Im seeing a Married man?

helena

i think you should just end it because what is the point of being with someone that is not with you 100% i would never have anything to do with a married man its just wrong

Wild Bill

There is no future with that guy. You will always be just a booty call. Go find a guy you can share your life with.

twosey â™¥

he loves himself more than you or his wife.... if he gave a crap about either of you, he would devote himself to one woman... it may be hard, but you need to leave him alone. get over it and find a man who is willing to give you all of him.

pj_mark115

if he will not leave his wife he still loves her more.

hot_tamale962

find a man who is not married, the sooner you get out of this the better, it is only going to make you feel bad in the end and I am sure sharing some one else's man leaves you with a bad feeling, by the way do you really think he loves you when he is with her? don't be stupid~!

essence_05

Does he really love you? Or are you just having a nice time experiencing the thrill of spontaneity?

Yes I believe it is very wrong too. You should be the first to leave.

Jessy C

i HATE people like you!!! your the reason my parents broke up! you want advice??? you only "love" him because you cant fully have him and when you do have him i bet you'll just leave him anyway.

lhmama

Leave NOW!!!!! If he's willing to cheat on his wife, he is willing to cheat on anyone else if he leaves her, including you. Find someone that's not attached. Why is it so hard to understand this. There is no question, what you are both doing is unbelievably WRONG. It isn't love, it's lust.

Nothing but the truth...!!

LMAO....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....if he loved you, he would leave his wife. You are NOTHING to him, but a peice of A*S*S*, all you women are the same. You are being played and you are so desperate and insecure with yourselves that you believe anything. Get a friggin life and find a single man. I hope his wife finds out and finds you....you deserve EVERYTHING you get. Women like you make me sick!!!!!!

slvrstein93

Does he have kids? Either way, you should leave him. You two shouldnt have gotten involved in the first place... plus, if you were to get together, assuming he left his wife, who is to say he wont cheat on you too?

kiphyn b

Bring him with you to the town square and we will horse whip you both from noon till dark.
You made to very great statements in the body of your text!
One is NOT RIGHT
second is NO
add them together to get your answer
NO NOT RIGHT!!!!!!!!!
Get out of it ASAP and Get your own Man!
How would feel if you were His Wife?
I know this is blunt but you needed a reality check!

sweetemtation_123

Why did you even start seeing him in the first place? Of course this man isn't going to leave his wife for you, he has it made a nice loving wife at home and a mistress on the side. And him saying he loves you is a bunch of bull,,, i don't feel for you at all, you knew it was wrong and you went out with him anyway.

Home-wrecker.

He does NOT love you. He is telling you what you want to hear. He is also telling his wife he loves her.

You have no right to a married man. The fact that you know he is married and continue it makes you very pathetic.

He is scum and you deserve him. Unfortunately he wife doesn't deserve what either of you are doing.

People like you make me sick.

Moon

One, I do not condone what you are doing. Two, he doesn't love you because he's not leaving his wife. Three, put yourself in her shoes...would you like that to happen to you? Go find someone that you don't have to share.

Sunshine!

I feel for you, but you said it yourself "he has no intentions of leaving his wife". You should leave him and try to find happiness with someone who can be completely yours unless you like living in shame and always coming in last. You can love a man but in this case you should love yourself more.

trevshez

Hey there, leave him, as hard as it is going to be. If you know he has no intentions of leaving her get out now. I to fell head over heels in love with a fella who had a girl friend, no kids involved on either side. He fell head over heels with me and left his gf and we stayed together. He is the rest of my life now to eternity. So i have a happy ending but i would not stay if he had no intention of not leaving. He honestly dosent luv you enough. Sorry babe.

juju

Step back a moment; though you are in love, ask yourself one question. If you were married to him, how would you feel if you found out he had a girlfriend? If he truly loves you, why won't he leave his wife? If you got together, how do you know you can trust him? Sadly, relationships like this only benefit one person--the man. He has his cake at home (despite what they tell you), and he can have his ice cream on the side (you). You are worth more than this; take the time to ask yourself why being the "other woman" is enough. If anything happened to him, what are your options? Your rights? If you have a child by him, other than child support, what is the long-term outlook for your relationship? It sometimes seems easy to date married men, but you destroy a part of yourself, are with a man that is not in your best interest, and the "relationship" is empty and dishonest. You are worth more than that. Talk to a therapist and find out why you are are accepting less than the best in your life. Break off the relationship. Will it hurt? Probably. But you are worth SOOO much more than this. Good luck and God bless.

