Is a little bit of[physical beatings]abuse in a marriage relationship [NORMAL] in the first yrs of marriage???

ND fan

there is an adjustment period but you should never, ever, let her hit you,

pjbthree

Absolutely NO! Only a wimp with no balls hits a woman

physical violence is never normal ever.

shimmer8820

NO!!!!!!!!!!!

Smalls

No, physical or mental abuse is NEVER NORMAL. Get out now.

Miss Marie

NO! never!! Only a pu**y man needs to hit a woman

Daniel W

are you muslim?

fchyenne

NO ONE SHOULD BE GETTING ABUSED EVER!!!!!

Crimcheck

No not at all. Physical abuse is never acceptable, ever, no way.

Marshmallow

NO, men shouldnt hit women, dont put up with it!!!!!

Keely!

Uhm, violence in a relationship is never okay.
EVER!
You need to either get therapy or get out of the relationship.
Honestly, talk to someone close to you, let them know what's going on.
CALL THE POLICE!
Ahhg.

jitterbug

Any kind of abuse is not normal. Something is wrong somewhere. Its not healthy for the relationship.

BabeHeart

I hope you are joking (although it's not the least bit amusing).

It's never okay, ever. Period.

Dom B

are you kiddin me?

justakiss62

NO ABSOLUTELY NOT.......He should never lay a hand on you or you on him....if it goes that far you need counseling and separation.

iiidontknowdoyou

Absolutley not! Abuse is NEVER normal!

UFO

Only if your a sadist !!

John M

NO WAY! No one should have to put up with this s**t. There is no excuse! Coward!

Stacy S

Not normal

Megan F

No!!

irishboyo

Yes but keep it in the bedroom and dont forget to use a safe word!

â™¥Lin

No Its not normal

Irishdivil1960

absolutely not!! Get out and stay out. This is horrendous that you would even think of this as normal, do you live in a cave?? This is the 21st century for goodness sake

Johnny

Yeah as others have saidâ€¦ physical abuse is illegal, and definitely not normal or socially acceptable. I won't stand up for any man who beats his wife, it shows they're a complete coward and can't even treat those who are closest to them with respect.

In my view there's too many blokes out there who use physical and verbal threats to control women. It's wrong, nobody should have to endure it.

kari

definately not! for me marriage is about being a team. my husband used to like to hit the wall and things till i went absolutely nuts at him coz i couldn't stand even that sort of aggression.
ask yourself if you're happy.
try talking to him.
good luck

Billy Ireland79

Seek help lady.

I'm trying to be a Good Wife

No it's not normal my ex use to beat on me after i divorced him he stalked me for almost 2 years until i found my now husband guess who took the beating then my husband toyed with my ex at a event that had about 12000 people there it was comical to watch needless to say they carried my ex out on a stretcher lmao.. Men who lay hands on women aren't tough they are cowards and wimps I'm laughing now about the beating he got and that was 16 years ago i kicked him in the ribs then laugh..

To all the wife beaters out there Karma will get you in the end LOL

gac95010

NO MAN SHOULD BE BEATING A WOMAN!!!!!!! You need to get out now!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get an anolment and GIT!!!!!!!!!!

Rachel E

ABSOLUTELY NOT! I'm sure it's hard to accept the fact that you're being abused, because this is a person that you love. But nobody deserves to be abused, let alone a woman being hurt by her own husband. A man that can't respect you does not deserve to have you. And if this is happening early in the marriage, don't expect it to cange if you're allowing it. It sounds as if you're trying to justify his behavior because you don't want this relationship to end. But think of it this way, what would you say if your mother or best friend came to you with the same question? Abuse in any form is not normal. There's a ton of resources out there for women in your situation...please seek some council towards the best decision for yourself. No man is worth tolerating abuse for. Love yourself.

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