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mhs1975
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why don't you go with him? :) |
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littleviv2000
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No, I don't think it's cheating. OTH, it is wrong if the man continues to go if his SO tells him how much it bothers her and she would prefer for him not to go to strip clubs. |
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andrea.barrett36
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how would you feel if your other half was going to see naked men would you consider that cheating ? |
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tmac
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I think a lot of people have a lot of different opinions on this. I would say that if you are strongly against it, that should be discussed with your partner before the relationship becomes serious. |
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astella_interrupted
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It's a matter of trust and communication.
If it makes u feel insecure, talk to him about it and compromise. And look for your own fun too girl! Go to a hen night and see how HE likes it. |
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David s
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I dont think its cheatin as there is no physical contact at all. I recently went to a strip club in Blackpool for a mates 21st birthday. We all had great fun,talking to all the girls,who were all suprisingly intelligent and not at all sleazy. I was open with my girlfriend about it, and she didnt mind at all as she knows i would never cheat, Looking never harmed anyone. However i cant imagine my mum being to happy if the old man admitted visiting strip joint! |
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sri577201
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Dear Stay@home, why ask for things cannot do.
anyway the answer is it dates back to adam and eve. they never called it strip dance and for that matter those tribes in africa and india find it offensive to wear clothes. it is all about society in which we live. we have e-mail web chat they have the nature. we have to buy clothes and scantly dress overselves, they live naturally.
we are are more obscene than anyone. we are dressed but reveal everything.
shame on the technology and again shame on the people who go to such joints. |
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alee9702
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I don't think it's cheating, but you should sit down with him and talk about what about it that makes you uncomfortable. Ex. My husband goes, but if he would get lap dances that would bother me. So I would go through the extra steps and SHOPPING and give him one myself. lol |
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giomad82
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yeah it is |
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jewel3977
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That depends? Does your man lie about going to the strip club. And it also depends on the type of girls that work at the club, and the type of man you have. Coming from the experience of working in a strip club....i was a dancer. However, i worked with lots of wh***s. And they didn't care whether the customers had a woman or not...all they care about is how much is in their wallets. Now, that does not mean ALL strippers are wh***s, because they aren't. On the other hand, if you and your man are down for it, going to the strip club together can be fun. It just depends on the two of you. Hope that helps you a little.
Like i said to someone earlier, if you are doing something that you feel you have to hide from your significant other then in my book, that's cheating. |
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steemshovel
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I don't think its cheating, but if a guy is going more than once a month without you, then I could see you having a problem with it. |
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Mr. Mui
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My wife and I go to strip clubs quite often and it is absolutely nothing wrong with it. It is only a show and it might give you some ideas on how to please your man as well. So, to reward my wife, I took her to a men strip club. At first it was a bit strange for me. But, my wife was happy and excited and that's all it really matters. Perhaps, you should try going with your boyfriend and I'm sure that he'll be happy that you are going with him. Watching the show is not cheating. Touching and other activities is a different story. |
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REALLY
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you have to ask yourself, why are you going to a strip club? what are your intentions? one thing is for certain, if you are committed or thinking about a commitment a strip club is the last place you need to be. i think it is a form of cheating. |
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CC Babydoll
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I guess that would be up to the person
also if they just went to the club with friends or was participating in lap dances, etc...
be cool... |
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Twogado
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No its not cheating as long as he don't pay for a hot tube, then you could call it cheating. No its not any different than being married or dating. As long as he is there to have a couple beers & kick back & watch a few girls dance naked there is no big deal. |
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TECHX69
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Looking is not cheating. |
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flagger
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No it is not cheating.
Cheating takes swapping fluids.
Strip clubs are NO CONTACT. |
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Robert P
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no it's not cheating...as long as your just looking...lap dancing and having the strippers body parts pressed in your face may be considered cheating ...but it is pleasant |
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SHAKESUMTIN
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YES IT IS CHEATING U WUDNT WANT HIM LUKIN AT A FEMALE WIT CLOSE ON LUKIN AT HER SHAPE AND *** SO Y WITH CLOSE OFF DATS DISRESPECTFUL THATS MEAN U WANT MO THEN WAT U GOT |
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harry z
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that depends on what your partner views as cheating.
If the partner thinks that cheating is more of an action, then it isn't.
If the partner thinks it's more of the thought then well it is.
Personally I'd say no it isn't. |
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jen
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no it is not cheating, but it is wrong if the wife/gf dosnt know about it or dosn't approve of it. |
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q6656303
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no
not different if its only looking |
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Rhonda W
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I would tell him it hurts you and hope he decides that he doesnt want to go back. Most men sneak out and go once or twice, if he is going there regularly yes you have a huge problem. Its not cheating but hes got a problem that you may not know about. Give him a chance to listen to your heart. |
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