If you were trapped in an unhappy, controlling abusive marriage would you divorce or work at it?

BabeHeart

If things took a bad turn after we married, I'd try to work on it. If he wasn't willing to work with me then divorce would be the next option...I wouldn't stay in such a situation for long and thankfully would never need to feel "trapped" (I've always got friends/family to help me if I couldn't leave and make it on my own).

taniaess

divorce

shygirl

Divorce him

Tiffany

I'd be outta there like a shot sista!!!!

shannon

Divorce his ***!..

fallgrl01

abuse should end the marriage right then and there, i would be out before you can even say divorce

Monday Monday

Contact a lawyer and get those divorce papers in route. Don't stay eventually you will have nervous break down or worst. Get out, move on.

Anonymous

If you're afraid of your husband, than that's not a marriage, that's a hostage situation.

Norma

1st question to ask your self is.. Do u love him? is so you guess should go to councelling and maybe talk thing and see what bother one another, try to work on your dont's and do's... If you guys love eachother it should work out..... Just talk it through...

Maybe leaving him once will open his eyes and know how much he loves you and cares for you and he will come back a different guy.. Dont belittle yourself. BE STRONG

trick1us

if i may ask what is emotionally and verbally abusive to you you see your additional details of you don't love him tell me you will use an excuse to leave and that usually means you met someone else already i am not saying your a bad woman or wife but is he really abusive or is your way of leaving without you feeling bad

letterstoheather

If you are living with a person who is abusive, you can't fix him. He is the one who has to recognize he has issues, and then work toward change. If he doesn't want to, he never will.

If it were me, i'd do what makes the most sense to me in order to regain control of my own life and some happiness.

take care.

lindsaynvb

Divorce him, especially since you don't love him anymore.I don't blame you there though.

Snlny21

Divorce him!!!!!!!!!!!

HowFuzzyWuzee

That IS NOT what a marriage IS.........move on.....it isn't worth it.

shy2008

Why are you trapped? Out of fear? Time to move on if that's the way it is. You don't love him...don't stay. You can tell yourself it will get better, but chances are it won't improve. If you don't love him, eventually you will resent him and things will get worse. If you already know you don't have feelings for him, it's time to move on. Find a way to do that. Maybe you have friends or family you could go stay with to be safe. You don't have to stay in a relationship that's causing you pain. Hope this helps...

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