If you had an affair with a married man?

American Beauty

The fact that he dumped his family for another woman doesn't say much about him. Chances are he won't be any more faithful to you.

gypsy g

There are two sides to every story...you never know why a man cheats on his wife...it'd be forgivable if she's like a total *****, spending all his $$, cheating on him, holding out on him, etc. etc. But he lied so he wouldn't have to spend time with his child? Real dirt bag if you ask me. Unforgivable as children are Innocent.

do it movin'

if he lied to her.. he'll lie to you

common sense

â™¥Sweet Girlâ™¥

he will lie to you the same way he lied to his wife.....or karma will catch up with him, and YOU will do it to him

BabeHeart

I'd NEVER accept someone who would cheat with me, then leave their partner to be with me. If they cheated on their previous partner, why wouldn't they also cheat on me? It's just stupid to get with someone who has proven to you that they will cheat (lie, betray, are selfish, etc).

Jabberwock

You are next to get lied to and cheated on.

precious

He will end up doing the same thing to you... LEAVE HIM.....

Jim C

I wouldn't trust someone like that, you shouldn't either.

back2future

cheater is always a cheater.. never change...

Love Life

Maybe I am crazy but I believe that if they will do it with you, they will do it to you. They are snakes in the grass if they are with more than one person at a time. I always say, "End one thing before you start another".

youcandoit

First of all for you to not only date a married man but to stay with him after all that you need deep counseling. He is obviously someone who lies, cheats and is a terrible father you really want to be with this guy. Move out of your trailer get a degree get a good job and find someone that is not married

ndnqt1966

If he lied to his ex wife, then he would lie to me. If he cheated with me, then he most likely will cheat on me. Never ever would cheat with any man but especially with a married man....just asking for trouble.

mystic_nite_angel

Like the first person said if he lied to her who says that he's not going to lie to you.

Another thing as well, if he left his wife and family I wouldn't get to comfortable in the situation he could do it again to you.

Blackman married to Redhead

Two in deceit is two in failure meaning nothing good will come of it...........

Anne D

Sounds like a looser. You may want to re think what you have done also, you may just end up in her shoes someday...

Nic Jones

i wouldnt be with a married man... to me thats just a no no to break up a marriage. now if u two get married, its gonna be cursed.

I am not sure I get your question.
So, even after the guy left his family for you, you're not satisfied, you're dragging the past because??
Is it because you are feeling guilty, or because he is feeling guilty and it makes you unhappy?
If I were you, I wouldn't dwell on the past.
Not that his family can ever be the past to be honest.
It's one thing to cheat and live in fear, but it's another thing to have it in the open and know that everything will change for ever!!!
Yes, sometimes people will be eaten by guilt and even when they can't go back, they still find it difficult to move on.
So, your nagging isn't going to help.
I have no idea what you expect from the guy.
Or are you afraid that he'd lie to you too after lying to his family for you?
Yeah, living a lie is never easy, and once the lie is out in the open, it's sometimes even harder.
But, hopefully you won't be tearing each other apart or this will have been a mess for nothing.
On the other hand, if you think that he can't move on with you, maybe you should tell him to go back, or give him some space so that he makes up his mind once and for all.
At least, you could then build on something real.

Suthern Yankee

Apparently, lying comes second nature to this man, like breathing. I think the real question you're asking is: If he could lie so easily about anything, then what is the truth when he's with you?

It's only a matter of time before he lies to you. If he hasn't already.

~life sucks~

why do you women do this? get involved with a married man and think to yourslef that cuz he left his wife for you, you are so much better off and that it is really you that he loves. Do you not see outside the box? Do you not realize you "won" this man through deceptive measures, he cheated on one woman to be with you, he will more than likely cheat on you. DO you think you are more special than his wife, do you think you have something that she didnt? Do you think he'll never cheat on me, cuz he loves me so much, afterall i made him leave his wife. all you women that do this to yourselves are seriously dellusional. that man never belonged to you and guess what, he still dont and never will be truely yours.

hi_glad_to_meet_u

Well..1st of all an affair with a married man??? There are lots of unmarried and handsome man out there...If he cheated on his other family including the child than what can stop him from doind the same again to you...There are other beautiful women out there too...

ronidl76

he showed what a class-act he was from the beginning, so why are you surprised?

tas2198

remember he was once in love with his wife and he lied to her about where he has been he may someday do the same to you. i would not expect too much from him. his son is the reason he will have to go visit his ex-wife, so for now he will have his cake and eat it too.

Carli's Game

MARRIED MEN RARELY LEAVE THEIR WIVES. IF THEY DO. IT'S WITH GOOD REASON. BUT IF HE LIES TO HER, HE WILL LIE TO YOU.

mmurray001

First of all Ive dated a married man but he had no kids and he is still with his wife. Ive had Many relationship If i date someone who was married and had wife and kids i would feel no respect for him at all because if he walked away with from his wife and kid he would do the same to me.
He should have just told his ex wife that he was taking someone else with him on vacation and it would not be appreciate for the child to come.

~NIKKI~

sounds like a real winner ya got there....

Jack P

It never works during the long haul.

A man who lies to the one wife will deceive the next one when it becomes convenient.

A woman who'll get involved with one married man will frequently get involved with someone outside the marriage, once she's into one.

Then there's the guilt

ft3535

his way of doing things will NEVER change, he will lie to anyone who will listen to him and then USE them until the next one comes along, so do not get into this with him or anyone like him...
I am not saying it is a bad thing to do, but this guy lies way to much for you...
he WILL end up having a girl or two on the side from you and then lie to you too
tell him good by and do not look back
your to good for him

good luck
smile

Jeremy

If you're concerned about his character or that he'll lie to you or be dishonest toward you, you can bet that lying to his wife is the tip of the iceberg. Consider this - he also willingly cheated on her, broke the vows he made on his (first) wedding day, and then deceived her about his alleged love for her while he was cheating. Add to that the fact that you helped him with many of those deceptions and I would guess he'll not have a very hard time deceiving you too.

RSJ

What's your relationship now? Just hanging out? Living together? Almost all of these relationships are temporary. Leave him and find a better guy. And if you knew that he was married when you got involved, not so good.....

LEXI4U

Well, I am with a married man and he does lie to his wife.
To be honest, I don't feel bad that he lies; I really don't.
Why ?

JAS

Well you have to assume that he is the way he is. Which means if he can feel okay about lying to everybody else, believe he can do it just as easily with you. It will likely come back and bite you in the butt later on in life, what you're doing to this woman and her family. It wouldn't do you any harm to set your standards a little higher when looking for a man to trust. If you ask me, you're asking for it.

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