If your husband had an affair that resulted in pregnancy would you allow him to see the child?

Aimes

I wouldn't care if he saw his son because I would be out of there..

Just that One

I would never pick anyone over my kids.

If my husband fathered a child out of marriage I would leave him.

It is one thing to cheat but another to make evidence.

Mrs. February

I would leave him so fast and I would take him for everything he is worth !!!!.. As dirty as you are that is how dirty the divorce would be..!!!!

Anji

First off - if my husband had an affair, he would be GONE.

No one should have a say-so if you see your child or not.

He needs to quit making excuses and come up with a final decision.

Michael

If i was a woman he would no longer be my husband if that happened

AlexisM â™¥

No I wouldn't be involved with him or the child.
You said she "thinks" that he is having an affair?? If her husband and you are still hiding the fact that you're both together from her, that's really cruel. You should speak up or tell the guy you're with to set it straight.

Sara

Honestly, that is just messed up. First he can't afford the divorce, but now he's threatening to divorce her if she won't let him see his son??? What the heck? You're still sleeping with him, she's on medication, there is a kid involved... The only answer I can think of is that he should get off his a$$ and divorce the woman, then you two can do whatever the heck you like.

.................

I would DIVORCE him faster than he could blink!
So, with that being said- I really wouldn't care if he ran off with the homewrecker and their love child.

I would also rember that KARMA is a bitter sweet thing and when it came back around to bite the homewrecker and the deadbeat in the A$$ I would be loving EVERY minute of it. : )

phenobarbiedoll@ymail.com

If this happened to me I wouldn't care if he saw the child or not because I would No longer be with him. I would have kicked him to the curb in a hurry.
She is stupid to stay with him.

Sophia & Hazel's Mommy

women like u make me sick.

You don't deserve an answer to your question homewrecker.

Ophelia

I would not be with him, so I wouldn't care.
But yes, if she stays, she should realize he has every right and responsibility to see and support his baby.

But, those are the risks you take when you mess with a married man.
Get child support and raise your baby if that's what you want. When he cheats on you too, don't say we didn't warn you.
Shame on you for bringing a poor, innocent life into this psychotic mess.

Katie B

If it were my husband, the issue about him seeing his son or not would be irrelevant, because he wouldn't be allowed to see ME!

thknuvu

I would divorce him if he were my husband...
How many children does he have with his wife, do they deserve this?
Either way he needs to be a father to the baby, what did it do to not deserve having a father in its life?
You and he deserve each other but the baby deserves better than both of you!

make me

you should have just left him alone in the first place. He was a married man and you ruined it

southern girl

in this situation i would definately divorce him! if it were different, such as he had an affair but now it is ended and he is working on the marriage i would have to seriously consider that. its not fair to the child to have to live without his father because of something stupid the father did. it would not be easy to do, but its not right to punish an innocent child.

Missy M

You screwed a married man, in my opinion you're the scum of the earth... and you CONTINUE to screw a married man... yes that makes you far worse...

It's always sad and pathetic when mistresses end up pregnant and having babies, becasue often times, the men aren't around for the child... my advice to you? Keep you legs crossed, take care of your child, and if babys daddy isn't around because of his wife (who has a darn good reason to feel how she does regardless) then that's the price you pay for screwing another womans husband...

I can't even believe you'd come on here complaining about her when you and him are the pieces of crap and unfortunately there's a child involved, I feel very sorry for your child!

mrs

i can't answer that b/c i would divorce my husband in a heartbeat if he ever cheated on me, with or without a pregnancy.

Katie

Well he would have been long gone but had I accepted that and stayed, it would not be my place to tell him whether or not he could "see" his child. It's not the child's fault his parents are horrible people and brought him into this mess, so in the least he deserves his father around. Not only that, but I'm assuming he's paying child support, so he might as well get what he's paying for. Not only that, but come on...he's not going to divorce her for you or your son. He's already proved that.

She sounds controlling, but hoenst to God you can't blame her... you broke up her home.

DEBBY'S BABY

I cannot answer your question honestly. If my husband ever cheated on me I would walk away there fore I wouldn't care if he saw the child or not.

His wife is not paranoid or being difficult as you would like us to believe. The fact is he IS cheating on her. You screwed her husband she has a reason to have issues with you.

I have a question for you..... What are you going to do when he starts cheating on you???

theoriginalquestmaker

I would allow him to see his child but only supervised visits since he and the mother obviously can't be trusted together.

Amanda C

Oh, he could see his son alright, just not me!! No wonder the woman is on antidepressants! I bet your smiling right now.

court court

wow thats messed up.. home wrecker.... but id stay out of it obviously hes going to see ur child ((ur still F*cking him duhhh

ms.hydrogal

Accept the divorce obviously the father of your child is a complete moron. Why do you want a man like that to a role model for your child?

Emptiness

I would kick his A$$ out & divorce him.

What kind of person is he.
He cheats all the time not just on you but on anyone he can.
What is your son going to learn from that?

*Chloe*

I would not hang about. If I was her I would have left a long time ago and found a man who would treat me with respect and love.

If I was you, I would call off the affair for them to talk about their failing marriage. You are both damaging her mental health and deserve each other. I really feel for that poor woman. He should absolutely be allowed to see his son, but they should get a divorce or even just separate if they can't afford a divorce (so that they can save up for it) so that she can find a real man.

Sunlow

I wouldn't be with him after I found out he had an affair.
If he did it once, why would I trust him not to do it again?

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