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Jen Hates Evil Empire Starbucks
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It's not bad that you are married but it is bad to contact an old girl friend. What are you thinking? |
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Slick
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Your playing with fire boy |
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bblessed624
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Would it be bad if your wife contacts and old boyfried just for a long distance friiendship? |
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rxing
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yes man , grow up and look at this long distance friend: YOUR WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Steph
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You are not seriously asking this question? Of course it is bad. Shame on you! |
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bic
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yes it is |
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biking for life
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can you tell your wife that you talk to her? If you answered this no then it is totally wrong. If yes and your wife is cool with it I don't see the harm. Either way tho i would tell the wifey about it cuz if she finds out she will be pissed and it could cause problems |
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hell0kittygyrl
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yes |
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kayanbean24
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i think only u can look into your heart and answer that question for yourself |
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cynthiajean222
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Of course it's bad, but I think you already know that. What was the point in contacting her? And don't say "friendship". That's what your guy friends are for. Those are the ones you hang out with. Having an old girlfriend for a "friend" just means that you never really got over her and you want to see if she feels the same way. If you're honest with yourself, you'll admit that's exactly what you're doing. I feel bad for your wife. How about having a "friendship" with her instead? |
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cthor054
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um yes why would you do that?
would you like it if your wife went out for lunch with an old boyfriend just for a noontime friendship??
your question should be why did you feel the need to contact someone for a long distance relationship and more specifically why contact this particular person.
you should tell your wife about it. |
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It is a sign that you are distancing yourself from your wife and the fact that you are asking the question suggests you already know this. |
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Jordan M
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Well... if your wife isnt okay with it then, no!Some women are very upset with that kinda thing... if your wife is worth anything to you....drop the exes and find a guy friend! |
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vanessa g
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well have you told your wife that you want to be in touch with this person again??? |
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Pregnant with Baby #2
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Does your wife know? If you are keeping it a secret, then yes that is bad. It is important to be honest in a marriage. Only your wife can tell you if it is bad or not. I personally, would not appreciate my husband contacting an old girlfriend for any reason whatsoever. She is your ex (meaning that she is xed out of your life). Find new friends. You can find long distance friendships online. Good luck! |
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thebigB
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Yeah how would you like it if she contacted one of her old bf to just have an long distance friendship....I dont think your wife would like it. |
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The Naughty Librarian
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you are fooling yourself about your motives. You don't need to look up an ex to have a friend. |
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lostsoul26
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YES IT IS!!! If there used to be romantic feelings involved then it's really not fair to your wife. And why would you want to have a long distance friendship w/ an ex-girlfriend anyway???
How would you feel if the tables were turned and your wife wanted to start a friendship with an ex-boyfriend??? Think about it! |
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me
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that just depends. first of all does your wife know and if she does is she okay with it? but if your wife doesn't know what you have done then i don't think its a good thing. people can have friends even if they are married. im friends with a lot of my ex bf's and my hubby is friends with almost all of his ex gf's. just make sure that your not secretly talking to her behind your wife back because if you do your just asking for trouble :) |
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iamaustralian
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Yeah, that's really not on, put the shoe on the other foot and ask yourself if you'd like your wife doing the same thing. |
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MultipleMiggs
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Yeah, it's bad. |
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Seth
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No. Not at all. As long as you don't cheat and make sure to stay true to your wife. I have a girlfriend and talk to most all of my ex's. She knows I love her. Just be honest and don't do anything stupid, lol. Hope I helped! =) |
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♥ 2 Miscarriages ♥
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YES. What are you thinking? |
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quen
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I never wanted to let you down...... forgive me if I slip away ............all that I done is lost and found .. I .promise that I will come back to you 1 day ... Where is that old friend now ...lost in that old February song ..tell him it won't be long lost in that old familiar song... change ,....no they don't change ....just rearrange ....I never will let you down ...forgive me that Ive slipped away..... I keep on falling as I try to get away from this crazy world........... |
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Cody L
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It Depends how you contacted her! intament, sensually, or just friend - to - friend! if friend to friend ...then i don't see why not! |
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Yes very bad. Just think if your wife would get in contact with one of her exes. Would you think it wrong of her? Especially if she wanted a long distance friendship with him. Your an adult man. You know better. You knew what you were doing and the whys. Now your just looking for some way of easing your conscious of what you know to be wrong. |
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Taz
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Yes! |
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Jonathan C
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if your just calling her and not thinking about anything else.
the second you think about cheating, tell your old ex that its making you uncomfortable and just go back to talking on the phone with her. |
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magiczippy
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YES...................... UNLESS YOUR WIFE KNOW'S AND SHE IS ALLOWED TO DO THE SAME! |
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Alissa Carson
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Well yep its happened to me he dated her all through highschool and was engaged to her which he now all of a sudden lies about it...go figure he searched 27 women on mylife.com and lied about all of them..I am no fool..he wants me back so badly..but someone else will love and respect me way more and not lie about it. i found out after we were married he cheated on his first wife...from his kids..he said he was forced by the woman..lmao. yeah no one would ever by that..His kids hate him. havent spoke to him in years now..I am not wasting another moment of my time..He comes from a fine family of liar's. I now wonder if anything was ever true. He still calls me I never do him. To say he loves me more than life he would never cheat..I didnt fall off a turnip truck...I have a wonderful life. Awesome family, and need no drama. Not repeating this disaster..I feel for who ever else falls for it..I must have had a extremely blind moment in life..Truth set's us all free!!! |
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