Is a man worth fighting for?

My next door neighbor has been flirting with my husband a lot lately. She is always asking him for help with some of the dumbest things. It's like she'll load up her car with heavy things and wait for my husband to cut the grass until she comes home.

She is always wearing things that are ridiculously short and/or tight. This chick waters the grass in a mini skirt and high heels with no bra on.

I know it's my husband's job to keep his member in his pants, but I'm starting to feel insulted by this woman. It's like she's disrespecting me. I don't want to be a controlling B and tell my husband not to be nice to her; he's a nice guy & he's very well known and respected in the neighborhood. But, at the same time, if this woman bends over in front of my husband...I'm gonna stomp her head in.

Dear Jane...

Oooh, I don't blame you on that one. I'm right there with you and I would feel the same way. I think what I would do myself is send her a little "message" that can't technically be traced back to you. A brick through her window while she is OUT (with no prints or witnesses) perhaps? I'd tape a note to it that says "you're next" lol. She'll be so busy with the cute police officers she won't have time to water the grass.

starr

Lol all you can do is have faith that your man won't stray and you're good. She knows he's with you and still doing this, she's obviously attention hungry

Brittani

Your husband needs to be held responsible if he strays. There is temptation all over.

Jessica

Tell him how this makes you feel.
Confront her and tell her that she is being disrespectful and unappropriate.

Yes, some men are worth fighting for, however, some are not. Only you know if YOUR man is worth fighting for or not.

Piglet

This is his fight, not yours. Just show him the trust he deserves.

Hez

Why don't you have a quiet word with her.

Youngandmarried

Yeah wow you might have to step it up and look better than her in front of your husband. And no he should not be helping a woman who is skanky in front of him. He is going to be defensive but its your right as a wife to tell him to back off and she just might move on to someone elses husband. (hopefully for your sake)

Charity

tell your hubby to stop helping her. My hubby is my best friend and i can tell him anything .. He is also a very nice guy and a people person. But if im feeling uncomfortable you better believe he would back me 100 percent..

Courtney M. P.

Remember if he wanted something like that, he wouldn't have married you!!

I am for a preemptive head stomping... I mean waiting until it is over and done is just revenge. Right now she has the upper hand you are the one uncomfortable, turn those tables before she gets the idea that it is okay to go any further. If you stomp her head then she knows where you stand, she needs to believe that the last thing she wants is the neighbor going crazy ***** on her.

Tell your husband to AVOID AVOID AVOID - he may be very well respected and nice, but I doubt she is, don't make him be mean, but make sure he knows how you feel about the situation and that if anything goes sideways that dual head stompings will commence.

That's just rude and disrespectful. It is up to your husband to put a stop to her actively trying to pose favors as a means for her to flirt with him. Sometimes it's not always good to be the nice guy. As long as he continues to help her with her stupids requests,she will keep it up. If she bends over in front of your husband in front of both of you. Laugh out loud, give her a sneaky smile and nod your head. It serves better than her seeing you get mad.

Bella

Yes a man is woth fighting for. But he may not find her physically attractive, or she may not be his type anyway, so she can bend over as much as she likes, but if he prefers you (which I'm sure he would), then she's doing it in vain anyway.

Gemini

You tell your husband not to help her out anymore at all. If he respects you and truly loves you, he will do it. Tell him why this makes you feel uncomfortable and how it is inappropriate. Don't demand him to but ask him to. Weather he does or not will be your answer to if he is worth fighting for or not. Honest, loving, caring, respect full and good hubbys do not help out neighborhood hos.

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