Is 14 too young to marry?

sneezetushy

it's not too young for dogs to get married. i have a 12 year old dog that just got married last week. it was a beautiful ceremony. i don't know that much about humans, though.

kimbarlaayy

thats called satuory rape.

what you're doing right now is illegal.

go to your school guidance counseler

Larissa Lurid

HAHAH

1. its already illegal
2. if youve done anything together its rape
3. minors cant marry

also theres a chance you might die having a baby since your so young
theres a very good chance of birth complications

Carmela

you're not serious. come on. in case you are---uhh, yeah! you're too young & he's a pedophile.

Cassie

Are you serious? you have no idea what having a child is like and you will regret it. and your so called boyfriend is a disgusting sicko who needs to be put in jail. get away from him. I hope your mom has more sense than you, but probably not since she is letting you date someone that much older than you.

It matters when he is 25 years older than you. That makes him 39 years old. I'm 23 and I wouldn't date a 39 year old. that is disgusting and very wrong. He is a pedophile.

notyou311

Good grief. That is just ridiculous. He is a pedophile.

Greg M

why dont u finiah school and get married when ur actually an adult

Kaleb L

Wtf.. I don't think that is legal.

Kyle G

ew that man is using you...

Jordan M

Ever heard of statutory rape?

Sarah

Yes, you're too young. No you should not be with this guy. It's not healthy!

damnhippies

Yes it's too young.

Monkeyjam

HA !!!!! YER IT'S TOO YOUNG!!!! JEEESE

jenny_penny_06

good lord. of course its too young. and what your boyfriend is doing is considered rape. quit ruining your life. when your 20 years old ull look back on this and wonder why u even wasted your time. i promise u that.

Dbsk<3

Your too young. Wait until you get older.

Mychale MacBheathain

All I have to say about that is ARE YOU NUT"S? Plus, you ARE to young.

Camille Cutajar

I am sorry to point this out to you but your boyfriend is a paedophile and is using you.

Although people can marry under 18, which is adult status, you would need parental consent. However, the authorities will have a hard time allowing a marriage with that age gap to happen. Your boyfriend knows this.

As for having a baby, you are only just out of being a baby yourself. You have the whole world ahead of you, don't waste it.

Does your mum know about your boyfriend's age? Actually perhaps I should be calling him manfriend because he certainly is NO Boy!

Need I go into the legal issues of the whole scenario? If you love him leave him or he will end up in prison, as they can still send him to prison years down the line for raping you. And yes - even if you consented, Legally it is RAPE!

Heather

you've got to be kidding. youre a child and he's old enough to be your dad and there is no judge in their right mind that will let you marry him.

Desperate

yes

yadada

thats wayyyy too young...sorry.

Justdontknow

yes!!!!! you need to live a little first!!!!!

He is way to old for you!!! He could go to jail for this. DONT GET PREGNANT!

guardianangel1298

Honey.YOU ARE 14 BABY,You said he's 25 years older then you. And he wants you to get preg ARE YOU NUT TS.
Listen honey I had my 1st baby at 16 and dated a man who was 28 . All he wanted was someone to push around, Its not Love it's the attention and affection. You shouldn't even want to be married let alone haven a baby. There are no states that will allow him to marry you unless you have your Mom
think about it don't do this please. Talk to your Mom , What this pervert is doing is age nest the law .
guardianangel

Shelby <3

Your too young dear. I'm 20, and my bf is 23, I've been with him for 5 and half years and I still am not ready to be married yet. I wanna finish college first, and so does he.

You need to give it some time. Wait at least till your out of high school or something.

And later the problem might come up, and thats the age difference. His thinking will be definitely different then yours.

And none the less, Do ur parents know about ur bf who is 25 years older than you?

Dating is ok, but its not healthy, and marriage should be out of question.

But then again its ur life, and ur decisions, just make sure u talk to someone in ur family about this. Someone who might know a little better than any of us on yahoo answers.

Good luck

google it <3

YES <3 WAIT TILL UR 20-30

zacharys mommy <3

14 is way too young. i've had several boyfriends since i was 14. and 25 years is a very big age gap. i think you need to think things over carefully. why rush? you're still in highschool. i'd at least weight until you're 18. and the age for consent in ny is 17.

webhead28

14 is too young to even be talking about marriage. Are you out of your mind!!! with a man 24 years older than you. Totally insane!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Little girl, please! Concentrate on your education and getting through puberty before you start talking about men.

erogalinski07

hun, your way way WAY to young to get married. Dont you want an education?! dont think about getting pregnant at this age. Plus your not even 18, Im for sure a parent would never let their CHILD marry a guy 25 years older than the kid. ARE you kidding me?!

Frenchie

Omg! Of course 14 is too young to marry!!! You don't want to drop out of school for some weird old creep! IF HE'S 25 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU THEN HE'S 40!!! That's just plain nasty. I can hardly doubt what you guys have is true love. Give up on him and continue school.

fashion_rocks22

way way way way too youngg .
good luck .

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