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If you don't get married by the age of 21 you are just a loser - anyone agree?
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If you don't get married by the age of 21 you are just a loser - anyone agree?

Anyone agree about these men who can't get a woman and then complain about it? I got married at 17 because I can have ANY woman? And these men think they need a "career" when they're just lonely.


    




Simply Lovely
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If you don't get married, I say you are wicked smart.

I got zapped by the answer police for one of the answers I gave you the other day. People just can not take a joke when they read one.


heatherbee
that is the absolute dumbest thing i have ever heard.


The Wižard
Sounds like you're the loser


Sharon F
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Perhaps you're the loser if you have to comment/complain about other people's personal lives. You sound lonely and pathetic yourself.


JM
no you got married at 17 because you're parents were desperate to get you out of the house so they signed you away and made it your wife's problem!


~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~
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no.. if you are in college and focusing on getting your life together you are not a loser, what can a 17 yr old possibly know about maintaining a household.. marriage does not define how successful or unsuccessful you are....... i believe that in order to get married you should first have yourself set so that you can provide and have something to offer within the marriage....

and if YOU think they are losers because they arent married by 21... then ur ignorant!


Night Owl
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Getting married before you are 21 is like taking a cake out of the oven 20 minutes before it's supposed to. Sure, it may LOOK like it's done, but it isn't.

At 21, your brain is still changing, both chemically and physically. Choices you make at 21and younger will look significantly different when you are 25. Many of them may look bad...especially one to get married.

You got married at 17? Because you could get any woman? No, you could only get a woman interested in an immature 17 yr old male. A fairly limited pool, actually.

So, no, I don't agree at all. Getting married later makes for more mature decisions, and probably knowing yourself well enough to understand what you can and can't put up with in a mate. I'd say...wait.


kirkda1
did you just seriously write that!?1
you got married at 17? what you start dating before you could drive?

i know a few people who got married before 21 they are now divorced and realized how young and dumb they were... its not about having a career first, its about having a life first!

you can have ANY woman you want huh?!
well the girl you married must think that so she locked you down!

my option you can't get any woman and the first one to sleep with you, you figured you had to mary so god would still love you!

i hope you live a long life, happily married.

one thing though.? did you have grape juice at your wedding?


David V
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more than 60% of marrages between the ages of 18 - 25 end in devorse


Cyclist 2300
if you could have any woman.... then why marry so soon?

you are not a loser if you are not married by 21.

I'm 45... not married... and happily not married.

My life is very fulfilling.... even more fulfilling than yours... even though I have no idea who you are... and what you do.

everyone that knows me... would call me a WINNER.


Amanda F
ok...your wrong...its a choice not an age thing.


Good Neighbor
No
Typically its better to grow up before getting married.


Jules
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Yes, you are a loser! I agree!


Daisy [SAVE THE HUMANS!]â„¢
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everyone should get married when they find the person they love and want to spend there life with. if you get married early then good for you but some people take more time. everyone will find that right person in time. good luck!


nellycakes
wow.
no i don't agree.


Crystal LeeAnn
Sorry, I do not agree about being a looser by the age of 21 if not married. I got married the first time when I was 34. Married the second time at the age of 45. I got my career taken care of and lived the single life to get it out of my system. When I was ready to get married, I did. I am by no means a looser. Yes, I am a woman, but really, doesn't your question pertain to both genders?


honey
i think if you make that statement you are a loser. in all actuality, a woman would prefer a man with a career so he can take care of her, especially if they want children. women have more health issues than men therefore miss more work. women also usually make less than a man and depend on a man's decent paycheck to help them survive as a family.


melouofs
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Actually, I think anyone who gets married that young is foolish and will grow up to regret it.


TireBiter
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No, you're far from being a loser if you're not married by 21.


naplliny
You need to grow up. You cant have any man you want. Getting married might have been good for you but not for everyone. I hope my daughters get married after they finish college. When you grow up you will see things a lot different


♥Mrs.Cullen♥
No, your not a loser, your a person who wishes too actually get a career and a life, instead of starting a family.


An0nym0us mAn1Ac
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Wrong

I think that anyone that gets married before they're 21 is kidding themselves.


♥Linda.
when i'm 21 i wana have a life, go out clubbing, go on the pull, not be married.


helplesslydevoted
no way, that is just wrong.. so are u trying to tell me that since i am 20 years old, and am turning 21 only July, that i am a loser...u must be living in a fantasy land, now dont you?


fchyenne
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thats exactly the problem with society-people get married way too young...before they have even figured out themselves never mind another person
no agree here sorry


mazrox1
21 is still quite young to get married I think.

i'm sure you cant have any woman with that attitude and you should get married because of love.

you need to be put down


GoGo Girls
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They will not agree if they have even a fraction of a brain in their head. You should be fixed and not allowed to breed.





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