Is it considered cheating if wife is talking to single man secretly?

jude

yes its cheating because she chose to share her emotions with the other man and not u. people have all kinds of excuses when they have to justify why they did something, and it usually involves blaming it all on their spouse because they don't want to be accountable for anything.she chose to talk to him, and chose not to tell u if there were problems. anything done behind a spouses back is cheating.

Mindy B

Well people look at cheating in different ways. If I were you I would be keeping my eyes open though. Things like that don't usually lead to good things.

Lil B

Is it cheating? It depends on the conversation....If you felt that it was then Yes

Jordan M

I think it is

Cali Rockz

yes i think it is..if you guy are married then your wife shouldn't be cheating on you talking to other men..that's telling you shes not interested in you anymore..but if you feel like shes cheating on you then yes.
talk to her about it and explain what you think and feel.

KurbysGurl

Let me share with you what the bible says about this and you can decide for yourself at Matthew 5:27,28 "You heard that it was said, 'You must not commit adultery.' But I say to you that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

fiery redhead 67

it may not actually be cheating,but by talking to another man,she may have been thinking about it because you haven't been there for her. she feels neglected and unloved and needs affection and having a male making her feel important. i would be as loving as possible to her and give her attention and support. don't give her any reason to want to talk to other men.but i would also watch her too,just to be sure she wasn't with another man.

adca2079

My husband is being totally unloving to me right now. He is the only man I have ever been with, and I regret giving him any part of me. I am hurt that he feels he can demean me. I am pregnant with his third child. He does this frequently.

I am so lonely and emotionally needy, I leave the house at night just to be around regular people who show love and affection. If a man approached me when I feel low, I know I would not sleep with him, but I sure would at least enjoy having someone to talk to who thinks/knows I am worth it.

Do not blame your wife for seeking the love you have been neglecting to give her. She is probably trying her best to not leave you, especially if you do this to her frequently.

Apologize and start to give her the love and emotional support she needs.

She is also probably trying to let you know if you don't show her love, she could find someone else. Don't take her for granted.

Again, I do not think she is cheating on you based on the details you have stated.

opinionated

It would depend on the situation. Maybe she is doing it because you freak out if she talks to anyone but you. If that is not the case then she shouldn't be talking to anyone in secret. Being married has to do with trusting your spouse. Has she ever given you reason to mistrust her other than this?
Ask her why she is keeping it from you, I mean you found out she is doing it so it can't be that much of a secret.
Communicate with your wife. Maybe she is seeking something your not giving her.

Satanic Lily

Yup.

Emotional cheating is pretty bad and i believe it leads to physical cheating.

Women usually cheat because they feel emotionally disconnected from their spouse.

Alex

I believe the main word here is "secretly" , and do to what secrets bring I would say yes. " I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED"

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