Im 40 years old and i have just become single.?

mah_babez02

Friends and family can hook you up...?

DWInSTL

Supermarket, star bucks, cafe, restaurant, just about any place where there are other live, breathing humans...Open with a hello and go from there...Pretty simple stuff...Not rocket science...

Marina

Keep doing what *really* interests you and fellow travelers will show up. It won't be instantaneous but that's how I believe it can be done.

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You almost had me but i watn a guy that goes to chruch . Sorry

xroxme1

you can meet people at the grocery store,movies,through friends,at work,walking down the street,everywhere...

Correct one will soon find you, don't worry.

Lulu

at wedding so ill invite you to one

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Suzy Q

Go where there are people. Not bars, go to a coffee house a book store. Go where there are women. Ask your friends to set you up. Let it be known you want to go out and met some girls.

cutie

OMG! Its hard, and the harder you look the harder it gets, its not fun being alone but enjoy it for awhile, especially since you say you work so hard, save some cash, take a nice vacation, or take some time off work and join a bowling team or baseball team. Just dont stress on it, sonner or later you will hook up!

jessica r

the only way is just go out in public always look for the right women wh o knows where you will meet her it could be in walmart.. good luck

Elizabeth P

You can meet people through work, I'm sure. Friends are also a good resource. They know you well and know your personality. Take up a hobby or interest that you really care about. What better way to find a person that you could have a common bond with? Good luck.

sp4sheehan

you say you do not go to church. try it. or go to the local courthouse and see who is filing for divorce.

choti

Hope you realize that you will never meet anyone if you don't sicialize. It is simply impossible. At least socialize with your co workers, accept invitation to gatherings etc. Show genuine interest in other people. Reach out. Good luck and do have fun.

boyklitz

youv'e got to be one lucky dude...have fun being single...have girl friends but dont get into married life again....

where to meet new people? they are everywhere.. in malls, in supermarkets, at your workplace or client office etc.. etc...

cdoubleu37

Vegas.

You are narrowing your choices ,40. most churches have single groups that meet at church and go out at starbucks and other places, dinners, trips to museum. And then they introduce you their friends. Cultivate those you are most interested in.

letterstoheather

Hi...

You could consider joining a gym, taking a class such as karate, or whatever you're interested in... you might consider volunteer work somewhere....with people or animals, perhaps? it depends upon your interests.

Some communities have "singles" groups, too.. you might want to check to see if yours does.. these are not necessarily for dating only! These groups plan day trips and events like picnics and dances so that singles can get together and mingle. You might meet someone in a situation like this, or meet someone through a member?

You could get involved with your community, too...

If you have single friends, or coworkers who get together and do things (dinner after work, or weekend activities) maybe you could join them?

I have known two people who used EHarmony on line dating. It's available for a fee, and i think people who pay must be serious about finding someone... they give intensive personality evaluations and that would be one online service which might be legit... my two friends found very nice people to date... and both met compatible "partners" i might add... one couple is engaged after two years. so it's an option for someone who is busy. you can go to the site and look at it, if nothing else?

In the meantime, perhaps you could fill your spare time with hobbies and doing things you enjoy with family or friends when you can.

i wish you all the best.

pplwatching

Were you married? In a very long term relationship? If so, give yourself time to get over your previous relationship. Learn who you are as a person again. Once you know who you are, then you can begin to figure out what you are looking for in another person.

Tracy M

Diva In New York

Stand on the curb with a sign.

e.j.

sometimes finding new people happens when you least expect it/change up your schedule and do different things,dont hang out with other married people/go downtown to the art institute or museums to meet someone who may have similar interests/join a cooking class-

concernone

Try meeting people doing the activities that you do enjoy. That way at least you know you'll both have something in common. If you like to read, go to the library. Go to grocery store and ask a woman that interest you about a certain brand of food and strike up a conversation. Take a walk in the park or go to the movies and if you see a woman alone ask to join her. Friends, family and work are other good sources. A lot of cities have activities and clubs just for singles...join a class. Whatever you do, make sure you get out and mingle and socialize. She's not going to walk up to your front door.

irishcelt99

pick activeties that you like and have an open mind into trying new things when you start having fun just living then you will attract women that will want to spend time with you. If you are just looking for women then the search will be ten times harder than when you are not really looking. I hope this makes since it did to me when my dad explained it to me

oracleofohio

Please tell me you have some kind of hobby. If you don't, get one that involves other people and meet women that way. That or open your eyes at work....

2kool4u

Volunteer in a charity. Take dancing classes.

Lovely

its 2007/08..... wake up and realize that the new technology involves you meeting online or you need to get out there and meet someone. I hope you find someone, do you have any friends...probably not, huh?
I suggest throwing a party for Xmas or something, or dating someone from work perhaps, I dont know what to tell someone that wont get out there and mingle.... how sad

teenie

Well hon, all i got to say to you is your in trouble because you don't do anything. You could find miss right at work although your not a married man any longer that might not work.Everyone knows that female co-workers only go after married men.Sorry!

johnnie

you can get one of them mail order brides....??????

onceisenoughilearnedmylesson

I am 45 and newly single, work alot, dont go to bars.
Call me when you start going to church.
And if you do not want to meet someone online, why are you on the internet announcing your single status??

Resor

u sort of are online already!

and dont u know some nice female friends.... im sure some mite secretly have a crush on u or something??

you mite need to go out somewhere to meet someone... n yeah do the friends and family thing..... maybe friends more.... unless your family knows your taste in women??

celeste j

well its pretty easy when u put your mind to it check your local newspaper if u live in a big city there are bound to be single functions were heaps of single people of all ages go together to meet each other its fun Ive been to a couple or you could take an opportunity to meet someone one the bus or in a supermarket use your imagination the world full of single people the problem is the single people complain that there is no were to meet the ONE i say that's crap i met my husband 5years ago on the street we literally bumped into each other and the rest as they say is history so dont worry about it to much oh find a hobby meet people and have fun and then you will find the one good luck

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