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If you had a photo of your sister cheating, would you tell her husband?
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If you had a photo of your sister cheating, would you tell her husband?

Is right always right? or does it depend? Would you do the same thing if your bro-inlaw was the one cheating on your sister?


    




MASaintFan
I wonder how you got the picture of your sister cheating!

Still, this is an interesting question. I think most people would definitely tell their sister if their brother-in-law was cheating on her. I think that one is a no-brainer.

However, "tattling" on your sister is another issue. I'd probably talk to her to find out what is going on with her before deciding what to do. Hopefully after discussing it with her, she would agree to tell her husband herself to try to work it out.

I still need to know how you came upon a picture of your sister cheating!


chastityelizabeth
if she was the cheater...we would talk and I would guess he was cheating also

if he was the cheater...I would take care of my sis and tell her all I know...and move her out of the cheater's house


angelina_b2005
I'm usually the kind of person to mind my own business, but in a situation like this, I'd tell the one who's being cheated on that his/her spouse was unfaithful. You never know what kind of diseases the cheater brings home to their spouse. It's better that the person knows who they're dealing with.


boilerrat
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Maybe-which one do you like best?


gracious_78
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no doubt about it.


r_newberry
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No.

She'll always be your sister, he may not always be your brother-in-law.

And its her business.

Why are you taking photos' of her anyway....you perve!


Me
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right is not always right that's right...


Mrs. Valle
If my brother in law cheated I would tell, not on my sister. but I would try to convince her to tell her husband herself. But I would probably be sooo mad that she did that to her marriage.


jhornneon23
Nope. But I'd let her know that I know.


angieasee64
I'd talk to her first. She is after all your sister. So loyalty should go to her first. If she doesn't care, leave the photo in a place where he can find it.


B1979
no, tell her first. then if that dosent scare the crap out of her then show it to him.


imurhuckleberry
you can always get another brother in law but not another sister


JoeP
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No I would only mention it to the person who is cheating. you never know what is going on. How od you know the spouse of the "cheater" wasn;t the one taking the photo? Unless you know more then just a photo don't say anything.


mimismom
wow i really can't say i think i would talk to my sister, but if it was mybrother in law cheating on my sister and i had a photo i would probably show her, this is a question that makes you think, there is a double standard there.


OuTsPoKeN23*
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I would keep peace and no I would not tell! Talk to the brother in law and ask what the problem is! Maybe he needs to be faithful! If men are pig headed and they want to cheat then they are not men! They are ScumBags!!!


free_angel
Nah I wouldn't tell him if I had a sister that cheated on him. However, if it was my B-I-L cheating and I had photos of this, I'd make them into cards and send them out as my own Christmas cards.
Blood is thicker than water.


littleluvkitty
okay well i would tell my sister to tell him or i would. she needs to be honest with him and end things if she is not happy, its not your fault she is in this and its not your job to fix this, this is something that she has to do all on her own.


tranka007
no it is not your business.


BRAVEHEART
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i had the same problem, only it was my sisters boy friend was cheating on her , i told my sister wot he was up too and she fell out with me , its been 6 years since i spoke to her , try and talk to your sister about this , as you should be there for her, you dont know wot goes on behind the closed doors , he may have already have done that to her ,,


sweetsecrets
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NO, Blood is thicker than water, she is family, and i'm willing to bet she would never do something like that to you


[♥] !вℓєѕѕу! [♥]
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Yes. but in a very subtle manner. and propose counsellign maybe?


cbabyg
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You must think pretty highly of this cat if you are actually contemplating this. No, I would not tell him.


appu
i don't think so, u should do somethin like dis bcoz dis can cause problems 4 ur sis. instead u should warn her n dat also not being very rudely. i hope u don't want ur sis's home to be ruined!!!!
now dat depends on u


babydoll121070
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I would talk to your sister and see what she is feeling and how she got to the point of cheating. I would not go to the other party and tell or show them anything, it is NOT your place to get involved to that extent, it is THEIR relashionship, not yours.


Trisha84
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I would confront my sister and let her choose if she wanted to tell her husband. I wouldn't tell her that she had to confess, but I would strongly suggest it.
If it was my brother-in-law cheating I would still go to him first, but I would tell him that either he can tell her, or I will. So I guess it depends on the exact situation to what I would do. No matter what, it's not an easy situation.


Jade
If u tell her husband, u will ruin her life and vice versa if it is her husband cheating... Right is not always right. i would do the same thing if it was my bro-in-law...I would still tell...


littleman
Hell yes I would tell my sister if my brother-in-law was cheating on her.I would tell my sister that I have a photo of her cheating and let her handle it.Its none of your business getting involved.If she don't want to tell him, living with that guilt will kill her and the marriage.


sk8er_radu
Talk to your sister about it. Tell her to go to the priest for forgiveness and forget the other man.


Rick Z
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No but I would have a serious talk with your sister. Family comes before outsiders!!!


blah,blah,blah
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No,stay out of it.However,blackmail her with it.Make her work to keep you from telling!





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