If you were dating a woman and she told you she had kids....?

blueberry

why should i judge her because of this?

dukemack

would want to know the situation and her plans.

hotmomma4

I would what the situation is, why she didn't have her kids. The legal system is not always fair. Be very open to the conservation. Let her tell you everything openly. Then make your decisions from there. Mom's have very different reasons for letting there kids go. Try to understand why she doesn't have them. Make your decisions from there.

its likely i will say douche bag

I would ask why, I wouldn't jump to conclusions.

silly_duck96

Not good things.

Janet

irresponsible, selfish, I'll feel sorry for her and sad.. my thoughs will grow and grow with my imagination

drug user? alcoholic? mental illness? gambler? abuser? Grow and grow

One thing though I'm female so I won't date her but I would want to know more about her if she was going to be my friend..

Jane Marple

Sorry but I would think she's not a fit mother and probably have serious addiction or mental problems cause it takes <a lot> to take kids away from a mother. I know it's judgmental, I'm admitting to it.

honeybee72781

I would wonder why she didn't have custody. People do make mistakes, but if she has changed then why hasnt she gone back for custody.

Completly in love

I would want to know why she didnt have custody of any of the kids. It could be the court process taking a long time (which it always does) or it could be becasue she is not a fit mother. If thats the case I wouldnt want to be dating and planning a future with that person.

mrsdaniels220

I WOULD THINK THAT SHE WAS VERY IRRESPONSIBLE AND I WOULD THINK TWICE ABOUT HAVING CHILDREN WITH HER. I WOULD STILL DATE HER BUT I WOULD NEED TO KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS REALLY GOING ON WITH HER. BECAUSE A WOMAN W/O THERE CHILDREN IS EITHER 1 VERY KRAZY 2 RETARDED 3 ON DRUGS. AND I WOULDNT WANT EITHER ONE OF THESE PEOPE IN MY LIFE.

~Charity~

I have issues with the idea that a woman isn't taking care of her own children. I wonder whether or not she is irresponsible in the biggest way. It's one thing to not have custody of one but "any" of them!!! Not only is she irresponsible but also very selfish.

mama mia

a few thoughts would run through my mind...she was not able to take care of them so someone else got them...she was a crackhead or something so they wouldnt give them to her.....the father made more money so the stupid courts gave them to him....she was way to young when she had them and gave custudy to the grandparents....there can be so many reasons... the guy or woman should just ask why if they really want to know. dont judge.. the list of reasons could go on and on and people change over time..

Pam R

Apparently she either gave custody or it was taken away. Usually women do not give up custody of their children no matter what. It is a maternal thing. Even if the father has custody and has the means to support them better.
I would be really leery. There could be all kinds of reason that may not be good.

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