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jonathen g
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depends on what they talk about.! hint! |
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Frances
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What did they talk about? It is the content that can determine whether he's cheating or not. |
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nathalienoel2
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keep an eye on him. because you don't know what is going on |
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Margie
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It can be. |
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Lorina
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Yes & no
what are they talking ABOUT !!! |
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JeffyB
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It depends on if he is just being friendly, or if it is more than that.... |
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~♥The Hon♥~
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If he lets you see what him and the women are saying then all is good, but if he gets all weird when you're nearby, then you have something to worry about |
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Ambre B
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Its emotional cheating. Especially if he is talking about things he won't tell you about I'd say that's cheating. You need to let him know that you are his wife and if there are things on his mind you should be the one he tells, not some stranger. |
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♥vix♥
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if he's telling her something he wouldnt want you to read and he knows its wrong..the answer is yes...he's having an emotional affair. |
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funkychunky7000
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no but it could lead to something if its flirty chatting. If its just a pen pal from austria (assuming your in United States) then you shouldn't worry. Either way you need to tell him how you feel |
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emeia04
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It depends on what kind of "talking" they are doing...I wouldnt want my husband doing it thoigh...it all comes down to a trust thing...Not that you should just trust him and let him talk to her...He should act trustworthy...He should act like a husband! |
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Deathbunny
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That depends on whether you and/OR he considers it cheating.
If you do or he does (or you both do) then that partner will treat it as such and then it's cheating. |
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Maria A.
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My husband has female friends that he had prior to me that he writes emails and calls periodically. They are just friends, nothing more. I would get jealous if it was a smut thing, you found dirty letters to other women, but people can have friends and it can be platonic. I would inquire in a sweet way, and see what he has to say, you can tell from his face, his tone of voice, his eye contact with you, what the real deal is all about. It is not cheating if it is just friendships, and if that be the case he has nothing to hide. |
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XOXOXOXO
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Yes it is, and take it for what it is---the first warning signs that things are not going to go well in this relationship. Even if he thinks it isn't cheating, get rid of him! |
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Dan G
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I would say no, because it would be just like talking in the street or in a bar.
Id keep an eye on the type of convo and the chat rooms though!
Also the fact that you are asking raises doubt in my mind, just let him know how you feel about it before it gets out of hand!
Also you could try similar chat rooms and talk to men to see the type of conversation that goes on, this way you can make a sound judgement yourself, and to see if your comfortable with it.
In addition to this you will have some ammo when you undoubtable do confront him! |
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ERICKSMAMA
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It can be emotional cheating... |
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Leilyn
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Not yet but it will be if your man is intending to and if you won't do anything about it. You have to set limits to who he spends time with online. For me, I'm ok if my husband occassionally says hi to old friends, but I would feel very uncomfortable if he starts to aggressively seek for "friends" online. Talk to your husband and let him know his boundaries.
Lani
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nicholettejohnson
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I think it is the worst kind of cheating!! They are sharing intimate details about life and love with a stranger. Its not usually a one time thing either, they go back. Communication is a big deal in a marriage. If he has to share thoughts and small talk with a stranger, you two may need to think about counseling! |
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Melisa
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It depends on how they talk and if he dosen't let you read what they say |
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Mommy to Kiara Grayden & Bryant
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If he is actually talking back and forth with a woman that he is not telling you about then yes, I would say he was cheating. |
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treasureyourself
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How is he talking to them? Is he being promiscuous? Have you confronted him about how you feel when he goes on line? If he still persists after you have confronted him, then, yeah, I would consider it cheating, because he shouldn't be talking like that to anyone, but you! |
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memyslf&I
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Is it just women or just ppl in general because it could just be ppl to talk to but if I were you Id check on what he is saying to these women and if its something that you arnt comfortable with then put a stop to it and tell him would he like it if you did that too if the answer is no then he will have to understand the reasoning of wanting him to stop. |
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