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Stephanie
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YES WALK AWAY FROM HER!!! Don't give her another chance...how could go you go back to someone that has been cheating on you for 2 years. Yeah I know this is probably hard for the kids, but think about yourself too...why would you put yourself through that? She does not deserve another chance. |
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britbaby
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yup! she will only do it again! |
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cloey
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walk a way and do not look back |
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hardhoustonprofessional
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Even if you take her back, she will cheat with him or someone else. People don't change! Let her make someone elses life miserable. |
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gargantua
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Run like it's the Olympics!!!! |
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ben
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Yes, walk away, she deserves it!!! |
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sundayschool
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NOPE, UH HU> |
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photo
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YES! |
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redapples
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yes you should.. she's just a ***.. there's a chance she will repeat what she did.. don't take the risk.. |
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kaelieeee
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yes just walk away, if she is just upset with him and thats why she is coming back, that is horrible. dont risk being hurt again |
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Chris B
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Its up to you, but statistically, cheaters will cheat again.
Your heart must still be for her, but in reality you will have to live with that anger and hurt she created for the rest of your life.
I've been there, and sometimes it is better just to start new while your still relatively young. |
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Jason
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say PISS OFF ***** |
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Aunt Doobie
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I wouldn't be able to trust her again. Are you sure the kids are yours? |
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marchineagle4110
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just think of this...
"shame on you if you fool me once, SHAME ON ME IF YOU FOOL ME TWICE."
she said she wouldn't do it in the first place right? so what makes you think she won't do it again. do you really want to be hurt again? |
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JFio
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stay away from that cheating ***** |
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lil miss cupcake
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yes, please keep walking.
im sure there is someone else thats good enough for u. |
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barbie
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get someone who wont cheat on you ? |
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Nomi
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Well, from just the information you give -- she cheated for 2 years (!) and now you think she's just mad at this other guy -- I'd say yes, walk away. It's very sad. You have four kids. Must really stink. |
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FiniteOxide
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people like that are like a bad poison. They say one thing, but do another.
And the last time i checked, poison is still BAD for you...
Two choices: Stay there and continue to take poison.
Do not stay there. Do not take the poison.
You might be thinking: "Gee I've already ingested so much of this, why not just finish the job off?"
Remember there are antidotes to poison. And one of them is not poison...
Do you see where I am going with this?
EDIT:
Heed the warning below me: "Are you sure the kids are yours?" This is not to make light of the situation, but to open your eyes to another grim reality before the fact...
You have been warned. |
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Soldier Girl
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walk away. don't take her back..you deserve better than her. she is a dirty wh*** and doesn't deserve you.she obviously loves this other guy and cant make up her mind. you need to keep all kids and raise them. you could give them to her and watch them grow up just like her..but i don't think you want your kids miserable and depressed for the rest of their lives....LEAVE HER!!!!!!!!!! |
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Jessica
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i would honestly say, follow your heart.
but if she broke your heart
+ cheated on u for 2 years, theres no trust.
how would u ever trust her again? |
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Big P
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Some people need to be put in a situation to feel the ripple effect their devious dirty actions. You need to find out what else is in her. You will be surprised of what you will find. |
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eezzeeluv
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yes dude..divorce her and go to court to get custody for the kids. gud luck =)
once a cheater always a cheater |
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just me
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It will not hurt to give her another chance. If you are up to it, do it. If not, do not. Understand the decision you make not only affects you but it affects your 4 children. I am sure you are not perfect so don't expect perfection from her. I say give it a try but first lay out the ground rules. Don't make her walk on egg shells but tell her to what you expect from her. Also, make sure you know what she expects of you. If she steps out again, there is no point in you living in misery. I can say this because my wife had an affair as well. The hardest thing I have ever had to live with. Especially when you think about how much she made me look like a fool. However, this is my marriage and not everyone else's...many people did not want us back to gether and we gave it a try. two years later we are okay. It is not perfect but there are not any perfect marriages. Good Luck! |
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Keeper
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Probably be the easiest fix. If you love her and can't live without her, then you will have to totally forgive her without any anomosity what-so-ever. If that's possible with you, then you may have a chance. The thing is, why did she do that to begin with and what is the proof it won't happen again. That's the thing? |
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Kiana M
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this is my modo do once it will never happen again
do it twice and its surely to happen a third
plus i would consider the children maybe you could make a deal with her if she cheats again then you will file for divorce and take custody of the children. it wouldnt be a threat but it would be showing her what she is putting the kids through. |
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lvcagal
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Yes... turn and run.... if you go back to her she will basically think its ok to go do it agan. Dont let her do as she pleases, going and coming back when ever she wants to |
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i <3 edward cullen (twilight)
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yes, because she could do it again. but also don't let your kids know.. since they are under 8.. well let them know bu yea.. it would hurt them.. if your wife came back after messing with another married man it just means your the re-bound man again!!! its been 9 months but its up to you. you should let her know!! |
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verite immacule
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You sound like you already know what to do. You just need motivation to do so. It's hard. She's been long gone. It's all about you now. For the sake of the children, I see why you would stay. I say unless both parties (you and her, not she and lame-o) agree to attend counseling, there is no chance. I wouldn't take her back, but it's not my life. If it were, the title question would be more how do I survive my jail time? |
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