested.


rollin away
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You are the one that has to live with it if your boyfriend/husband would never know.

It boils down to what you are prepared to bear/hide, and if you have a conscience.


sweetkhaos
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Seriously? You do not deserve love or marriage if you are not happy with yourself. There is no justification for hurting yourself or someone you love!


Ella rock girl
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nope.
i love my man so much! if i do it i will feel really bad and i will regret..
everytime he looks at me my heart melts


Leonard Lush
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I am single but I would not nor could not. I have principles.


ARTmom
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Not in my own heart and mind-


Peaches M
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I wont say I haven't thought about it. But I've been in situations before where I could've done it and gotten away with, but I didn't. I could never bring myself to cheat, because at the end of the day it's not about whether your spouse finds out about it. It's about whether or not you can come to terms with your own conscience.


Kara B
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AFFAIR... BECAUSE IT WILL EAT YOU UP INSIDE, UNLESS YOUR HEARTLESS.


JRPS
No, that's selfish. If someone wants to be having one night stands or in a relationship with someone else, break up with the current bf or gf.


Luna Juliet
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I wouldn't. I love my boyfriend way to much to even THINK about hurting him in anyway.


jellybeans
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No. Never. I couldn't do that to my boyfriend.


jackie m
No it is wrong you marry for better for worse etc not to have a one night stand when you feel like it - I am divorced an never done it when married and I now have a partner and would not consider it - Pierce Brosnan, Patrick Swayze, George Cluney, if only.


6ofUs
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Nope. I have morals thank you.


jimiman
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no and never , why ? no point got what i wanted 30 years ago, why buy hamburger when i got steak at home lol


jet
If you even have to think about it you shouldn't still be with your partner. You cant love them. Apart from that, how would you like to be cheated on and betrayed.


Clare
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No, probably not.
I've had someone cheat on me before, and it hurt like hell. There is no way I'd want to do that to anyone, especially my husband.

Best to have little harmless fantasies and to avoid anything else in my opinion!


Jake R
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Getting away with it? You can't really get away with it. If you have a conscience you will regret it and it will tear at you, and that alone with not be worth it.

I am a guy and have been faithful to my wife for 8 years...and though there are temptations that are hard to resist...I know in the end I not only would hurt her, but I would hurt myself also.


yelles
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No -i can't shut up about any thing wrong that i do -i have to go and tell someone!!! An affair would eat me up and spit me out -he would know for sure!!


nosmo
simple no


tessa701
He** NO I would never ever have an affair or a one night stand if I wanted to be with someone else in anyway shape or form I would be women enough to end it first with my husband before I did that.You must have no self respect if you would say yes to this question and have no love for your mate as well.


pink
no the guilt would be awful


laya
I would never do that because i would feel to guilty.


Sharon B
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No. If you love your partner you wouldn't want to. Leads to a great deal of pain and the guilt would be immense.


sassy lady
as long as you have a conscious, you will NEVER get away. If you can't be truthful with yourself, no one else matters.





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