If you knew you were wife/husband were cheating with another married person--would you tell their spouse?

coryshawn

Mind your own business

of course ! are you there already ?

neilmood

NO!!! Why hurt an innocent person? Talk to your spouse and tell her you are going to tell the other person's spouse. That should get some results without you being the "bad guy" ... good luck :)

Sam's Baby Girl

Of course!

eckhart

I like neilmood's answer.

answerman288

yes tell

OREGON COWGIRL

Yes, I would let the other person know it is not only un fair to you but also to the other spouse.

Nita and Michael

Yes, I'd tell them ,they have a right to no...God bless

Mrs Akin

NO WAY, SORRY FOR YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE BUT DO YOU REALLY WANT TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE. I SAY WORK IT OUT OR LEAVE YOUR WIFE AND MOVE ON THE BEST WAY YOU CAN. I'M SURE YOU ARE ALREADY GOING THROUGH SOME MAJOR EMOTIONAL DISTRESS AND GETTING INVOLVED IN THE OTHER MARRIAGE WILL JUST CREATE MORE IN MY OPINION. I AM VERY VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR WIFE'S AFFAIR. HANG IN THERE!

ladyjno7

Honestly, it depends on who it was. A close friend or family member, yes. A co-worker or acquaintance,or friend of a friend, no. Sometimes it is better to mind your own business. I would definitely not tell my boyfriend's wife(LOL)just kidding.

I misunderstood the question. Hell yeah!!!

scott_v1963

Only if I thought we'd hook up

babygirl

YES. you should tell.I think they should know if their spouse is being unfaithful.

I would tell the person but they might nto like u for a little bit until they relize tha tu r really trying to help.

Good Luck!!

whoanelly00

YES, what are you still doing here??!!?? Go over there NOW!!! They need to know too!

â™ â™£â™¥Rogueâ™£â™¥â™

I would make your partner tell the other partner. That would be the punishment....if you decide not to divorce. Nothing better causing your partner the embarressment you have gone through.

sonny

no, it's none of your business.

geronimo178157

Hell yeah I would tell!!!!!!!!!!!they wanna mess up my marriage I'll mess up theirs!

puppyluv67026

YES, I WOULD TELL THEM GET IT ALL OUT IN THE OPEN SO, IT CAN BE RESOLVED AND THE ONE'S THAT ARE HURT BY THESE ACTIONS CAN START THE HEALING PROCESS...TO GET ON WITH THEIR LIVES AS SOON AS POSSIBLE...

titlelady27

that happened to a friend of mine, her husband was cheating on her and her husbands g/f's husband had hired and investigater and had them followed so when he told her he had the proof to go along with it, it is always better to give the other person proof not just words, then it can't be denied

BabyFaced

hell yeah.

fairygodmother

Yes I would.In a heartbeat, with glee

Leena

yes

whitney

The other person has a right to know. I'm sure if the tables were turn you'd want to be told.

roostinit

agreed. Tell them right away.

river_runs

Yes - tell them - and then invite all over for a 3-some or even a 4-some if you invite the other spouse's partner

hoopla

yes
its only fair

SweetPea

Hell yeah the other party has a right to know!! That would be a great set up.

rheannon1976

Yes.....

prayingzigs

You don't want to be the person to do that, it will make you feel better for a bit but in the long run it's never good to be the snitch. The other person probably already knows and just doesn't want to deal with it, if not they'll figure it out soon enough.

shelly

definitely tell them all. get it all out in the open!

Jojo

I have been on both sides of this one unfortunately. The other party does have a right to know, but their partner should be the one to tell them. Would it really gain you anything to tell them apart from revenge. I'm really sorry to hear you are being cheated on. Your partner is the one that should be fretting at the moment not you. If you feel it's an absolute must - tell them get their married lover to tell their partner or else you will. That will do the trick.

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