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Is he cheating or no?

My husband moved off cause he has a new job. I am still down here because I am going to graduate high school first before I move...I only have 4 days left...but I found a text to his ex that said "yes it would be tight i miss u amanda" and earlier today I asked to see his phone and he got really mad at me and wouldn't let me see it. Now he is hiding his phone when he goes to sleep..And he has it on him 24/7 now...he comes down for the weekend and he just doesnt even seem like he even missed me...Is he cheating on me or not?? I am bad heart broken over this :(


    




jude
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a man who has nothing to hide would not hide things from u, he wouldn't care if u looked at his cell, but there must be something on the cell that he doesn't want u to see. also when a man gets defensive and angry it means he is hiding something or feels guilty inside. looks as if he is cheating on u, i would listen to my intuition/gut feelings, because they are never wrong, if u can feel it its probably happening.


Mahl
Yeah well it seems as if he is cheating on you if he gets angry about you wanting to see his phone and if he's hiding it that can be a problem..


mervé
pretty sure those are signs of him cheating.


HmMmMmMmM <3
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probably.....sorry


Lady Gaga!!!
Will! DA! Honey he's cheating on you If he's been texting that girl. For no reason! If they are davoced theu shuldn't really be talking!


Richelle
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well im truly sorry but it really does seem like he is, but you never know. You should just talk it out with him instead if just thinking of things just in case.


Lisa N
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I would be suspicious too. Something is up. My concern for you is being tied down to him when you are not even out of highschool. How did that happen? Why would you do that? You need to think of yourself. Look into college or training programs, even if you move with him. You may need to support youself someday.


Chopsmom
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Yes...he is cheating on you......
most definitely......
I would file for divorce as quickly as possible......
Good Luck


madman172
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confront him with your everdance


Nia
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trust your instinct...

instead of letting you 'dwell' in doubt , he should be reassuring you ...

plus he gets angry .....for what ? did he ever had a problem showing it to you before ?

'i miss you' to an ex doesn't sound ..... appropriate to say the least

do what's best for YOU ...


k.â„“.w.
yes.
hes a d!(k.


leave him.
ur too good for him.
[:


Sean C
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Yep sounds bad.


bluecrush985
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for your husband to even say that he "misses" his ex is wong. that is a huge red flag. have you asked him what that text was about? something is def. going on there. even if he says that he didnt not physically cheat, but what he did was emotionally cheat. i would still be very pissed off and upset of my fiancee would do this. i would think hes cheating. im sorry!


JoJo
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Get his phone, and text her back as him.. Ask her to meet you.
Then show up. And say Look you are so stupid to think it was my husband you were talking too. Then leave walk away.


punkshorty
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im sorry but i would say he is since he txt her that and if hes married he has no right to be txt his ex girl friend


Team Switzerland (Twilight)
Wow im sorry about the text you found. are you sure it is his ex or someone else like a cousin or somthing?


Tessa :)
i am really sorry, but most likely he is,
this happened to me before.. just keep
a close eye on things and keep lookin
deeper into it.. i really hope hes not but
dont get your hopes up, he probably is..
just sit him down and talk about your feelings
dont say nothng about the cheatng thing, just
ask him why he don't act the same no more.


Grace Lee
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i would say that he might or not.. or they could be just friends. just trust ur husband and when you guys r together again, talk to him calmly. just tell him u wont get mad if he was cheating on u. talk softly and try to calm him down too. its not so bad if you guys talk about ur problems. talk him into it and when like if he is in the shower, sneak in and take his phone.. and read it and slip it right back in.


Mu$!C @LL d@y
yes probably. you should totally confront him or something. end it and see if he ever does anything about it


Susan M
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There is a big probability that he's cheating. If he doesn't have anything to hide, he won't have any reason to hide his cellphone while with you. Look out!


♥B@BY~GURL♥
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O YEA HE IS CHEATING


distantdreams2003
Follow you own instinct....Mine would say yes. Good luck darlin!


Cali guy 818
Probably.


Pocky
I'm sorry but I think he is... there's no real reason he would be hiding his phone and acting suspicious unless he DID have something to hide.


Lil' Elvis
He doesn't have to be with her physically for it to be cheating. He is still emotionally involved with his ex if he is texting her to say he misses her. That is not something you do when you are married, and it is disrespectful to you.

I understand he wants his privacy, but it sounds like he has something to hide. Any respectful and honest guy would talk about it with you and willing to be open about showing you what's on their phone knowing that you are feeling insecure. If he had nothing to hide, he wouldn't be trying to cover anything up.

I know it's hard, but you have to try and talk it out with him. If he's not willing to talk about it like a mature adult, it's time to reconsider the relationship. How can he love you if he is still wrapped up in his ex and feeding you lies? You deserve better. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you- don't waste it on someone who treats you like an object.


fook
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yee. gnome sayin?


ballerr4real
damn... it seems like he is





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