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Catch a Falling Star
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I am very sorry, I can't imagine what you are going through. There are no answers for tough questions like this, but I will be praying for you as well and I know how powerful God is. I truly hope that you know God as your personal Savior. God sent his one and only Son to die on the cross for our sins. All we have to do is believe that God did this and ask him to come into our lives and heart and he will be with you forever. If you truly and genuinly do this you will become a Christian and it is just the begining of many great adventures. Through God you will eventually be able to forgive your husband (not necessarilly be his wife again), but forgive him. God will be with you through every step of the way and times will be tough, but He will always be by your side. I really hope that this helps you. And remember, I will continue to pray for you each day in my daily devotions. I do not know your name, but God does and he will know who I am praying for. God Bless you! |
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jeshzisd
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Honey, you don't need God, you need a LAWYER. You need to sue him for child support. Men like that make me sick. He isn't even thinking about his own children!
DIVORCE him. He didn't cheat on you, he is cheating on you. He hasn't stopped. There is a difference.
Get a lawyer asap. |
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Amanda
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I know it hurts. But your kids need you! You have to be strong for them. Screw him. He is not worth your tears, honey. Change your locks, change your number! And don't take him back. Just know that your kids need you, so be the best mom you can be and put all of your energy in them. |
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noir
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He's an idiot. Hire an attorney, get a divorce, then ding your husband for child support. He won't have a choice in paying for his children then. We'll see how many women he can take out on the town when he's losing half his paycheck every week!
Keep your chin up and don't fold. It sounds like you need to go get food stamps to feed the kids until this all works itself out. Don't be ashamed and know that there have been a thousand women in your shoes before you. Stay strong. |
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lala
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So sorry! But that is one you have to decide for yourself. How I may handle it may be ok for me, but not for you. So don't be influenced by other peoples thoughts. It's what's in your heart and what you are big enough to deal with. And remember that no one else knows what you two have shared besides two beautiful children. Good Luck in your endeavors! |
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Light Bringer
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The great thing is that you prayed, and God heard you, count on that. Help is on the way, so hold fast, and wait for God. He will come, I cannot imagine the pain you are going through, but it will be alright, trust in God, the God of all comfort, and He will give you peace |
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Fire_God_69
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I'm sorry you've been so hurt. My prayers go out for you. |
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pirateron
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Yes its hard but time will heel and never go back because it will be worse take him to court and just move on in life while you are young,geta divorce and dont wait do it now. |
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bballguy4212
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Well there is always the Loraina Bobett method. Chop his "carrot" off then sue him. Then he has no money and can't screw around! I personally would like to whoop his a@@ myself. What a D bag! |
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Gran Gran
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Sounds like you married a boy and not a man. This is hard. I have no advice for you because I have never been in this position. I feel bad for you and your kids.
You need to get some good counseling and a good lawyer. There are places that will help you out that is free or low cost. Since he cannot afford groceries maybe you should turn off his phone. Ü
Hugs!
G.G. |
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Fleur de Lis
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I know it hurts and it is hard. You will be fine. It will take some time, it is tough to get over the anger and the hurt, but you will. I found out my first husband was cheating after only 3 weeks of Marriage. You move on, there are alot of great men out there, |
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Wifa 4 Lifa
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I so sorry to hear that, what a horrible thing to happen to you and your kids. I'm glad that you kicked him out. Be sure to get financial support for your children and stay strong and confident in yourself and in your decision. My only advice to you is to know that time will heal your sorrows and nothing is permanent meaning that you feeling this way won't last forever. You're still a young lady and there will be more opportunities coming at your door. Stay strong, surround yourself with people who love you, and remember when God closes one door he opens another. I will pray for you tonight and ask him to give you strength and comfort in your time of need. =) |
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skawp
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Listen, God hears your cry's and See's your pain. This will not just go away over night. Get your cry out and suite up for the war of life. Sweetheart things like this take a tremendous amount of healing time. I have been through it and many others have been through it as well. Find a local Red Cross or Shelter and they can provide some kind of food for you and your kids. Now, about your husband if he is more interested in spending money that is supposed to feed his children on other women that enough right there should tell you just where his priority's lay. Do not let this man into your life again. Now you see how dependable he is not just for you but for his own children. If you need to talk my door is always open..
