If you found out that you were being cheated on, would you confront the other person?

Just Smile

Kudos to you. That, in itself, is a very priceless gratification. It's so rare that you find someone who doesn't handle these things childishly, ie. (fighting with the girl, instead of the husband or b/f) Just sorry it had to come to that. I probably wouldn't have thought of anything like that, but I would confront that person.

joyceeleann

I would be more pissed that my man wasn't sharing than not telling me.

Mr.Moo

with a frying pan

â™¥Due with baby#1 06/08/09â™¥

Good Job Sista!!

Dingus McCoy

Yes I would confront her and I'd dig my key into the side of her pretty little suped up four wheel drive
Carve my name into her leather seats
I'd tale a Louisville Slugger to both headlights
Slash a hole in all four tires so that maybe next time she'll think before she cheats.

SAN DIEGO !!!

what a great idea !

I wouldn't confront him. I'd leave a note and no forwarding address. No questions asked, no second chances.

Ego's Twin

I don't know if I would confront the other person (it's been decades since that has happened to me), but it sounds like you did the right thing by being mad at him and not her

Infernal Disaster

It would be over the moment I knew it was true.

Simple and uncomplicated.

teeny r

Your right about not blaming the other woman if she doesn't know he is married.90% of the women do know the man is married and chooses to ignore all the signs that she is being lied to. Do you still not blame the woman well i do blame the other woman and the husband. To be friends with a skanky lying b i t c h home wrecker is beneath me. You made that girls day by doing what you did. If she can't have him she will make dam sure you don't either, so you just made her job a lot easier.

fan8gun

yes

mz_thang

ohh i like that good on ya!!

I deff would confront them!!..Cant let em think there getting away with it cause apparently thats what gets them more "g'd up" the thought that you dont have a clue!

BERNARD C

Hi friend,
I always believe that you need not say much against liars. You simply let them know that you are aware of their indiscretion. Then you just keep quiet. Let them do the talking. And you will realize one thing. The more they talk, the more inconsistencies will come out. Just tell them straight up what you know. Then give them the silent treatment the rest of the way, then watch them squirm & lie their way out to their own destruction. If only women are as smart as you two are, then there will be less philandering men.

dollia06

I would but I'd probably say not such nice things to her ^^;

flinkadouchie

yes, there is more men out there

Jai

Yes I would and let them know just how I feel about what's going on.

jennyequinox

only if they kew about me.if not whats the point either way it would be over

Thomas

I agree with you. in this case is your ex who the blame and not the other woman/man

Janice F

i jsut found out two days ago that my ex bf of TWO YEARS was cheating on me with this girl.

they both knew about me.

i found an email he sent her.

i emailed him the email so he knew i read it.
and i emailed her and told her i hope someone never does this to HER one day.

and that was it.

that was two days ago.
i am in such a deep depression now

aaneiros@ramapo.edu

mabelle_042569

as the saying goes,it takes 2 to tango.of course the other woman will say,she doesn't knew he is married.dyo believe that?me,the 1st thing i ask from people who know him is;is he single?if not,why would i entertain him?so probably,she knows it.she's just denying it for you not to confront or scandalize her..

Sharon D

yes gang up on ur bf lol

Thin Kaboudit

If someone stole your car, would you "confront" the person they sold it to? Why?

Why would you not blame your partner, exactly?

SummerLovin'

Good for you!
I would have done that too!Or maybe not,
I'm not as crafty

ONEnONLYme

yeah, would def. confront jus to get answers and find out why.

#2 DUKE

yes i would....i was dating a boy that would make up things on why he was not coming over so much or why he was hanging up on me and i asked and his friend said that he has been going to see another girl almost ever night and when i asked him he said that he had been sleeping with another woman and it was over just like that....

texasstar1974

AFTER I CONFRONTED HIM , I WOULD CONFRONT HER TO FIND OUT WHAT KIND OF LIES HE TOLD HER. OR MAYBE HE WAS HONEST. I HAVE BEEN THRU THIS 2 MANY TIMES. I COULD ALWAYS FORGIVE BUT NEVER FOR GOT. SO THERE WAS NO COMMUNATION BECAUSE EVERTIME HE WALKED OUT THE DOOR I THOUGHT HE WAS WITH SOMEONE ELE & HE WAS.I JUST PRAY THINGS WORK FOR YOU.MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU."to thy own self br true" E-MAIL ME ANYTIME.

shes_marie77

To answer your question, yes!! You have every right, I think it serves him right to be left by both of you!! Congratulations!

kalamNJ

Obviously confront. Then decide to continue or terminate.

Mrs. Maintenance

Nah, I'd just cheat back. But my man wouldn't do that :)

Luke

i probaly would and i would get a divorce or break up with him or her staraight away when i found out and make sure he leaves town and make sure i let my friends know that's what i would do i don't know much cause i'm 13
(sorry for spelling mistakes)

Monica K

Yes, in a heart beat.

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