Is My Husband on the internet?

I was searching for something in particular and came across a picture of 3 men and a woman doing adult things....lol. Anyway there is a man in the picture who has exactly the same scar as my husband, a very unusual scar! It does not show the head just the torso up...everything looks like him! How do I ask him about such a photo? What if I am wrong? He will know I don't trust him and I was searching for answers?
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thanks for all your answers....I am suspicious as I found out he was adult dating sites...we have been together 19years...I thought it a remote possibility that he had engaged in 'other' activities as he tried to get me into the adult scene..he says he did not, but why would you want your wife to have a profile on a swingers site? unless you thought there was a possibility of things happening?

I am just angry and unsure about how to approach him about this as he can be angry and aggressive towards me!

Carl

That's difficult. I would check the History and see what he has been doing online. Then confront him.

Star

Sounds to me like he is already SWINGING with other people and you have the picture to prove it. Also sounds like he was trying to get you to SWING so then he wouldn't have to feel so guilty about what he was already doing. A man that is ANGRY and AGGRESSIVE alot could be hiding something. I would print the picture and check his computer history and go to his e-mail and try to go to some of the sites he is members of. You might find a lot out about your husband. I would also check his cell phone. Honestly with your husband having a rare scare and the man in the picture looking the very same. I would have to say it's him. You going to want proof if you decide you cant take this kind of living and want to leave him. If he is living like this you are going to want to be careful because he can bring home some NASTY diseases.

ods

I would simply ask him directly. He may not even know about it. What were you searching for anyway? If you were searching for something that he wouldn't agree off, then just make up something else in regards to how you came across the picture. Perhaps, create a fake e-mail and e-mail it to yourself then show it to him and pretend you don't know who sent it to you and why. Just don't be obvious.

fiery redhead 67

if it is an unusual scar and in the same place as his,then i would think it was him also. try and look up the history on the computer and see where he has been. if something unusual comes up,i would print out the picture and show it to him and ask him for his explanation. he may be innocent,but you won't know unless you look for info,because you need to know and you need trust in a marraige. good luck.

dawn

if u have a feeling that its ur husband than it prolly is just bring it up one night and tell him u were looking for something and came across a pic u wanna know about i mean the worst thing he can do is lie to u but it will always be in ur head until u clear it up with him so i would ask him

raspberryph

scars like that are NOT common... you can safely assume it was him. COngrats, you just found out he has cheated on you

Myth_Understood

What ARE the chances of it not being him?

If it looks like a dog and smells like a dog and sounds like a dog, it's probably a dog ...right?

If it's him, what would you do? Before you ask him about the picture, ask yourself that first.

If it is him ... what will you do? Leave him? Be disgusted because he had a 4 way? You said that you were looking for something in particular, and pictures like that are pretty specific, so were you turned on ?

I'm a little confused ...

Clementine

could it be from before you were together? just send him an e-mail and attach the picture, 'Honey, look what I have found! That stud's you in the picture?' See what he comes back with.

dawn

How did you come across this? Just curious!

I don't know, the internet is HUGE and there are tons of people in this world. If you truly think it could be him, print the photo and just explain to him that you stumbled across it... laugh and say "does this not look like you?" Don't press him about it, just that you found a guy that looks like him on the internet and see how he reacts.

happywjc

Don't shame him for it!
Praise him for his performance, and get yours too!
LOL

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