Is he going to break my heart again?

I was with this guy for a year the the relationship ended when I found out he was cheating on me. Now two years later, we're talking on the phone again, he says we shouldn't meet at all, but wants to keep talking on the phone (after I said I don't think we should meet just yet)

The reason I'm talking to him again is because his mother died, he's getting kicked out of his house, he's suffering from depression, and he keeps saying it's karma, you have no idea for how long I fantasised about hurting him, but to actually realise it's happened isn't as fun as I imagined. please tell me what to do in this situation, and I can't help but feel for him again...

China Doll 3

That is entirely up to you, if you could trust him try again if not stay away.

Love my kittys

Why would you want a relationship with him? He is homeless, and depressed. He cheated on you. Let it go.

Udumbass

Your heart will get broken again but it won't be his fault. You are reaching out to him and he will pull you under again. You are a "fixer" and he is a problem you can't fix. Why makes you want a man who cannot even take care of himself?

Mary

Funny how he wants YOUR shoulder to cry on through this. But here is my two cents: A good relationship is built on trust. By asking the community this question, you obviously don't trust him.

You have to do what YOU feel is right, though.

TomLad

dont speak to him, move on

Lost Angel

Leave him alone. Don't go back to him things will not be better than before. Find someone who can respect you and treat you right.

stacy

if it didn't work the first time, it won't work this time. especially since he cheated on you. respect yourself. delete his number. delete him on facebook. everything. he has other friends he can talk to about his mother, so don't feel obligated to talk to him for only that reason.

once a cheater, always a cheater.

spenser461

he's playing you and it's working. tell him you can't talk on the phone any more, wish him all the best and leave it at that.

i am in the playpen with mildred

Gisela

IF I WERE U, I WOULDN'T GO BACK WITH HIM, HE'S JUST USING U BECAUSE U KNOW U'RE THERE.. U HAVE NO ATTACHMENTS TO HIM AND NO LOVE, SO IT SOUNDS.. JUST MOVE ON, NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN, IF HE BROKE UR HEART ONCE, HE WILL DO IT AGAIN.. GOOD LUCK, THERE'S WAY BETTER GUYS OUT THERE...

Blonde Bimbo

Make an effigy of him and stick pins in it.

fiery redhead 67

i would just be nice to him and tell him he needs a counsler for his depression. he is homeless and since he cheated on you before,you would constantly think he will again,which usually they do. lose him as boyfriend material and go out and meet a guy you can trust.

Ria S

yes

MaryMc

Your compassion is honorable but it would be a dumb mistake. He's just going through a hard time right now and you're a crying towel. As soon as he's back on his feet he'll cheat on the next chick stupid enough to get involved. Don't let that stupid chick be you. Next!

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