Is it alright to marry a man who is 22 years older than me?

negaduck

yes it is alright. it is also a terrible idea.

Nothingusefullearnedinschool

It's alright, but think carefully of all the ramifications.

hotwatr

how old are u

Dan G

for real? well if he has a good heart, you trust him, your ready for commitment, and you think its fine, then go for it :)

goldnstar04

Depends on who you're talking about i guess. Legally? Yes (as long as youre a consenting adult). You should think about the differences in mentality. If youre 20, and your husband to be is 42, then its a pretty big difference of where you both are in your life. Hopefully you know what i mean. Good luck!

jane

marry for love

*kwah*

No! Absolutely not. The age difference is too great, he'll be used up when your just getting started if you know what I mean. Find a mate in your own age group, you'll be glad you did. It's more fun and rewarding growing up with someone you can relate to. A contemporary if you will, someone with similar likes and dislikes as yourself. Apparently your not sure about this union yourself, take our advice, DON'T DO IT.
Love, the hawk

Adrianne R

If you are at age then be my guest. But if you weren't at age no one would marry a young girl that was going to marry a guy 22 years older that would jil bait

Dr. Obvious

It is if you're an adult. And in this case, by adult I'd say you should be at least thirty. If you're 22 and he's 44, hold off. You'll grow out of it.

Doodlestuff

Well, it depends. If you are money grubbing and he's got money, why not? However, if you want a marriage that actually works, a 20 year old with a 42 year old rarely does. A 32 year old with a 54 year old does work as age is less of a factor the older you are. Not sure why that is other than I KNOW your thinking and actions are very different at different ages.

Arthur W

You can marry whoever you please but the age difference will play a huge challenge in your marriage for years to come so be prepared for all the harssment

Russell K

It has worked in the past but no one can give you a good answer in this forum. Ask someone who knows both of you.

Bob

I don't see why not.

Lulu

Santa will get you a sugar daddy for Christmas

O.C MiLFyâ™¥

i think so,.. it depends on your relationship. and if you guys have things in common.

Beakin

True love know no age. My aunt married a man 35 years older than her. Just be prepared for death (I know that sounds ominous, don't know how else to put it)

Chris K

for $?

emz

its kind of weird...but if you love him, then go for it.

dcrowell93

If you sincerly love him then yes, if your a gold digger then no.

Crickette

Hi there,
My son married a woman who is twenty years older than himself. He's been with her ten years and they are very happy. At first, I was apprehensive, but after I saw how she treated my son I couldn't help but welcome her to the family. Don't worry about what people say, it's what your heart says that matters.
Crickette

Scorpius59

not if you're 72.

mrskerlin

If you are 18, it's legal and if you are happy together and have a good give and take relationship then it's good.

lucylocket7258

Yes, if this is what you want but I don't think it is good idea. You need to find someone your own age and someone more suitable for your personality.Since there is such a big difference in the ages, you and he won't have a thing in common. If you decided to do it anyway, you will find out the hard way so don't say no body warned you. . . . .

tennsmiles50

If your of age and love each other sure BUT remember, He may get in bad health later on and guess who will have to take care of him, You! So before I jumped the gun I'd first make sure he has lots and lots of money with everything willed to you. Because you can't live on love alone. Money talks and bullchit walks and best of all it's not just another four letter word. Luck To You!!!

Jess

Well I guess if you love him and he loves you back. But if you don't love him that much take into consideration the down sides of doing so.

Zee G

If you're in it for the money, shame on you. If you really love him, doooooooooooooooooo it!

michael n

depends. how old are you? if you are to young id say dont get married at all, regardless of your spouces age. but if your 23 or older, and think its the right time for you, go for it even if he is 50 or 60 or watever. love knows no age. but just about everything else does, so be careful when it comes to marriage.

â™¥Noellyâ™¥

depends i wouldnt tho...

Grey Man

Hmmm, he must be very rich.

Eva

if you love him then yes, it's fine.

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