If you were cheated on, would u give 2nd chance?

Answer Man

no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no...

should i continue???

i forgiven before to try to save a marriage it doesnt work.

cheaters and beaters are repeaters...

once they are given a second chance they will do it again and again and again.... they learn to hide it better.

kristy182003

I would say it all depends on how you fell about the person and if you feel that they are capable of change because we all make mistakes but it is all in what you can learn from the mistake we make!!!!

laurenraye81

I was cheated on and took him back believing he had changed and was going to continue to earn my trust back. I was fooled again....but at least if you give it another chance and it happens again you can ALWAYS look back and hold your head up high and know you gave it every opportunity possible. It's not easy getting burned a second time, but it beats wondering "what if" the rest of your life.

Tix

If you are married, and you choose to forgive, then for everyone's sake: forget also. If you cannot forgive and forget, then get out! If you are not married, I'd seriously consider moving on before it happens again because there was obviously not enough love on one's part to hold you two together.

starrrrgazer

I am currently doing so. It's been 1.5 years since I discovered the affair and it ended.

Ironic

It recently happened to me, and I did give her a second chance because I love her.
We're getting engaged soon, we've talked A LOT about everything, and we have plenty of trust on each other.
We've also been going out for almost 7 years.
I also cheated on her a few years ago - and she knows this. It was all (both) a mistake.

getlostnochance2000

This question is a matter of the heart. It has been said that love is blind,and over and over it is proven to be true.
Yes, If i love the person who cheated on me i would give a second chance to redeem himself but i will not make it easy for him.

tink

Only one second chance. If they do it again after that then that's it. I got a second chance.

wtf

People who cheat are not brave their stupid but some people do forgive them. For the sake of the kids maybe.

BRE

a second chance??
I wouldn't end my marriage but it would be hell for my husband

Gringa_uno

If I truly love him,, and he acts like he loves me and wants to try to make it work,,,, Yes,,,, but a 3rd chance "NEVER"

PLB

YEA EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE....AFTER ALL WE ARE HUMAN

Maggie E

And how has that partner showed repentance of wut they've done. That would give you some clue. Don't make it easy for them....they need to gain your trust again. Wut does your heart tell you? If they do it a second time....you know wut to do.

andyouare

I did forgive. It takes a lot of time and commitment on the cheater and the one who was cheated on. If you choose to try to forgive (remember forgiveness is for yourself), do not asks specifics (you really do not need to know). Also, if you are both working on the marriage do not keep bringing up the cheating, move forward. If your partner (the one who cheated) is willing to tow the line (call when late, come right home etc. and account for every part of they day) until you do not question any longer where you partner is. They you might be able to move forward, if your partner is not willing to go though with this, don't give a 2nd chance.

captain2

ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT,NO.

n1tecrwl3r

No, I don't think that I would. Once that trust is gone, it's gone.

KGene1969

yes. I was, and I did. again and again and again, until I couldn't anymore, and she realized it, and left.

its better now.

kemmy

hell no there is no room for seconds

shoe gurl

Such a trciky question! For me, it'd depend on the level of cheating (what actually happened and for how long), who it was with, if there was an emotional attachment and if it was likely to happen again....

tm1trish

I used to say no, never. But then I met a couple that quickly became some of my best friends. The wife had cheated. When he husband found out he went to her, and they cried together. She was very sorry. What he said to her just melted my heart. He said, "Baby, what did I do to send you into the arms of another man? How can I be better? How can I help make us better?" He loves her so much, and I just love them. So I hope I could be as understanding and as loving as he was to her. I hope I'll never have to find out.

claimsadjuster

Been there . . . done that . . . NO!
If you accept him back the first time, guess what? He'll do it again!

garingercompany

Like the saying goes "Once a cheater, always a cheater". I dont believe in second chances when it comes to cheating. Nobody wants to suffer the same heartbreak more than once.

suzangm

No

One can make many mistakes. But, to forget your significant other, and throw honor and vows and commitment out the window, is to make a grave of mistake. Cheating is a form of stealing, it involves every aspect of a persons personality. Not only are lines crossed emotionally, physically and through lack of honor and respect. I know that many have attempted to renew their vows/feelings/commitments after having cheated.....but, once a person crosses the line the remembrance of it....always remains. We have but one life, and I will not.....would not, compromise the richness of it, by continuing on with a cheater. Our lives are so short. Why waste even a small portion of it on someone that does not honor me in every sense?

LoveSlave

No. There's sooo many people that want that one chance with me...and that's all you get.

ducky doo

no because I could never trust the person again. I could try, but I would always wonder if he or she was out cheating everytime they went out the door.

Kevin Merrill

Yes I would, I know people make mistakes, and as soon as they would do it, I know in their heart they would find it wrong, and when they come back to me for forgivness, I would give it to them arms wide open

Carly

no, never

GunXXX

I might but it depends on the situation. Plus if I cheated then she really wouldn't be able to say ANYTHING because she started the cycle.

val .

uhmm i dont know.

i`ve cheated & they gave me a second chance.
i learned from my mistake

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