Is it considered cheating to search for local women on My space while your wife is at work?

jude

it is cheating until the divorce. why worry abut it, as there is nothing u can do, this is part of who he is, and its in his character, the one good thing is your going to be free of him soon.

Happy-2

It's not "cheating" in the strictest terms, but it is definitely inappropriate behavior for a married man!

orange c

Safe to assume he is shopping around.

Sorry. :(

Bachelorette

I consider anything you can't tell me about , that you feel you must hide cheating, so yes he is.

momo

He shouldnt be on my space he should be looking for a job and he is def looking for more then a chat

illinoismommy

Not your ex yet? Yes it is wrong. Tell the lazy piece of crap to get a job....lovingly of course :)

sre4jesus@verizon.net

Till death due us part. This is just another way of cheating.
Stick with the wife God gave you and love her only.

Ashley C

It is cheating if you are married and he is searching for other women. Since you are planning on divorcing, that does change things, however since it sounds as if you live in the same house, it is respectful to avoid pursuing other relationships until the divorce is final and you are living in separate places.

Dig It

Can you kick him out yet? Or move, if he's soon to be your ex? Not fair for you to be working and he's at home on his butt...

Plus, if you're about to be exes anyway, why do you care if he's trying to cheat? Look at it this way: if he finds another woman via internet, his unfaithful, unemployed, lazy *** will become her problem, and no longer yours.

Dan H

Kick that unemployed bum out on the street. You are getting a divorce? Right?

If you are heading for divorce, and there is no chance for reconciliation, you are effectively divorced already, just waiting for the judge's OK. Why worry over it?

Sweet V

Why should you care if he is soon to be ex? But yes I think it is cheating. Kick his ***out if he don't work, why wait?

bwah-ha-ha

He's not cheating and you're not tripping. But he is out-of-line... certainly there are better ways he could be spending his time, and better things with which he could be occupying his mind. Maybe he will realize that someday soon once you've divorced him, and suddenly he finds himself sitting in his tighty-whitey's at 3am poking around on Myspace for the fifth consecutive hour realizing that virtual love is not nearly as warm and embracing as the physical love he once shared with you.

Gun Dream

Does it matter? When jobless, he should spend those 8 free hours to search for a job, yeah, that's right, from 9 to 5. He's just doing nothing all day while you work, just be glad you'll be rid of him soon.

And yes, if he is looking for women only, and refusing guys, then there is something fishy going on there.

me_myself

Its disrespectful is what it is. Tell him how you feel about it and if he doesn't stop then smash the comp

Dood

It's not cheating, but it is quite disrespectful. Say if he worked all day and you spent your days shopping, but not buying anything. You're not technically shopping, but you are acting out a hobby. He is making a hobby out of talking to single women while you are not around. That's a couple steps away from cheating. He should not be walking so closely to danger.

Rei-Rei

So if he is unemployed, I am assuming you pay for the internet connection he's using to get on MySpace? Yes it is cheating and he is heartless a$$! I say lock him out of the computer so he can't get on it when you're not home. Or take the cords with you to work. How is he going to use the internet YOU pay for to window shop?

old-softy

it's only cheating if he plans on hooking up with one of them. If he's just looking to look what harm is it. Like you said, he's about to be your ex, so why care.

áƒ¦â™¥áƒ¦ latoya

cheat =P.. dump him... he's unemployed and a perv

iyamacog

Since he's soon to be X, I believe you know where you both stand. Perhaps he's searching for someone who has a good paying job...........Since he doesnt have ANY.
Sounds like SOON to be, isnt soon enough. Please celebrate the day of finalization. It appears as tho you so deserve your freedom from this less than man.
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR FINE DECISION!

tricyhouse

YES, GIRL ,YES THAT IS CHEATING!!!!

THIC007

If he's seriously soon to be your ex why worry about. If he is still suppose to be your mate then that's another story. Then he's wrong.

why ask

It is cheating because there is only one reason why he is searching for these women and you know what that is.

kyeri y

If he's your "soon to be ex" then who cares what he's doing?

You're controlling all the shots here, don't you realize that?

He's unemployed. You're supporting him. If you don't want him on your computer while you're at work, password protect it and turn it off, or take the keyboard with you when you leave so he can't use it.

Better yet, do the above AND leave him a list of chores he needs to get done around the house while you're at work.

IF he doesn't comply, throw the unemployed bum out and let him find his own place to live until the divorce is final.

2blessed2bdissed

You're really taking a stab in the dark, by implying that he is cheating. He may actually be looking.....for you!!!! Does your information give you the names of people, description or any of that information? Or are you just jumping to assumptions, to justify your actions of further "stepping" on your soon-to-be ex-husband. Stop trippin', lord knows, what you are doing on your computer @ work!!!!