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Is it considered cheating?

Is talking to a married man online cheating? From the beginning he told me he was married and our conversations were completely Platonic. It was nice for us to talk together and discuss our daily lives. It's been almost 10mnth since we began talking. As that time progressed we became more involved in eachother's lives. He's told me how much he cares about me and how often he thinks of me. I feel the same way about him.

But is it considered cheating, even though we haven't met nor have we talked about it?
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I'm single. He does have problems in his marriage. He has even said that they were getting divorced and are currently seperated.


    




SamanthaNicole
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YES ITS CHEATING! LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!!!!! HES A MARRIED MAN!!! How would you feel if you were his wife and he was talking to another women like how he talks to you. You are horrible.


Jordan
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if you're questioning it it probably is


DaiizyBoo
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Put yourself in his wife's position...how would you feel about your husband talkin to a girl how he talks to you?....I always said if you cant tell your partner about it.....its cheating.


Look Away, I'm Hideous
yes, it is called an emotional affair.


runner_guy
My advice never trust anyone online unless you know them.. but no its not considered cheating..


ndnqt1966
If he is hiding the fact that he is in contact with you from him wife....it is cheating...You and this guy are having what is called an emotional affair...and if you keep on...you will eventually end up in the sack with one another...so do the smart thing...and end things now with him....


margey211
if that was your husband would you be okay with him talking like that to another woman? probaly not. find someone who isn't married and don't be a homewrecker.


K2M
I think it would be for him, but I'm not completely sure.


"I said WE!"
I don't think it is. But the moment he starts having trouble in his marriage is the time to back off.


Jayleen
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no but imagine someone doing that to you..
i hate women who dont take others in consideration..
disgusting!


Frankie (S.C.W.<333)
no, but that is totally stupid, he doesn't care about you and you shouldn't care about him. you two haven't even met, you have no relationship, your talking online and it stupid to think that means anything. talk to real ppl, the ppl you go to work with and you actually see. it's not cheating, because it's online and stupid to think you have a connection with someone who you've never met


cre8meaning
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I believe it is cheating. My ex- Husband did this and it led to him giving this person a lot of his "energies" They had nothing left for me. They never met, but I felt very betrayed.


Ezweb
Just imagine if he were your husband and answer the question yourself.

But i'm sure you'll keep in contact anyway. Because who the hell, the two of you enjoy the relationship.


just me
Well, if I found out my husband was chatting online with another woman, I'd be incredibly upset, annoyed and angry! Especially if I knew he "was thinking about her a lot". Bottom line, it's just not right.


trish_d
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its kinda weird, especially if your being secretive and not telling your husband.


Coors
Would his spouse consider it cheating? What did you expect was going to happen by talking every day?


Kittakatt
YES it is cheating. You should not be having any kind of intimate relationship with a married person.


iiidontknowdoyou
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Yes, you are emotionally cheating! You are supposed to be sharing your day with your husband, not some strange man on line! Now you think you have feelings for this stranger you really know nothing about other than what he's told you and what he's told you means nothing! End this before you ruin your marriage!


Common Sense
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Emotionally yes because you are stealing emotions, time and attention that should be reserved for his wife. Jesus said that if a man looks at a woman with passion he has committed adultery in his heart. Eventually it will become physical if you don't stop.


mamamia
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you are a online girlfriend....so yes you are cheting if the wife doesnt know you exist


tigerg33
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if your husband was secretly talking to another girl online for almost a year, telling her about your family life, your secrets,your problems. would you be ok with it? or would you feel betrayed because hes kept this from you for so long? why doesnt he tell his wife about you if its such an innocent thing? thats because he knows its not something he should be doing. he should be having these convos with his wife not you. end it.


*superstarstack*
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You're cheating emotionally. You've made yourself available to this person and it is inappropriate.


sheloves_dablues
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Does your husband know? Would you let him read your messages to this strange man?

If the answer is no, you're cheating.


fatbastard
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Get a life...yes, it's cheating...go date a single man unless you enjoy being a home wrecker and "the other woman!" It's exciting and you feel attached to him....they have these dating sites now called EHarmony, YahooDating, etc infinitum...leave the other womans man alone..she's got enough problems without you stirring the pot! DUHH!!!


USMC girlfriend!
i would say yes!!


luckyangel
It depends on if he is really seperated or not.


MamaSmurf
You are starting to get too involved. He is already at the point where he would cheat on his wife, just from his conversations. What you are doing is to continuing to lead him on even more. If he gets any more involved with you, he may as well be cheating on his wife. Let him alone, find someone who is not married. I am sure his wife would consider this cheating......


☆CuTesT BaBy DuE 9*14*2009! =)☆
Yes it is leave that married man alone. You should find a single man there is lots of them.

Why would you want to talk to a married man n e ways its not gonna get you no where. Because obviously he still loves his wife if hes even telling you about her.


Greg G
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It's cheating if you feel guilty about it.





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