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Diane D
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both, what goes around comes around |
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useurbrain
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Probably revenge. Don't like it, do you?! |
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Crunchy Sweet
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What's good for the goose is good for the gander. |
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lynnette r
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i have learned that when men cheat it is for lust, most of the time when women cheat it is for companionship. women usually leave when they feel they have exhausted all avenues of putting up w/their spouses bs. all we want is what we give back in a relationship. so revenge, i don't think so, but when enough is enough we're out. |
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ocean's mommy
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both |
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Crystal G
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its both but more of revenge. what goes around comes around. you both need to stop playing games. if the marriage is beyond repair leave so you both can be happy and not always blaming each other for the others mistakes. life is to short for this inmature game playing. GodBless |
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punxsutawney phil
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who cares. you both need a flogging. |
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Poppet
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It is called revenge cheating and it solves nothing and sadly doesn't make anyone feel better. |
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queenofsiberia
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Two wrongs don't make a right. |
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imissmahboo
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honestly? it depends on your wife -
i would never cheat for revenge - i feel so much higher of myself than letting someone else in there just because your *** fuhked up ~ i hope i would never cheat anyway - but if i did it wouldnt just be cheating - it would be because he actually gives me what i need ( probally emotional support and listens to what i say and can carry on a converstaion with me ) - |
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hugsandhissyfits
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You are the only one who knows the real intentions and really all it did was to hurt the relationship...its better if you love her to mend it and know shes the most important thing in your life.If not move on and learn to love again a true love not a one night stand to get back at someone. |
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bgee2001ca
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Revenge, or not, it is cheating, and it was not right for either of you to do it. |
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snydley124
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probably revenge, or maybe she just don't care anymore, I know I wouldn't |
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Doom Tints
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It's both, but it's also neither. Take it as a sign that she no longer trusts you and doesn't think your relationship has a future.
In a nutshell, you ruined it. |
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sugar_butt86
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Either way, it's cheating! She's just stooping down to your level. |
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Gina M
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most probably revenge. how does it feel to be cheated on!? |
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KANE
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A wise man once said, "Two wrongs don't make a right". But an idiot also said, "Well two right's make a left (HOHOOHO)"
I would listen to the wise man. |
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Zykoe
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its not just revenge... its like telling you... "hey... if u can do it.. so do I..." how's that for a change... |
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Aimee Milani
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She might have had previous fantasies of cheating which she could not do because it is considered wrong but your cheating justifies her, dissolves her guilt that she can do it anyway, afterall you did it already. |
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luminosa
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It's probably both. If she's not still interested in you she would have thrown your cheating butt out on the curb along with your clothes. So yes, she's cheating. And, yes, she's getting her revenge. Now the thing to do, since you started this little shopping spree.... Tell her you are sorry, and that you got your dose of bitter medicine. Ask her if she wants to give it another shot and try to work towards a happy marriage. Be sure to convince her you will do no more shopping and you wish the same from her. |
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Maria
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It's revenge cheating. What difference does it make? You obviously weren't meant for each other. |
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Simplygreat
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You guyz need some mediator to soften things here. She needs to have her heart mended coz her heart feels like f-ing sh*tt rite now, coz you cheated on her and she still hasn't forgiven you and has kept very bitter, angry feelings towards you that resulted in this action (more like a reaction by the way). She's a lil impatient to go thru with this action tho. Two wrongs don't make a right. |
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Sweet Suzy 777!
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It is adultery. |
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franja
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Either/or...
but it's time to admit there's no point staying together. |
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Sleepyguy
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its both |
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T the D
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Well it's probably both...
She might feel that it is her right to cheat after having been cheated on. But it's all still cheating.
These two people need counseling, and quick! |
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Trish
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Ask her, she will tell you |
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Esm[][]th
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Cheating is just that cheating..
Maybe it's her way of taking revenge but that is some childish sh*t right there and borderline pathetic if you ask me.. |
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pixieotr
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2 wrongs don't make 1 right, cheating is cheating. time to get out of this relationship and move on |
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♥trista
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Could be revenge and most likely is, but its still cheating no matter what!! |
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