If you were my husband, would you be mad at me?

Angie

Well it is all rather overwhelming, but there is no reason for him to be upset with you unless you're taking your frustrations out on him. He's not actually upset with you right?

The tooth isn't your fault.

The car....I seriously doubt YOU were the one that blew the engine unless you were supposed to put oil/water in it and didn't. Most likely the car was ready to die and you just happen to be the one to drive it that day.

The bank...well that was kind of silly. The available balance is never the available balance. Do you have banking software like Quicken or Money? I'd recommend that you start tracking your purchases directly instead of just calling the bank. Those NSFs are a nightmare.

When it rains it pours. Sorry you're going through all of this. It will get better!

Katie

You didn't intentionally chip your tooth, you didn't intentionally blow your engine, and sometimes you overdraw the account.

Stuff happens. Times are tough. He'll be ok.

Joe S

I would be upset but try not to take it out on you. All the same, you can expect some elevated stress. If your husband gets mad at you, don't allow yourself to feel like the victim. But a soft answer might be appropriate.

Sandy Ego

No, I'd be mad at myself for having a wife and kids and not having the means to support them.

NoWomanNoCry

umm i dont see how thats thousands of dollars.

EDIT: Well IF your husband is the only one bringing in the income (not saying he is...just if) then I can see why he could be upset...maybe the stress of trying to pay for all this is getting to him.

vanhammer

Everyone makes mistakes. I have done the same thing before not meaning to overdraw our account. I might be mad for a few minutes but once you explained what happened, I'd get over it and just say we will get it worked out somehow. Ruining your marriage over a mistake or having a huge blowout fight isn't worth it over money.

ONE TRUE GOD

more mad at the situations then you. but it would cause a bit of anger

what are you

No sweetpea i would love you to death . Most woman would get mad at the man for not having everything for them that and cheat on them . You sound like a great woman to me

jackson

I would be a tad ticked and want to put a pencil in my eye.

But life must go on. If i got angry about something that would solve nothing. Again as a MAN who loves his wife I would just deal with it. We are a team.

Mum of1

sorry ur haven such a hard time at the moment dont worry - bad luck only comes in 3's and u seemed got all of that in 1day - if he loves u he will comfort u on ur bad day and not be mad, so dont worry just simple apologies for been upset and ask for a cuddle. my man wouldnt be angry he simple kiss and hug me saying everything will work out and not to worry he is there to help. im sure urs be just the same.

Barry D

No.id be working on a way to make the situation better.

The Lauren

No. Stuff happens. Upset about the situation maybe, but not at you.

Kitty

no, i would feel bad.

WOWZA!

No. Those are all things that were not your fault. Did you TRY to chip your tooth? Did you mean to blow the engine? I mean the bank thing could be your fault but I mean when it rains it pours....If my boyfriend did this. I wouldn't be mad at him, just wondering what karma I was paying back.

david Realtor

I would laugh. SH*T happens. If it is not one thing its another. Everything will work out. In 10 years you two will look back and really get a big laugh out of this. Everything will work out and stop stressing. Everyone has a day like that. You are blessed with family and kids. Smile, do the best you can and money is not everything(it helps). Just remember this when he screws up real bad. Marriage is a give and take thing. I hope the rest of your day goes better.

Jade M

No, I wouldn't be mad. Accidents happen, it's not like you purposely broke your tooth. I doubt that it was your fault that the engine blew in the car. It was bad luck that it happened while you were driving it. The only thing that was in your control was the bounced check, it was just an oversight. Everyone makes mistakes, it shouldn't be that big of a deal. I can understand a spouse being frustrated with the situation but I don't think they should be blaming the other for a series of unfortunate incidents.

im the boss : )

i think he would feel bad i had a shltty day, lol.

you were all jumbled becasue you chipped your freaking tooth and accidently overdew the account.....oops. shlt happens

SHORTY

yes...but if he loves u hell get over it

Germangrl

My car was impounded because I run a shop for 11 hours a day and I have not had a chance to renew my license, which my husband was aware of. I went through a check point and they impounded the vehicle. To top it off I had the wrong number to tow company (webs mistake) I did however get the correct number in the end. It will cost 175 dollars to get it out. My question is would you mad if you were my husband?

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