If you read a E mail sent by your husband to his lover telling her how much he loved her. What would you do?

TONY R

D i don,t wish to compromise our friendship but i don,t think the pig deserved you, i have just been reading some of you questions, and it has left me feeling really angry, you seem such a lovely person
you deserve a lot better

iLOVEhugs:)

Probably give him a good old slap, then go to sleep so i can concentrate on my divorce papers in the morning.
With kids of course, i'd assume there would be some complications.
But if he loves her that much, what on Earth is he doing in YOUR family home?

Positive vibes

Wow! 67,000 points and you are asking something like this?

ginger-girl

He cannot do anything to you that you don't allow. You have to be the one to determine if what you have invested physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually with this man is what you want to fight for. You can take some time and weigh the different outcomes. If he leaves you, then he has made that decision for you. Whatever happens, it is not easy to accept change of this magnitude and all the incidentals that are involved. But you will make it....

Sandy Ego

If the e-mail was written before we were married, I would say nothing. If it was recent, I would ask him about it.

Capt Artoro Li

Just show up your better side by asking is it your new one? Let him answer you and you should reply in a joyable & joking way to give him a shock of his life. He will be different and also will change to a new person.

Half My Love Is In Iraq

Before my husband and I were married, I was working the nightshift at a gas station and he works days so we were drifting apart from not spending anytime together. He had begun to talk to a girl online and I confronted him with the email and he literally looked like a deer caught in the headlights and immediately started apologizing but we split up for 2 months until he called me and told me that he couldn't be without me and that he wanted to come pick me up and "take me home."

We were married a week later and have been happily married ever since! They never appreciate what they have until it's gone.

Sarafina

I'd throw his belongings out onto the lawn, change the locks and call the lawyer. PERIOD.

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No second chances!
If he had another lover during the time we were together, I would walk out without a backwards glance. Forever.
I would print the email first, though, so that he could never deny it, and so that the children would know and understand why we left.
And the other lover could have him. A woman who would take up with a married man scores for herself a cheater. Not much of a prize.

skuleathome

I have, and there is nothing you can do but wait for the infatuation to fizzle out. Or kick him out of course.

bored_and_fat

divorce petition, and make sure that the lover knows he's married, she may not

Quizard

Pack his bags and change the locks.

accentedflirt

I would print out the email as evidence, file for divorce and make sure that I take him for every penny he has. Literally.

glenys

Confront him with it, or it will just eat away at you.

Porky

CONFRONT HIM or INSTALL some really good SPYWARE

Optimist has a valid point- Why do you have 67,000 points and and only 6% best answers? That may give you insight into your husband's email. Too much time on YA and not enough with Hubby.

Jennifer

confront him about it

If you say so

Idk.
He would probably be wearing the pc on his head as he was picking up his clothes from the yard.
Then again maybe I would be consumed with jealousy and try to work things out.
you really can't say till you are in that position.
I suppose it all depends on if you still love and want him.

kashmirkat7777

well what would you tell your best friend or little sister to do about it? You should follow that advice. The marriage license means nothing to him obviously, so why should your feelings for him override your natural self defense mechanisms?

brendie

divorce him right then.

askme

Hit him where it counts!!! His wallet!!

golfgirl3

I would go to him and say whats up? And tell him we need to talk.

steve

send a nother Email if you want him come and get him

video production

First I would be in complete shock, then I would ask him about it.

JAMES -

first thing print it out. A dozen copies, in case you need them.

Now decide what you want to do, divorce, fight or whatever.

You can just leave a copy lying where he will find it, & see
what happens next.

what you do is up to you. Personally If I saw a similar email
from my wife it would not bother me because I am not interested in what she does anyway.

Kate

I agree with star

x <3 ChLoE <3 x

id punch him in da face. but 1st i'd print off da email & make him beg for forgivness. then chuck him out. not sayin datz wot u shud do, but itz wot I wud do! lol x

Enigma

What a thing to find. Shock would be the first feeling. Then logic would step in. There is love, there is infatuation, there are men who say anything flippantly to get what they want.

It would be up to you to handle this your own way. You either wait for it to fizzle out and most times it does. They nearly always stay with the wife.

You see, the wife is a very useful commodity. When they get into scrapes with their lovers they can say 'well actually I am married and I can't divorce her blah blah blah.....'

Does his do it all the time. Have lovers? Would letting him know you know the score stop it and make him forever faithful from now on?

Only you can sort this thing out the way you want it. Make it work for you girl if you are keeping him.

Good luck.

Liz

Leave him. Once the trust is broken, there is no chance of a relationship.

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