If your best friends husband hit on you would you tell her?

muskrat_h8r

Yes...especially since that would make him gay (she would deserve to know that).

darlene g

Just as fast as I could turn around and walk to her or call her

true blue

No. I'm sure she knows him well enough to know that he's a piece of sh**. I wouldn't want to cause her aggravation and jeopardize our friendship.

lilac.

hell yea i wouldnt be a friend if i didnt

zen522

yes

notmyrealname

yes. i'd tell her that her husband is gay.

~StepfordWife~

Of course. If she's your friend, why wouldn't you? If it were my husband, I'd want to know that he was hitting on my friends!!
You'd definitely want to be careful HOW you tell her though... lots of people tend to 'shoot the messenger'.

fairy_moon_goddess22

Yes its bet to be open and honest. Its not good to keep things in. I wouldn't want anyone keeping things from me. What would you want done if you were in someone elses shoes?

Jane D

i would try handling the problem between you and him first. Let him know that you care for your friend very much and don't want to break up there marriage. So please don't try anything with me again. See if you can handle this without bringing her in. this will only cause friction. and if you can deal with it yourself. then nothing needs to ever be said.

ladybug_78

yep

eckeeney2000

How long do you want that person as a best friend?

boo_1313

yes yes yes because that hapend to me with me hubby. he was really drunk.(he dosnt drink no more) but he hit on my best friend and she told me. then i confronted him and he said that never happend so my best friend and i kicked the crap right out of him. she needs to know and if she finds out anouther way she will de-friend you.

Random

Well, is her husband sorry for what he did?? If he is, then I suggest you don't tell her. Do you think he could do it again? If he could, I would suggest that you tell her about it. Put yourself in her position, if your husband hit on your best friend, would you want your friend to tell you?

JAMI E

Yes and I have,honesty is the best policy. He did not get angry but she was very angry with him and she knew she could trust me.

polk2525

Id hit him in the jaw.

MayanPrincess@sbcgglobal.net

Of course!

Nancy M.

No, I would not tell her. If my husband did that to me then I would not want to know. It would hurt me too much. Some things are better left unsaid.

your wonderwall

YES!!!

earthangel_candy

If he seriously hit on me YES I would tell her. As her friend it is your duty to let her know what he did.

lmcbuilder

Two words; camera phone.

BimmerGirl

Of course.

eldoradodave

Are you sure it wasn't just a little friendly flirting? No I wouldn't say anything unless he gets more aggresive

fluttergirl2004

well when my boyfriends friends hit on me I let them know it ain't gonna happen and leave it at that if it happens again then i tell my boyfriend I allow 1 mistake.

Miss_Deb

yes

I told her.

That was not the first time he abused his wedding vows.

Blue Jean

Yes I would. She has the right to know that her husband is not behaving on the straight-and-narrow and their relationship needs to be reassessed.

lnikias5

of course, i believe that a woman has a right to know what kind of dog she's sleeping with. It's going to be a diffucult situation either way. If you don't tell you have the knowledge festering and if she finds out you become an accessory to the act. But if you tell her you become the woman who's making her man's eye wander. I don't envy that position. Good luck either way!

i,m here if you need to talk.

yes but it would be hard to tell her because she will go in Danial, also not beleve you.

tigerprincess_bee

It depends on how you handled things with him. You could have just told him off and let him know that if he ever got out of place with you again, you'd tell her. That way you protect her feelings, but let him know not to get out of line with you again. If you feel close enough to tell her, do it. But remember he might turn the tables on you, and make it look like you came on to him.

Lady Hewitt

Yes i sure would and i would tell her husband off as well!

I would tell her because if the situation was reversed I would want her to tell me

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