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Im 48 and getting married ,but have been asked out by an 18 year old male,?
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Im 48 and getting married ,but have been asked out by an 18 year old male,?



    




Epona
well just because you've been asked out by a boy young enough to be your son does not mean you have to act on this. Yes it's a huge compliment, but i think leave it at that and move on...

you have a choice in this:

1. either take the compliment and forget this silly boy and get married and have a wonderful life with your husband

or

2. have what's probably only going to be a fling anyway with this boy and hurt your fiancé...

it's up to you, i can't tell you what to do...

but really i'd just take the compliment and move on

i agree with JJ, the fact that you're even wondering about this makes me wonder if you really are ready and if you really should be marrying this guy


JJ
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If you're wondering whether to go out with the 18 year old then you're not ready to get married.


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What is your question?????????


lickahippo
Yeah some guys will take whatever they can get.


RaceBannonOwnsChuckNorris
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So what if you were?


emsie
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id be laughing my head off


Guys POV
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take it as a large compliment.. pat him on the head and thank him again..


Hank M
Well getting married means no more dating lol
you think hes horney for you or serious?
not sure you are ready to get married yet lol


♥ ♥HONESTY RULES♥♥
I agree with JJ


junkman
OK, why are you in a position to have a 18 yr old boy ask you out ? where is fiance ? you must look hot or real EASY


RetroRanch
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Are you bragging or asking if you should go. If you're asking, the answer is: Yes. Go out with him. Take pictures. Give them to the doofus who wants to marry you, so he knows to dodge that bullet before it's too late.


Fooligan
Either the kid's blind or you're Carol Vorderman


Christine
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asked to be his boy scout troops den mother?


Tigon
Why does this question give me a strange sensation of deja vu?


nuada2000
Your getting married what about your partner,your old enough to know better,don't do it.


BadSanta
Im 21 i got some relationship with a 47 yr mature woman, but now im feel she too old, its just a pass time for him, he will be back soon with his own age.........


VOTE YES ON 3 IN MASSACHUSETTS
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so whats the question??
I am a couple years younger than you and have had that sort of a attention, ...its flattering, but ..i dont know what youre asking.
If you would EVEN CONSIDER it ,than, you have some issues.and i'd advise you not to get married and seek some ....other help.

younger men find older women attractive all the time, no big deal, ..the same with young girls finding older men attractive.


sdoo26
And.................??


Still campaigning in 57 States
That sounds nothing like a question it's a statement with the wrong punctuation.What's the question?


Lily
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I can't help but think that your fiance set this up. Have a good laugh and say "no thanks".


WeeNinja
Either you look extremely gorgeous or that 18 years old is blind... lol jk.


Thomas D
OMG I suppose you're going to teach this 18 yr old "The Facts Of Life" Good lord I,m just cracking up


acedelux
Why cut off your options by getting married? Stay single, explore all your options.


xenonvalkyrie
You should be flattered! But I hope that you have told him that you are "taken"?


Amiii
Seriously give this some thought.

Being young I don't have huge amounts of experience, but I do feel that if you're considering someone else, you shouldnt be getting married.

BUT, if you have accepted a marriage proposal, you must have strong feelings towards your man, and I don't think you should give that up this easily, you probably just aren't ready yet.

Good luck.


FRANCO
You must look ok and he wants a piece of A.S.S. or he must know you are a ho !


stretchjle25
This one is easy - if you love your fiance, say no to the 18 year old. If not...break it off with him and go for the younger guy.





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