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If you keep coming back into each other's lives over 12 years, was it maybe meant to be?
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If you keep coming back into each other's lives over 12 years, was it maybe meant to be?

He was my very first boyfriend when we were 13 years old, my very first kiss.

In high school, he had a big crush on me, but never told me. He passed my locker everyday and was even going to ask me to prom, til someone beat him out.

I liked him too.

Now, we are 27 years old and living on opposite ends of the country. I'm going to visit him in two weeks and he wants me to eventually stay.

In my fantasies, that would be amazing! He says it's meant to be. I'm just afraid because I don't want to make a mistake.

I think I'm really in love. Would moving across the country to be with my first boyfriend 12 years later be absolutely crazy!?

Guys, I'd LOVE to hear from you!!
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Yeah, Sandy... that was a kind of d!ck thing to say. People forget on the internet that you are talking to real people with real feelings. If you are angry and arrogent, maybe you shouldn't be answering questions regarding romance.


    




kashmirkat7777
None of you questions can really be answered UNTIL you go and find out for yourself. Think about how many women move around the world as a military dependent. You at least already know him. OR knew how he was 12 years ago. It will be fun and interesting to find out if you bond well now. I wish you all the luck in the world, cause you'll have alot of hard work ahead of you if you decide to move. And, oh if you know any human who hasn't made any mistakes I'll buy a bridge from you. Just take enough time (years) before you marry so that you can have put enough homework in to know if it's a good decision or not.


Butterfly
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Do not listen to Sandy Ego. Obviously she does not have a romantic bone in her body.
Love is taking risks...you win some you lose some.
I say go for it....if you love him...with love sometimes you have to just close your eyes and jump in with both feet and hope for the best.


Sandy Ego
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It could also be that if you're not together after all this time, it's not meant to be.

Yes, it's crazy. Find someone local. You're 27, and still living in a fantasy world.





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