.If your friend was cheating on their spouse, do you think you should tell their partner?

Philkillen

Yes,i would tell their partner the truth.I could not live with the guilt of knowing and not telling them.The truth is always the best policy.I will never hurt you babe! and i will always be honest to you.

eryca k

NO. It's called mind your own business. I know it sounds mean but both of them could be cheating.

But my mother used to say what goes on in the dark will come to light.

Rebecca W

I can't think of anything that is less my business than another person's relationship.

ASab

No, if you don't agree with your freinds morals than stop being friends. And if her spouse is smart - he will figure it out on his own.

euclid_avenue_girl

No, use it to bargain for something.

Shia&Colombian

It depends, how close of a friend their partner is to you. Be very carefull !!!!!!!!!!!

Brianna A

no.. its none of ur business

Grow Up!!!

Here is what I say "If you decide now, in the future, or in the past to cheat on your spouse do not cry to me about it, inform me of it, or make other attempts to drag me in on it." Then if later if life they can't remember the boundaries of our friendship then it is time to end the friendship.

angelzwings20032001

No. I would stop hanging out with the both of them. Not your business.

Cori

No, but if you think your should do something confront your friend.

gypsy g

If I told her partner/spouse then I'm not much of a friend to her am I? I've always got my friends' backs. That is what being a friend is all about.

See me and april above would never be friends.

j51ack

Nope, focus on the part of who is your friend. It is more responsible for you to talk your friend out of being a cheat.

bibus75

No one needs friends like this!

myjamsandwich

NO. Their marriage is their business. They will or will not find out on their own. If you interfere it will not play out like it may have a chance to. By that you will SHOCK the system of their union and may ruin any chance for a reconciliation. That is not the ideal way for them to find out. I'm sure you would like for them to have a chance to reconcile on their own and this may take time. The spouse that is cheating may abandon their ways and this again may take time and you have no right invading their marriage or relationship.

rickm913

No.

laninya

nope its nunya be mind your own

whatever

No. Encourage your friend to stop. Remind her of the consequences if her spouse catches her. Seriously, don't tell him. That would be risking your friendship with her.

Kevin

NO, never ever get involved in someones elses relationship. It is not worth it!

Amanda C

I would tell her that I knew what she was doing and that she needed to consider her husband etc. I would also let her know that I wouldn't be able to help her keep her secret as that would implicate me in the lie. I would ask her to come clean with her husband and hope that she would come to her senses.

No More

You have to treat it very differently because the reality is that your friend will hate you for blabbing and their spouse might even be hate you for being the barer of bad news.

I would leave it alone unless you have been roped into the web of lies or are being used as an alibi or something... In that case you should give your friend an opportunity to clean up the mess, or even to confess, before you start talking.

I have experience with being caught in the middle of this situation before... all you can do is wait for the train-wreck and then decide who deserves your support. Good Luck.

George H

Um. NO its none of your buisness

jack10

never i will not wreck a family,but warn the cheaters and threaten them that i will tell ur family

Hiney

Not my business. Not my problem.

Obsidian

No, that would be a complete waste of time. Eventually, your friend will pay for the infidelity. But, you should tell your friend that you don't hang around adulterers and distance yourself from him/her. If he or she is cheating and brings home a STD or AIDS, it will be sad, but that is life.

askaway2009

No. Friends know their friends always look out for their best interests, and if they haven't told them its because it's not in their best interest! (or at least what they dont want)

fallen angel

i wouldn't because then you will be right there in the middle ...

cutiehoney242

No, but if they were that is they're life and they're decision what to do. If you but in she will not forgive you for it. Leave it be. It isn't your fight.

April

I woudldn't per say "tell" the partner.

I might ask "Hey, where was so and so last night, I couldn't get a hold of her."

The person may figure it out, but I'd just stay out of it all together. Especially if you knew the friend first!

Blueeyed

I'd never do it

BRUJITAPORTI

No, first of all is none of your business and second you would lose your friend.

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