Is affair is good for the marriage?

Daiquiri Dream

It isn't up to us. Do what you will.

chriszchris

LMAO!!!

Sandy M

Well, if you want to destroy your wife's trust, as well as a 12-year marriage, then I say GO FOR IT!

Good luck to you.

wisdom_women

Do you want to go to heaven or hell?

rama b

I had same question for long time. But I feel best thing is divorce and re marry some one else.

Douglas ?

No you need to work with your wife to help bring back the fire or get ready for a Divorce! Cheating is not a solution it only adds to the problem.

rajan t

if you are ready to compromise with totally new person why not to give a chance to yourself to find out what is going wrong in marriage and rectify the mistakes and make a fresh start with your spouse before it is too late.

Bert

Did you talk to her? did you tell her how you feel? remember an affair is not a solution, God hates a broken heart, temptations destroy us forever, pray for her, and ask God to give her the desires to love you more deeply......Jesus loves you

peach_tree67

If you love her and respect her....then find the way to bring up the spark WITH her not with some else...2 makes a couple...3 is a crowd.

dÆ’

affair = bad
wife = good
teach your wife what you want; an affair will only create problems

Michael Timothy

HAVING AN AFFAIR WILL SOLVE ALL OF YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS BECAUSE YOUR MARRAIGE WON'T LAST VERY MUCH LONGER...AFTER YOU HAVE THE AFFAIR....AND THAT'S ONE SURE WAY OF FIXING YOUR PROBLEMS.

ARE YOU REALLY THAT STUPID?

How would you feel if if your partner had an affair.

START DOING NEW THINGS TOGETHER....12 YEARS AND ALL YOU CAN FIGURE OUT IS THAT AN AFFAIR WILL HELP YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

SERIOUSLY

TAKE A COMEDY COURSE TOGETHER....START TRYING TO BE FUNNY AND QUIT WASTING TIME ON THINGS THAT WILL DESTROY YOUR MARRAIGE.

ms_debbieg

why don't you ask your wife - if she thinks it's a good ideas "then you go boy!!!!"

Lana

Hey, I have an idea! Why don't you just ask her?

sony

no, you should not do this, that too with a lady who is there with you and sharing everything with you from last 12 years . what if she does the same with you

Tina S

im dating a guy whos married were doing awesome
17156994725call me for any questions

Curry

If affairs are good for marriage, there would be a lot of great marriages out there judging by the amount of cheating people talk about on here.

taurust_girl27

another problem can never be a solution to a problem.

â™«You hate Cuz I'm a RockStar

NO!..how the heck can that be good?.I say you should talk about it with your wife.Then come back and let us know..Hehe.what a Q.

schuschtermat

I THINK IT'S A GREAT IDEA.
I agree with you 100 %....Please tell your wife to have an affair, because you believe that's the way to refresh the sparks( the passion) in your marriage..... by the way. I'm willing to help.........What y'all think?

purple flower

what does love, and respect actaully mean to you? if you really feel like that for your wife, why an affair. all that does is blow it out of proportion. if your gonna go that far then might as well let your wife know ahead and see if she's gonna divorce you, then you can have all the affairs you want. or i consider talking about that part of your life with your wife, thats respect.

howpsychicareu

I don't think so.

I think if you want the passion with her to improve, you should change the settings and things you do. Get to know each other in different ways, some of which nothing to do with physical.

I know a guy, stupid enough to have tried wife swaping sort of.
He let he was sleep with a good friend who'se married. What a mess!!! Yuck.

But its your life. If you really love and respect, you will find ways to engage her differently. Try new things.

The world is a big place.

walker9842

NO, for all the energy you'd spend wining and dining someone new, just to lose it all in a divorce that you brought on. Why not put that energy, time, and thought into saving what you've got. She must be pretty special, because if you don't take care of her someone else will.

Why don't you plan a weekend away make all the arrangements including the sitter. Don't tell her anything, but to have her bags packed Thursday night, but don't tell her why. Make it a day trip, somewhere you can be in a half of a day. Take off that Friday, get the kids to the sitter and have the car packed when she gets home.
Make plans to do things she would like to do. IE. wine tasting, gardens, My wife is a big fan of bed and breakfast inns. Be creative. Then talk to her about the future together, what fun you've two have had. If you stay in a hotel find one who has a day spa close and set her up a massage. TRUST me you'll get your just rewards, BUT be careful it may re spark the romance in your life and she may want to do it again.

Hope this helps Were newlyweds going on 12 yrs. and she the last love of my life.

4everinluv

Hell no!!!!!!!!!1

Owen E

Duh sorry buddy consider counselling instead.

constant

Don't go for that wild idea where u will cheat two persons. Consult a good doctor or a psychologist. Make both of u better active(from health point of view) & attractive looking. Go for sight seeing once a fourtnight. Play together carrom or other indoor games & deliberately get defeated. Mutual love may bounce back. Be sweetter, softer, sincere in words & actions & silent(when no work is there with u) & be more tolerant & patient. Help wife in her domestic works with interest to make things more interesting. Decrease your weight, if it has increased. Be religious too.

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