Is he trying to rekindle to affair ?

I know and dont need ppl to tell me how wrong it is to have an affair. But lifes not always straight forward and theses things happen For most of last year i was seeing a married guy i work with, it all got totally out of hand . I suffer with bouts of depression. The affair and other things got to me and i resulted in going off long term sick from work. From time to time this guy would text me and just ask how i was. But the last couple of weeks the texts have become more regular and very suggestive. . i feel like this guy is a drug to me , what am i going to do ??? done need lectures thanks, just sound advice
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when i return to work, i have to work with him

Nicoooole ^-^

Honestly, it sounds like you have a lot going on right now. i know how tempting it is to get with someone you shouldn't to get your mind off of things. but it really sounds like you have a lot going on right now and you should probably be avoiding this guy as much as possible, i know it's easy to just spend time with him and keep your mind on him and off other things in your life... but for your own sake, in the long run... i would try to ignore him as much as possible.

i hope you have a counselor or someone to talk to, sounds like you have a lot on your plate. i know it's easier said than done, but avoid him.. he's obviously not good for you and you never know, you might get a self satisfaction of ignoring someone who made you feel like so horrible. i really hope things work out for you!

you've gone down that road so you should have learned something by now. Move on!

smuopke

How about stop being a tramp and start living your own life. Get out of your damn bed take a shower get dressed feel good about yourself and find a man for yourself. Stop torturing yourself with something you cant have its just a man there are lots of other ones good ones even. Unless you are happy being a piece of a** to this other guy i would suggest you do something healthy for yourself and wake up already.

Positive vibes

The real question is what you want to do. You are (or should be) in control of what you do. If you want to continue it with him, that's your call. If you don't, then there's no reason to respond to his texts.

Mel S

Change your number and tell him that its better that he not contact you. That should send a clear message that you are ready to move on. You are going to drive yourselve crazy!!

lol

HE KNOWS U PROVIDE HIM FREE RIDE WHENEVER HE WANTS, SURE HE IS REKINDLING IN UR WORDS..
IN MY WORDS HE KNOWS U R AVAILABLE WHENEVER HE WANTS AND THAT'S WHAT HE IS CHECKING ON

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