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Dr. Phil-lys
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No he won't leave. He's not in love with you. He is escaping and avoiding his responsibilites. And the responsibilites are to be a husband, a partner, a lover and a friend to his wife, not you. He's being a coward by avoiding instead of dealing and you are just providing the place for it. Don't you deserve better for yourself? Don't you have the self esteem to say "you know what, I'm going to find someone who is a man and values relationships and family. someone who is emotionally available.". You decide. |
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Dr Dee
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Not a chance if he has kids. |
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aj_lets_go_shopping
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Use you. They almost never leave their wives. |
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Linda
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Depends on how much he loves you, if he has children, if his wife will let him free etc... Depends also on how liberal is the man, his education, his ethics and so on...no fast rule here!
For myself I think a husband that doesn't love his wife ( even if the wife were me!) anymore should get a divorce unless they have children. |
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sk001_h8r
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LindaKailex is completely right... I agree
Be careful |
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lover of Jehovah and Jesus
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use u |
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kelsey
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Once a cheater always a cheater. If he does leave his wife for you, he will cheat on you as well. |
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Gabi
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They rarely leave their wives....
If you do know a married man in love with you, assuming he'll leave his wife for you...will you ever be 100% sure that one day he won't leave you for another one?
Once a cheater always a cheater... |
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May-May`s mommy
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Why would you want him anyways? Once a cheater always a cheater. I would cut off that relationship, as soon as I heard he was married..probably wouldn't even get that far, when I saw his ring. A home wrecker isn't an adoring quality in someone. What ever lies he told you to get in your pants, is just that lies. He cant be trusted, he is cheating on his wife. How ever he feels about her or their relationship, he is still married. He isn't in love with you. He is in love with the thought that he can get sum booty on the side. Dump DA zero, get ur self a real man! and your own! |
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Whitney
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he wont leave her.
...but in the off chance that he does...what do you think hes going to do to you when he gets bored?
end this one. |
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The voice of thinking
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Just use you, if he din't love his wife on some (very strange) levl he wound't be with her. |
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bbsweets_77
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hello you are being stupid, if he can't be faithful to his wife, why would be faithful to you? And does this man have kids? Do you really want to be a homewrecker? He took vows to God and to this woman, don't help him sin, because you will get yours on judgement day too! |
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thebluehaze
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cheats never change, he will never leave his wife and i think you know that. |
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big_dog832001
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Chances are that he won't leave her for you. You'll just continue to be used as long as you are gullible enough to stay with the guy. On the off chance that he does leave her to be with you, what's to keep him from cheating on you? If he'll do it with you then he'll do it to you. A relationship needs to be built of solid foundations. Trust is one of these foundations and the fact that he cheats on his wife shows just how trustworthy he is. Any woman who finds herself in such a relationship should get out of it as soon as possible. |
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karaokecatlady
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Please don't add to his problems. Don't be his mistress or his 2nd best. Be strong. You know the right thing to do. What might feel right isn't always right. |
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folistone
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MARRIED MEN ARE NEVER IN LOVE WITH THERE WIVES BUT STAY MARREID TO THEM FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES AND KEEP A MISTRESS WHO THEY CONFESS TO THEM LOVE FOR THEM THAN THEIR WIVES. IF HE LEAVES HIS WIFE FOR U BELIEVE HE WILL DEFINATELY FIND ANOTHER WOMAN HE LOVES AGAIN AND LEAVE U FOR HER. LAW OF NATURE OR KARMA"WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND" |
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Martyr Machine
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If you know the guy is married why are you still messing with him? How bad would it feel if yu were his wife and she were in your shoes? Trust me, right now, you are destroying lives. You should tell his wife about it yourself. She deserves it. |
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moviegirl
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People stay married for more than just love. If he's still with his wife, and trying to get you to sleep with him, he's a creep. If he divorces his wife, that's different. Remember the saying that a man who marries his mistress is looking to replace her! (meaning get another mistress) |
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fiveflowersbloomin
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if you are involved with a married man remember one thing...even if he leaves her for you...who will he leave you for? |
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thom
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even if he leaves her for you its only a matter of time before there is another woman. if you are OK with him cheating on you then this will probably work out for you.
he may never leave his wife though, cheating might be OK to her. |
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The Truth
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HE WILL NEVER LEAVE HER!!!!!!! NEVER EVER EVER!! I wish someone would have taken the time to tell me that 3yrs ago. |
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gna
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he will use you till you stop him and he may leave her but go back......love's a btch. |
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ERICKSMAMA
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Once a cheater always a cheater. Sure he could leave her, but what happens when the next girl comes along???Would you want him to leave you??? |
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Hallber
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Don't even go there. He is MARRIED therefore not available to you. Surely you can find a man who isn't attached? This man may leave his wife for you - note, I say MAY. But if he did, would you want him? Especially if there are kids involved? It is one thing leaving his wife, it is something else entirely a man abandoning his kids. It says a lot about a man's lack of character if he can walk out on his kids to be with another woman...
Take it from me, I have seen plenty of horror stories written by women who have been abandoned with children. Once the man walks away, he seldom wants anything to do with his kids because seeing them reminds him of what a heel he has been. Most men blame their wives when they walk away. They refuse to see that actually, their wife is not to blame at all. They walked away because they are weak and selfish and are being self indulgent to a fault.
Go with a married man at your peril but understand - if he has kids he is not only leaving his wife, he is leaving them too. And if he can walk away from his kids, believe me, he will have no trouble abandoning you one day in the not too distant future. |
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marisa3471
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He is just getting what he is not getting from his wife at home and when that is full filed, he will realize he cant leave his wife. |
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lindakailex
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If he were to leave her for you, what do you think the chances are that he will cheat on you? Just something to think about.
Good Luck |
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Zenza
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You never really know. But never count on him leaving his wife, especially if he has kids. If you need a commitment from him, don't get involved unless he's already left her. |
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newyorkgal71
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It depends on the man. You should ask him. |
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stranger
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There is an arabic proverb says , A person who deceives another person for you, A day will come so he will deceive you for another person , do the right thing hope you the best |
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