If you had to start over again (after divorce) would you get married again?

mari

I am recently divorced. I initially believed that it would be my first & last. I have since realized that people make mistakes & it is in our nature to want to be happy & continue searching for that special someone. So, yes, now I do believe that I would get married again.

telis_gr1

If I fell in love ......YES

mutt

I would never marry again, it's no fun having a controlling husband, who makes my son and I have stress when he's around.It would be so wonderful to never have to watch every word, to not have to live with his putting me and my son down all the time.

kiaSis3lovestodd

It depends on the timing. My kids would all have to be raised first. Then if I met someone I would take it real slow and get to know him very well and I would ask the hard questions that no one thinks of asking a date. I would ask him about his finances, is he out of debt, have a retirement plan, does he have money saved for a rainy day? We forget those things the 1st time around. There would be WAY more questions, but that would be a start.

M.A.X.

I am divorced, and would have to say, "yes".

Everyone has a different reason why they got divorced. Mine was that I was married to the wrong person for the wrong reasons. Don't get me wrong, I don't blame my ex-wife, I blame myself for not taking the time to get to know her. She did nothing wrong except be herself.

It took some time to come to that conclusion. And, I would recommend anyone that gets divorced to also take their time to analyze why they got divorced. Some people are not the "marrying type", and force themselves into many (unsuccessful) marriages. If you jump from one marriage to another without taking the time out to fully figure out why your last marriage failed, you are dooming yourself to divorce.

There's nothing wrong with getting back on the horse, you just need to figure out why you fell off in the first place.

lilac b

HEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWW!!!
No. Not at all. I'm dating someone right now. He is a GREAT person. Sweet and wonderful. He has asked me to marry him. At first I was so impressed and flattered that he thought so much of me that I didn't say no. Then I slept on it, and decided that I really have to be true to MYSELF, and I told him NO.

I will NOT ever be married again. My point of view may change down the line......but RIGHT NOW.....in THIS PRESENT DAY AND AGE......HHHEEELLLLLLLL NO!

ravensfan172003

Certainly. Divorce is a bad thing, but think of all the lessons one can learn from divorce. People can better understand what they want and what they should come to expect from marriage. People will be better prepared for marriage because of the divorce.
I can't ever see myself being alone and not having someone to care about. Someone to talk to. Divorce will cause some trauma to its sufferers, but at the same time, i can grow and be a better person for it and when I do get married again, I can take the lessons from the previous marriage and make things work better in this marriage.

Suesan W

depends on the guy. I would definately check the new guy out and take my time doing it. You may want to have a nest egg set up just in case. If nothing else it will give you a 2nd honeymoon in say 15 years.

vgilbertk

Maybe, If I feel in love

bigjohny8x

no, learn your lesson the first time

Marie

NO way.

misydoll

Yes, I would get married again. It would be hard to be all alone again after all these years.

willowz

no...

six7foru

Not NO, but HELL NO

Bakery Man

I don't know, because I never married, yet

I've never even had a girlfriend

portia s

That's a hard question, he would really have to bring it.

nita

i did. i just thank my ex for showing me what to look for in the future. i did . and i am happy.

Tonya L

Nope. Well, maybe.

kiss me

I did......THE best decision I ever made. My new husband (of 3 years) also did it. You just have to make sure that the person in question is really and truly worth it.

Right Wing Extremist

Do you mean like the first time, because I have found the most wonderful man in the world and got married again. I never thought there was accually a real man out there any more.

ladyk

First. give yourself time to heal; then try again and again until you get it right. You have to pray and ask for Mr. Right. Don't settle for just anything and anyone.

Why not me

Well the joke was on me, to my surprise I was cheated on. I am currently in the process of divorcing, I won't say never, but I'm liking being without the assumed obligations that go with marriage. I say enjoy the gifts life has to offer.

jojo

I would as long as I met someone that I knew would be right for me and if I seen he was different from my ex.

Just curious..

In time, I may look for someone serious again. For now, I'm just passing time.

froggie47469

I got a divorce a year ago after 17 yrs of a very controlling and mentally abusive person. I am currently dating a very wonderful man that has asked me to marry him, I wear an engagement ring but I am scared as hell to get married agian. What's wrong with just living together? I don't think I can ever marry again.

Debra B

No, I don't believe I would

florida boy

i did.

raewrn

Absolutely! Just because a relationship didn't work out doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with the institution of marriage. Marriage is not at fault, your choice of who to marry was. I am on my second marriage right now as is my husband too and this time I know that I chose right!! I consider the first marriage a learning experience, I found out exactly what I DON"T want and then went and found what I did/do want.

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