Is being bi ok?

Armchair_Ninja

Do not worry. All human beings wonder at one time or another. But if you weren't born Bi, it is best to avoid it. After all, you are in charge of your brain and can overcome anything it tries to get away with.

.Emily.

Yeah, it's perfectly normal. It might just be a phase that you'll grow out of.

elscorchoooo

yes. be who you are.

if people don't accept you, screw them.

they should like you for who you are.

DnBprincess850

Yeah, a lot of girls find themselves attracted to other females. There is nothing wrong with it, and there is nothing weird about it. If that's what you want or like then don't let others make you feel bad about it. If you're married I'm sure your husband wouldn't mind, most men don't. I know a lot that encourage it.

bina64davis

No one has a right to say if it's normal or not. You make yourself happy, and be safe and careful. I don't' know of a single person in this world who is "normal". Everyone has tendencies. Everyone likes and dislikes different things. Whatever works for you and makes you happy, as long as you aren't hurting anyone, is what you should do.

William K

If you are single, it isn't a problem.

If you are married, you have committed yourself to someone else and only them. I'm not saying it is abnormal to be attracted, but what I am saying is to not act on it!

Hell, I look at women who aren't my wife. She looks at other men who aren't me. It doesn't go any further than that. I find some of her bellydance mates very hot. I TOLD my wife. She knows I'm not going to hit on them. For that matter, I was very physically attracted to a classmate of mine during grad school. This was before I was married, but while we were dating and engaged. I never acted on that attraction, even though I met the other woman less than a month after I started dating my now-wife. I loved my girlfriend/fiancee/wife too much to do something that dishonest AND disrespectful!

So, the long and the short of it is: You can be attracted, but it does not go beyond that.

EDIT: The woman who answered two posts above me should get best answer. She has it perfectly right!! :)

Kyle S

It's ok if you're bi. You can be whatever you want. It doesn't matter if it's normal, it's your choice.

Linus

When I was 13-14, I went through a bi-curious phase which I grew out of. Give it a few years, and if you still find women attractive, just accept it.

Street Ryda

Yeah its okay.

What?

well its twice as easy to get a date.

helplessromatic2000

thats fine. and yes, being bi is ok.

smile_91

At first i didn't think it was, but its not a bad thing. Its okay to be bi. There's nothing wrong with it, and it doesn't mean your not normal. And who knows, maybe its just a phase or something your not so sure of, but you'll figure it out eventually.

purple_butterflyuk

it is normal lol. it's fine as long as your not tempted to stray from whatever partner you have. just dont worry about it.

osamahussian911

whatever floats your boat

ireland

why?
'cause if it's not "normal"
you're gonna be able to "turn it off"?

mominkansas03

I don't really know if it is normal or not. I am a post bi. I went through a bi stage and am now happily married. I love my husband and would never cheat on him, but i love to look at the female body. and actually when i fantasize about anything but my husband it is 9 times out of 10 about a women. Good luck!!!

cultureslum

More normal than you think.It's just most don't admit it due to religious or cultural reasons.I'm bi myself,but I'm more straight than gay.It all has to do with our chromosones.Don't let anyone tell you it's wrong or weird.It's common in nature too...even among giraffes.

Spookius Mortem

It is perfectly normal.

~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~

being bi is fine there nothing wrong with it, but you did but this Q in the wrong section. some will find fault with it but there idiots. don't worry about it. relax and go were life takes you.

supergurl 2319

yea it is ok that you might be bi. Some people dont really agree with it, but that shouldnt stop you from running your life. If you like girls and guys, who cares. If you love someone, you love them. You cant help who you like.

I hope this helps

Good Luck

ddreaddsjr

No its not normal, but i don't have a problem with two women being together:) Would you have a problem with your husband being attracted to men and women?????????

tara b

I think when you get married you made up your mind to be with a man.

sweetgranny06

i don't think it is

Racer X

For some it is. If you feel that way then it is normal for you and is perfectly okay.

smjohnson55

sure, have fun

Ben Dover

GO FOR IT

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