Dog_Lover

God says thats not right! So...wait until he gets divorced with his wife.

kthegirl

i know you said you love him, and he loves you, but look at the situation,, he is a bad husband and a bad boyfriend,but to him,he probably feel like a stud, he's got you and his wife,, you know it is wrong and you need to just stop, just think how devistating this will be to his wife when she finds out,cuz she will, duz he have kids??? he is just a selfish liar who only really cares about himself... my husband of 14 years cheated,,, i cant even explain the devistation it caused,,, just stop,,

taste2bold

Gurl thats not love that's lust. I really do think that you need to come back to reality because if he was truely a man he would not cheat on his wife. STOP SEE HIM. This is not worth it, someone feelings are going to get hurt

Jan Stolz

Think about it in this manner - what right to you have inserting yourself into this man's life and relationship with his wife and children? Would you like it if someone did it to you?
There's no future for you, despite your feelings toward him. Try being an adult for once and end this before it goes any further. Its not just your life you're dealing with here.

Summer B

Do you love him or do you love the excitement of being with a married mad? Think of the long term. What if you two had a kid, it wouldn't have a father and you wouldn't have a husband or a man fully devoted to you. You deserve better.

mrs.i must walk

girl, he doesnt love you.this is lust.put yourself in her shoes.if you split up their marriage& have kids w/ him. he will do the same thing to you.ever heard the old saying:never leave the one you love for the one you like because, the one you like will leave you for the one they love.you are overstepping your boundries,his wife could be a jealous insane woman& you could loose your life because of this. you better back off now!if he has no intentions of leaving his wife(red lightbulb moment)get out hes using you.

anonymous

How do you know he loves you if he is not planning on leaving his wife? Even if he was to leave his wife, how could you trust him enough to know he wouldn't do the same thing to you. If he's married and leaving his wife is out of the question, maybe he doesn't love you enough to be with you and just you. He can't have it both ways, either he tells his wife about you and leave her or you should move on.

roughruggedraw

You know this is a difficult situation for you, but you have to end this relationship. Because what you're not considering is that this man betrayed the trust of someone whom he vowed to be with for life. Even if he leaves his wife, what will prevent him from betraying you. I know that's a harsh reality but in general a man who cheats on his wife is not a trustworthy individual. He has to live a lie, and honesty is the foundation for any intimate relationship between any man or woman.

Jude B

How young are you? I hope you are listening to yourself asking such questions...I know you can do better than just thinking that it was ALL WRONG yet not doing anything like flushing the AFFAIR to drain right this minute...It will NEVER ever...WORK..I hope that this man do not have KIDS...because if he does, you should END that right now and i mean now! Please think straight and think of his family that you are trying to ruin, put yourself into his wife's shoes and imagine how you would feel. It HURTS isn't? It HURTS a lot! Could you bear the faces of his kids and wife crying out for HIM when he is not around? I'm sure you can find someone who deserves YOU more because I know you have all the LOVE you can give..but...give it to someone who can LOVE you back completely...You said it yourself that he cannot leave his wife, so don't waste your time...Imagine if your parents got separated because of a third party, would you be hurt for yourself and most especially for your MOM?...It really is hard for now, but, it is better to feel that, when you look back after ending this, you will be happier and you will be able to smile and say "It's Over and you're movin' on!" Don't forget to pray too... I am sure he must have told you that he loves you a lot of times, that you are better than his wife, promised you this and that..and so many things...but please, give yourself a break...if all what he told you are true, do you think he would say that he couldn't give up his family for you? Tonight, look at yourself in mirror, cry all you want...reflect... but most of all imagine yourself being FREE and moving on...I will assure you, you'll be more contended and happier....God will help you through this...i promise you...

Lil_MissVal

Actually you can stop, its a matter of taking action and doing so, block the phone calls, emails and don't allow him to come over and see you. Stand up and know that this guy is in lust with you not in love. Ask yourself is it the excitement that keeps you involved or just the fact that you can send him home to his wife when you get done with him. I bet he says everything you want to hear and you say everything he wants to hear. Let me guess, he is not happy at home and his wife doesn't understand, she is selfish, blah, blah, blah; classical lines. You gotta know that you are more than this. Its not your place to play 2nd to a wife he never intended to leave in the 1st place. I'm sure he sees you as a pick-me-up whenever life at home is not going well...You gotta stop seeing this guy for your sake. Who is to say that the wife don't know about you already and she is waiting for that perfect moment to attack you....she would have every right, you are dipping into her kool-aid. Love will make you do crazy things and you don't know if the wife is crazy like that...You gotta pick your battles, let this man go...If he ain't no good to his wife, how do you think he will be good to you? Love yourself and hope you make the right decision!!!

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