Is he cheating?

BabyGyrlK

I'm sorry to say but the information you gave us I think makes it fairly easy to tell you he's doing SOMETHING! The fact like you said that the man knew his name and didn't question the other workers around...plus how would he know where your husband works if not given the information from a pretty torn up 18 year old getting involved in something her mind is not yet mentally developed for. Also he said his name which indicates he knew himor have seen him around his daughter or possibly heard his daughter speaking of him. It's really sad that he can't grow up and love and appreciate you for who you are and not to go mess with younger females that don't even know what they're getting into or for the matter the marriage that they are ruining. Ask him...just simply confront him and watch how he responds with his body language, facial expressions, and everything. If he acts squidish or blows the idea up into some big mess then you know he's getting mad becasue he got caught...if he's keeping numbers hidden and talking to girls on myspace he obviously doesn't care about your feelings or your guys marriage. Do something for yourself, get pampered and look your best because something is telling me he's mistreating you and there's cheating here...you're worth much more than to get played with. Good Luck i know it's easier said than done...but when done, things should get ALOT easier! Best wishes...

Schwinn

Yes, he's cheating. Read your post and pretend someone else wrote it. What would your advise be?

linda h

I think you already know the answer to the question. You shouldn't be here, you should be calling a lawyer.

Jenn,

Come on...you already know the answer to your question. You stated in the very beginning. Jenn wake up sweetie...One day he is going to mess around with someone way younger than 18 and their father is going to kick his Azzz and have him placed in jail. And you are going to look stupid for being with someone who mess with children (underage girls). Now wouldn't that be embarrassing to you?

If you feel like it is nothing then stick with him. But hell I would be worried, hurt and disappointed if it was me. I am the last to say leave your man...but darn...Jenn...you make the decision. It doesn't seem like he has stopped communicating with the young girls and doesn't look like he plans to stop.

Jenn really think about all of this...

Good luck ; )

Kanna Shevin

Once a cheat always a cheat. If he really wanted to change and be completely faithful he would let go of all his old habits. Just like when you are addicted to drugs and alcohol... for it to really work you don't run with the same crowd. (Why it would only make it harder on you?) In my opinion he is up to his old dirty ways again. That really scares me about the younger girls. If he is fooling around, unless he is asking for ID who is to say these girls are at least 18? Creepy!! I hope the two of you don't have children together.

Just being honest

this is simple. divorce.

marisanj

sounds like you already know the answer to your own question, why are you still with this loser?

Something Fierce

Follow you instincts, because they are always right.
Also, she may be 18 today but younger tomorrow.

Contact an attorney and discuss this, because you may want to make steps to protect you and your family's interest if he gets arrested for messing around with someone under age you will lose everything.

sant

go and talk to your husband. You need to find out where you stand n this relationship. it's not a good feeling not knowing. he sounds immature.

TAB~loves~ZACK

It sounds like your husband is either a pedifile or on his way to becomeing one. I dont know if you have childrne with him or ever intend on it, but I would seriously reconsider.
You do not want to be with a man who has fantacies about young girls there is somehting wrong with that.
I dont think you need anymore proof, just to except he has problems and you deserve better in your life.
My frst thought was to try to locate that man who found him on his job, who told you about it, locate hima nd get more details if it would make you feel bette rin leaving him. But make sure your bags are packed before you do, you will be too mad after to get everything!!!

Louise P

Do you have any children that are girls? If so I would be worried. It sounds like he doesn't have any self control and I would leave this pig before he does something to my kid or ends up in jail.

Blueberry

Sorry to be so blunt here but girlfriend, you need to hear it! Uh, yeah he is cheating! You have picked up on so many of the clues but your mind is in denial. You can continue to be the naive, stupid wife of you can grow a back bone and leave that cheater! I am SURE that your kids know and they probably do not respect you because they see how weak you are in character.

Get real

Why didn't you say something while the guy was there I would have said why would your daughter stay with him he's my husband and saw what response I got, and if something was going on his cover would have been blown next time you have the opportunity to interject do it then he can't lie.

Mrs. Heather Schabby

Most likely he is. I don't really understand why you'd let it get this far anyway. He always hides phone numbers in his tool box? So pick a random tool out of that box and smack him in the nuts with it!

But in all seriousness, why put up with any of this? You seem like a smart woman, and no one deserves to get treated that way - NO ONE. You need to leave. Find someone who respects you more. Unless of course you're okay with spending the rest of your life in this kind of relationship. If you are that's a decision only you can make and I wish you luck with it.

Just sit down with your husband. Don't do it when you're fighting or otherwise talking about this situation. Tell him exactly how you're feeling, and that it's time for him to stop this ridiculous behavior or pack up and get out. You are married, for christ's sake, and you deserve better! Tell him that as his wife you want more respect, care, and love than what he's giving. Hopefully he'll fix it. If not get out.

Good luck.

fiND YOURSELF A NEW MAN WHO CARES FOR YOU.

mwilliams010708

something is def up with your situation...keep investigating he's up to no good

imaqtpatootee

If you are asking then your gut is telling you so. He is cheating, he will continue to do so, there is something that may help you turn this around but you have to do what the book says and never let him know you have the book . Love must be tough by Doctor Dobson... But personally I would be done with him just done, he would know it before the sun sets today too.

JessicaKK

I think you need to first of all, confront your husband. Since getting back together, it seems as though he has been keeping in contact with people he may or may not have hooked up with while you were separated. Either way, confront him about his interests in other women, young or old, whatever. If he responds with an answer that gives you confidence your marriage is going to be okay, then do not worry. BUT, if his answer is untrustworthy or causes you to worry further, I would consider seeking counseling or divorce.

If you feel afraid to confront him, or just simply do not want to confront him about this, perhaps the answer is already inside your mind about what to do.

Best of luck.

Yeppers

Run...don't walk to a divorce lawyer. If he wants to have relations with barely legal women, then set him free and let him do just that. umm...yuck!

Jazzy

move on! u don't trust him.. so whats the point? i'll find out if he's intrested in other women... whats his myspace... i'll send him a message & let u know what he writes! trust me i don't want him.. i'm happily married. but i like doin p.i. type stuff! plus it'll help u out! let me know! Good luck... it is hard!

domo79

Sounds like a real scumbag........you need to move on,these type of things don't just happen.....thats pretty sick!

playgirl3624

did he act like this before you got married? i think it's just ridiculous and wouldnt put up with it myself. you sound pretty young, were you and your husband together for a while before jumping into marriage? if it were me i would call the guy that came to his job and ask him...also, i would tell him the next time i found numbers in his tool box that im gone! you cant put up with that crap......unless you've been putting up with it all along- then you cant just assume he's gonna change because of marriage. hope that helped a litte, if it was my old man i'd choke him out

D397

I think he knew exactly who tha man was because out of 4 people im guessing your husband was the only one with that name. ANd if he keeps talking to ALL those OTHER gurls you should find another man

Jewels

Yes he is cheating. And to me it sounds like he may be breaking a law as well if he is having relations with underage girls.

Dr. Mike

You have been on here asking about whether or not he is cheating for 2 years. You know he is cheating and so does everyone else.

Now I have a question for you. What are you going to do about it?

Home Alone

think cheating and divorce

sassy lady

it's according what type of work does he do. Then bottom line is do you trust him. If not, start there before asking him about some old man. Then did he come home last night?

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