God Bless,
Take care |
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wisdom
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this is a hard one,sure it is easy to kick them out.are you sure this is want you want?with only being 23 and 2 small children.i wonder if he has done this before? do you 2 love each other? does he have a job? dont pass this to the other lady, its on your husband. you must first search you heart and soul,and decide want you really want. are you willing to forgive and forget.you will realize a marriage is a lot of work, the trick is to be smarter than him. |
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lins
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listen to what this people tells you...give it time...go for help...were in us...ok.. |
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utah52000
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Find someone that you can talk to a minister priest or couselor then get a lawyer get everything you deserve.But dont take him back anyone that can go to dinner with another woman and leave you home alone with your kids and no food should not have kids nevrmind a wife. I am telling you now if you stay it will only get worse get out so you can take care of your kids properly p.s I hope it works out for you and you kids. I was with a selfish partner and even know i am alone i am happier for my 2 kids |
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jslorri
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Sweetie you did the absolute right thing. What a loser! Its very hard not to dwell and wonder what u did wrong. But trust me...he didnt need reasons...he was just wrong no matter what his excuse is. He has a responsibility and he neglected it. He should be ashamed of himself. One day your children will grow up knowing the difference and he will have to answer for what hes done. For now....you be a strong , awesome mom like you already are for taking the step that you have. Please do not give in to him without him agreeing to counseling of some sort. He owes you and the kids that much. You will be fine. Go get all the help the state can offer you......LET THEM CHASE HIS *** FOR REPAYMENT OF BENEFITS. See how well his dinner date likes him then!!!!! |
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Liz M
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you are on thr right track..kicking his butt to the curb..nice job..it only gets better with time... |
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Laurie
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he is do not worth it you will find someone who will be good to you |
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lelee
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I'm so sorry your hurting. But its best that you know the truth about him. Don't ever trust him again. He's obviously very self absorbed and most people like that just won't change. Your not loosing anything your gaining peace of mind. You be in control now. |
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hamhead
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if your husband has any sense of responsiblity even though he is a big fat turd for doing that...he will get you some food. hopefully you have family or friends to help you out emotionally and financially. maybe you will be able to come to some form of understanding with him about taking care of his family. if that doesnt work, demand that he take care of his own. as far as food and stuff goes there are churchs and food banks everywhere to help.no one deserves that, least of all the kids. oh dont you know i just want to smack him for you.... |
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gun man
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seriously......do you want to talk about it?
i have been through a similar time
my ex-wife repeatedly cheated on me
after i tried to give her chances to be good. |
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just divorced
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First of all get food for the children. Second of all good for you for kicking him out do not let him back in. Just keep praying and look to your children and know that no matter what men come and go children are there always. You love them and they love you it is hard time will heal and try to talk to family or a friend because it sounds like you could use a shoulder to cry on. |
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Darkangel1111
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you need support now-are there any family or friends that live nearby or that you can go to for help--obviously your husband has not been giving support or help of any kind for a while now--if you must apply for financial aid from welfare , at least your children will be able to eat---there are also many vocational programs with childcare so that eventually you can get on your feet and cut that loser out of your life----im sorry your having so much trouble in your life---but you are strong---you will be fine |
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Nikie
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The hardest thing to do is to forget and you probably never will. It's just something that we as women do to protect ourselves from men like that. Move on with your life, live for your kids. Go out there and find your local family support services and see if they can assist you with some financial assistance, housing and food stamps. Advise them that your husband has left and that you are doing without. They should be able to direct you to a shelter that will feed you and the children and send you to do the proper paper work to enroll you into the system for assistance. Get yourself on your feet and stop feeling in the dumps, as a mother we do not have the luxury to stay in a "low" state of mind. Your kids are depending on you to make everything okay, since dad is too busy enjoying life and forgetting his responsibilities its up to you now to make everything fall into place for them. Pick yourself up, move on to the angry stage and use it to your advantage to succeed in life and to move on. The best of luck to you and your family, you are young enough and strong enough to make it through. Stay strong and always remember that you and your children deserve better and deserve respect. Never settle for anything less. take care, and god bless you and the family. |
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awommack
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tell him way you feel |
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