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Midzy
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nope..its d end of the argument. but try not to cry too often. my ex actually thought i was faking to make him feel bad when i cried almost evry argument.. but actually i was really mad. dat guy drove me crazy! |
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FlyingScooter
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Some men think that way, others don't.
I hate it when they cry. Nothing can make a man feel more worthless than making a woman cry.
I try to avoid such things. |
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tinkerbell
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some guys like to push girls to that point it is a power thing others know when they push a girl to that point it is time to run.......... |
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shimalicious
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no, they should feel like a piece of crap for it |
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♦justme♦
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It's usually the other way around. When the woman starts to cry, most men drop it and feel bad for starting the argument in the first place.... |
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ma b
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Who knows what a man thinks ? But its Ok to cry, Dont let him take that fr you.
Ok sweetheart |
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Ms. GTO
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Only if he is a hateful, domineering piece of crap who has to tear someone else down to build himself up. |
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Blackstroke
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I say, awww.. don't cry honey, I'm sorry. Of course I'm not mad at you for spending $700 dollars on that purse!!! |
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pitchingcoach
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No, not at all. That's her trump card. You can't argue with a crying woman. Heaven help me if I had to argue with a crying man. |
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Kimche_Spicy
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I wouldn't think that would be the "signal" of anybody winning. women cry for many different reasons and since we don't know what would be the cause of the cry, then it is not a predictable answer.
Women cry because hormones are out of whack.
Women cry during anything of sadness or reminds them of a sad time or they can relate to the sadness
Women cry because a moment tugged on their heart strings, which could be said if the man had done a generous act that caused the crying, then he may have won her over
If it is due to the argument and she is crying, either he has managed to get her to realize the merits of the argument which could emotionally connect her, then he may have won her over or he has said something so callous and brought her to tears, then he has managed to prove himself all the more so wrong |
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Life ain't always easy
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hahahah No way! When I start crying, that's when my guy knows he has lost, because he knows I am truly angry and not just a little irritated. |
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*Pretty In Pink*
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Nope he knows to stay clear because I might just get crazy enough to start pelting what ever is close like the pot spoon or may be a chair lol. We hardly ever fight to this degree we like discussing our differences instead of yelling he says that I'm to violent especially when I was pregnant lol! |
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Allison, aka Nice Lady
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That's pretty sad. There might be some men who think that, but I think the woman crying means one of three things:
1. He's just simply said something to upset her.
2. She's just frustrated with the situation.
3. She's crying to try to manipulate or guilt him.
The man most likely knows which one it is. |
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SoCalBlonde
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naw...I think it just makes them more confused |
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Aubrea l
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I think they usually do. And I hate that, because lots of the time I cry when I'm crazy angry, not sad or upset. |
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carriegreen13
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Oh, honey, I never cry, those days are over with, I just grab some pillows from the bedroom and just get into some pillow fighting clothes or none at all, and start bashing the h e l l out of him!!!!!!
It is great to take out the aggressions, and it is great for 4 play!!!!!! |
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sr_engr
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Sometimes.
Sometimes he sees it as a manipulative ploy, and gets angry.
If you are faking tears instead of working through real conflict resolution... then you aren't working through conflict resolution. Thats why there are "fights" in the relationship. That sort of manipulation is a great way to sink the relationship.. its trading short-term perception of gain for long-term sustainability.
My suggestion: go to a qualified counselor. Have them do very in-depth personality analysis. |
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BabeHeart
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Only if that was his goal...typically when tears begin, the argument is over (at least for the moment)...doesn't mean anyone "won" though unless the dispute was settled. |
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Gentleman
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Absolutely not , its more like he feels guilty more then anything else . Women are like a flower and they bruise easily and most men do not understand that . However to some men is an issue of control . Good luck and have a nice day |
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Perfectly Kissed
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That depends on the man. If you are talking about a man who doesn't care about your feelings then yes he believes he has won if you cry. If you are talking about a man who is in love with you, no he doesn't believe has won. He knows that he has hurt you and wouldn't want to do it again.
I am sure you have a great life, but perhaps you need to reassess the situation that calls for you to ask this type of questions. Be safe and good luck. |
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KJ
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in 5th grade, yes.
in life, no. |
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No they just think they have hurt her feelings but in reality when she is crying all she is trying to do is win the argument herself and she usually does because most of the time it makes the man feel bad for causing you to cry ao they say don't cry, I'm sorry. its okay, etc. |
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DodgeRam_man
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Nice Lady is all over this one. Women will cry for several different reasons. I as a man married to the same woman for 9 years I know the difference, And relize shortly which one it is. Sometimes from hurt feelings, which is automatic loss for me, sometimes out of frustration, which is automatic loss for me, and sometimes shes trying to guilt me, which is automatic loss for her. When I make her or she makes me awhere of which one it is then the arguement is over. I used the word loss, but NOBODY WINS IN AN arguement. |
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like totally unsure
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Won, never. Soon as the floodgates start we start apologizing or else trying to apease her. That is if he has a heart. |
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sargenta60
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Not really . But if he makes you cry don't stop there because if you know your right let him know that. |
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jjrjeff
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no he doesn't my man comforts me when i cry then he forgive me that he yelled at me. |
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jk1967
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alot of guys do but when i argue it never gets too that level for if it does we shouldn't have bee together in the first place |
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revengeofdl60
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only if the relationship was not ment to last |
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Missangry2008
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No cause my man know when I cry he did something to really bad to upset me. |
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