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If you think your colleague is having an affair should you tell their partner?
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If you think your colleague is having an affair should you tell their partner?



    




CrosbyShow87
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I wouldnt you might just create a lot of enemies by doing this, and you dont need that.


flyingconfused
No way, it's got nothing to do with you.


missree
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hell no it's none of your business how do you know that they are not seperated but still living in the same house?


Tiffany C
are you in a close friendshipp with yhese people?I think you should because being cheated on by somone you love is the worst pain in the world. You should give that other person the opportubity to leave and find someone that will be true to them. I HATE PEOPLE THAT CHEAT. Its so self centered and ignorant!!! Why cheat?If youre not happy just leave. Cheating never turns out for the good......unlesss you tell this person and open thier eyes.I was cheated on by my ex that i truly loved and it HURT LIKE HELL but i was happy that my eyes were opened and that i now have the chance to find true love...not imitation.


T-baby
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no stay out of it it could back fire on you


3 para
NO KEEP WELL CLEAR FROM THAT IDEA,THEY WILL ONLY LOOK AT YOU AS A TELLTALE WHEN ITS OUT IN THE OPEN AND THEY HAVE RESOLVED THEIR RELATIONSHIP..


finallyfree
No. It is not your place to tell.


bbikin
No. They will find out on their own.

Even if you show up with photo's, video's, and the whole Cheater's crew, you will be hated for being the bearer of such bad news!


abilityunknown
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NO...KEEP QUIET


Faith
Probably not. If you know them on a business basis, it's better to stay out of it.


melimel
I don't think that's any of your buisness, you didn't say "my best friend's partner" it's your colleague, so I think you should stay out of it.


Helen P
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No! but it might be a good idea to have a word with the colleague, saying if the colleague wants to carry on the affair he should end it with their partner or visa versa, they cant have both.


pixiestellmeto
You should only think of saying something if you know for sure.


whisper001
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NO KEEP OUT OF IT


?
No its none of your business and neither him/her or their partner will thank you.


sexychocolatecity21
If you are very close friends to your colleague partners you will have to more than a thought, you will need some serious proof and even than they may not want to here it! Because know one wants to know that there spouse is cheating. If your reason is to be malicious that is juvenile. If you don't want to see them hurt you may want to approach your colleague first! But you better have some proof!! "Some date, time and place proof!"


evilted_2
No, colleagues are a work thing and their private life is exactly that, private.
I would be furious if anyone I work with thought they had any right to get involved in what I do in my time outside work. The two parts of life (work and home) are separate.


2u
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if you want to impress and use 'colleague' you should also know that 'their' is plural.


Chuckles D
It depends on how close you are to both of them. If you are not close, it might be better to stay out of it. Of course, if the colleague gets an STD or AIDS, and gives it to his or her partner, that might be kind of tricky...


osellius
Confront the colleague and let them know that, you know what they are doing.


robbief1999
Only if you want to interfere in someone else's private life and ruin their relationships. Would you like someone to do that to you?


bad_bob_69
No! Stay out of it


free_angel
No, stay out of it and let them figure it out themselves.


Helen
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NO ! what think and what you know are two entirely different things , perhaps your colleague is being a little elusive because he is trying to organise a wedding before proposing to his girlfriend ?
how would you feel then ?


stoutseun69
Only if you are friends with the partner and you can prove it. It will cause problems for you in the work environment and its not worth it having to watch out for someone who is wants to get you back.


Tatty
No, because if you do and whoever is having the affair finds out ... (and they will)
Then people will say that you can`t be trusted, and it could trun nasty.


happy kushi
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no
if they live happily i dont want to keep any fire in between them but its better to know her by her hubby .


dubgirl26
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No i would say not unless you are a good friend of the partner i'd keep well out of it you still have to go into work and face that colleague everyday. its their business let them deal with it.


Minxy
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If I knew their partner I think I would.
Although really it is not your business. But I know
if my partner was having an affair I would hope that
someone would have the courage to tell me.
Follow your instincts. But be 100% certain!!


D D
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no you are only are work colleague you prob ally don't know the full truth someone such as a family member should say


Rocio V
NO!!! You never get in to other peoples problems because you will be caught in the middle and it could get ugly, plus lose a friendship
Bottom line is mind YOUR own BUSINESS!





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