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Not if you have children. It would compound your problems and your children would be the losers. |
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Shetedon
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I think divorce comes after you have explored all your options with none of them working and you are sick and tired of being sick and tired. |
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CNR
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because it failed and pretty there's nothing left but problems, heartache etc stuff like that? |
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oh_jo123
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well I was very physically and mentally abused in my first marriage and that is why I chose divorce |
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Fergy
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Depends on what the problem is and how severe. And it also depends on if the problem is fixable and if you even want to fix it. No way to answer you without knowing more. |
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Bill C
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No Marriage, no problem. It's the easy way out for some, and for others, there's little choice. |
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I AM Troll
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Divorce will make your marriage disappear but in the end your problems are still your problems.
In cases of abuse, habitual infidelity, and extreme neglect divorce is better option than a lifetime of misery. Not every one will visit a counselor and counseling will sometimes lead you to the realization that you are not compatible. |
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craft painter
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Divorce is not always the answer. Everyone has problems in their marriage at one time or the other. Before making such drastic steps it is always good to try to work things out because after all you loved each other once and a person should be totally sure that it is over before walking out that door forever. |
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ruth
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Divorce can make some of the problems disappear, at least the problems created by the other spouse and for which that spouse will do nothing about. Particularly when the spouse is engaging in harmful behaviors and there is a child in the home. Which is why I divorced my ex. And felt like 180 pounds got taken from my shoulders. That was 10 years ago and I've had no reason to think I made the wrong decision, either. |
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AR.SAM
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It is like a partnership firm: both have to adjust and run the business( LIFE) There are so many hurdles and different of opinion: Tolerance, mutual trust, forgo Ego, & etc are the must for a peaceful life: Everything should be discussed with open heatedly by the partners: then what is the problem ? where is divorce? |
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Curious G
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No. U have to work on ur half of the problem, otherwise, when u enter into another union, the same problems will be there. But if u want the problems to subside for a bit, and u guys don't want to work it out for certain, then yes, divorce is the best option. It's all a situational thing. IF ur divorcing over little things, chances are it can be worked out, and should be, but it takes effort from both parties. But if the issues are bigger, then maybe u should think again about saving the marriage. Like, if ur gonna divorce over him not doing his share around the house, that can be worked out. But if he's abusing u, then it's best to get out. Anything can be worked out with effort from all involved, but some things are harder than others to solve.
It all depends on the ppl involved. |
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♥Laoise♥
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Divorce is not an easy process, but I think many people think it's easier than dealing with their problems. And I think it is often a cop-out instead of actually working through things.
There may be times where divorce is the best option...but I think it should be more of a last resort and less of an instant solution. |
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Lexi
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Consider counseling ,it depends on what is making you consider though if there is abuse and/or cheating and if you can't talk to work out your problems,then i guess divorce maybe an option.But both of you have to decide if your marriage is worth fighting for.Divorce is the easy way out. |
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Dr. R
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it depends on your problem type. |
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BAN arranged marriage
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Divorce is an option. But the solution is to not get married. Now there's some practical common sense! |
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lorisam7879
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I think most issues that people divorce over these days can be solved with counceling, however they aren't willing to admit their mistakes or put the effort it requires to make the marriage work.
However, I believe there are some things that marriages or spouses cannot get over, even with counceling - abuse, adultery, etc. |
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ninazu@verizon.net
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i do not think so! marriage is like a garden it need good care.
to share a life,it need a tremendous work.
nothing is easy in life and it will never be. |
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Red Rose
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Depends on what the problem is. Things like cheating and abuse, then yes. The answer is divorce. |
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simran
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it is not easy to tell you here. if any of your dear ones is going through this process then be with that person then you will really understand. no one wants divorce dear. but there is no other option left. it is very painful process. no one wants that much pain in life. but they cant help it.
wish you never to have this trouble in your life. |
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well divorcing doesnt make your marriage PROBLEMS dissapear, it makes your marriage dissapear, or end.
there are many reasons for divorce. you might have fallen out of love, you might of been forced to married because you got pregnant, could of been a arranged marriage, could have assualted you, could have cheated.. there are so many reasons why to divorce.
genereally, you get a seperation first and see if you can work out your problems. divorce should not be the first resort unless there is violence. |
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September Shine
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It may be the easiest.
i'm not sure about the best. |
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Sleek
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There is no rational ... rationality to deciding to divorce a lot of the time. My husband says he didn't want to divorce me but he started cheating and made it impossible for our blended family to stay together, blaming it all on me. I would never call divorce the "best" of anything. Sometimes it becomes an option that is badly "needed." |
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ih8dumbasses
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divorce will make your marriage disappear, an not only the problems. So, if you care for the marriage, divorce can't be an option to solve the problems. |
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slipstreamer
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It won't make problems disappear, but sometimes is the best solution. Sometimes relationships and the people in them change or are not good to start with.
If love dies, or there is abuse..divorce is the only real solution. Staying together in those situations is pointless. |
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Randy N
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Divorce is the easy way out. You fell in love with your husband for a reason. That reason is still there. Odds are though, that it has gotten buried in all of the day to day crap that fills out lives. I find that if people would put the same energy into saving their marriages that they do into breaking them up, most would work themselves out !
Start taking walks together and just talking. About anything at all. Reminisce about when you dated, your wedding, all the good times. One step at a time, the problems will work themselves out. |
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Captin Caveman
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No, the problems will still exist in a way, just not as you think. And if there are kids, why put them through that as well? |
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Lenora
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If you don't know how to love and are not willing to learn, divorce is the answer.
Love is something that doesn't just happen but must be practiced. it is why scriptures say not to be unequally yoked. Can you imagine how frustrating it is when only one person is making the sacrifices and the other is just taking everything that is given without making any sacrifices for the same common goal? It happens too many times. Courts have been filled with such couples.
My oldest son was angry with me for 2 years over something he thought he heard me say over the phone about him. He heard a portion of the conversation and assumed the rest. He said I was startled to find that he was still in the house so my reaction solidified what he believed I said. He couldn't give me the entire conversation but it wasn't until I grilled him did he realized that his attitude about me was ludicrous. In those 2 years, he just would not talk to me. The communication was gone. I made up in my mind it was not going to happen and something had to change.
This is what some marriages need. Misunderstanding and one or both parties believing things that just aren't real. What if there is something as simple as being inhibited. All that takes is a conversation but the fear won't allow it. |
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Chandar T
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Why divorce ? Yeah ....Why Divorce...
The basic purpose of divorce for a couple
is to re-collect their Individual freedom.
The marriage is already over, once divorce is
comtemplated.
So, I will suggest the Husband and Wife to...
to become Neighbours first, and try to enjoy
their Solitude.
They may develop a deeper sense of missing
each other. |
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fussywifey
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Dear Friend,
Please remove the word Divorce from your head first. Its not the answer. As it is a path of no return. When we get married we promise to love one another till death do us apart with God as witness to it.
Now if we break this bond , we break a commitment and an oath given.
So i fell give each other and talk to one another. It will surely solve your problem.
All the best give it a try and tell me > ok :-) |
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