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Is it ever ok to cheat on your spouse?


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Wow, I never expected to get an answer like "that's a stupid question".

I ask questions because I like to learn things and what others feel and believe. Anyone who is gullible enough to believe that I would put something that I want to do on a public board is crazy. My wife and I were having this discussion a couple of days ago and I just wanted to check out peoples opinion. Thanks everyone!


    




T-Rex
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You have to look at the definition of cheating: it means adultery. If you have your spouse's permission then it is not cheating but still adultery in a religious view.

In my world view there is no bad action if you have an agreement with your spouse. The are many women that agreed to this behavior for whatever reason in a marriage.


DVD
It all depends if its for a revenge f*** then its OK in my book.


Pyro kitten
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No.


scuba_heavenlooker
nope . even his your spouse cheats on you . it;s no excuse to do so .

all the best


Cindy F1
No never.


maybetoogdtbtr
If a man desserts you physically, emotionally and directly, then is it ok to cheat? Is that cheating? If he abuses you and Mocks you is that cheating. What is cheating? Is it cheating when you have no relationship at all? Im sorry , I don't know what a spouse is?


MonkeeBizness
Nope. Unless you happen to be married to someone who is okay with it--but to my knowledge no such person exists.


my70machdream
no if your spouse is doing something wrong or not right they need to be informed about it-if they dont change the behavior they can consider themselves warned and not be surprised after you do cheat.


piepiepie
No because it involves lying and therefore betraying and hurting someone who you made vows to, but if your spouse is informed and consents, it's okay to sleep with other people. That's not cheating.


Jim V
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No! Its never ok to cheat on anyone.


Jassie's mum
NO...don't you remember your vows?
U get married to be with the one person. If you want to be with others....get out of the marrige NOW!!!


avast
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no.

It is ok to think about why you want to cheat. . .and consider ditching the relationship or working on it to make it better.


iyamacog
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Definitely not. What would give you any idea that it would be?


BIG-IRON
NO next question.


negrito con sabor
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Yes.
If you no longer have a true relationship, yes.
If you don't care about your marriage or your spouse, go for it!

It's only "cheating" if you are truly committed and feel that you have something worth saving.

If you don't value your marriage, you may as well have fun.

But if you do value your spouse, and you care if things go wrong,
then don't cheat.


Common Sense
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Nope...
I read somewhere today that 72% of women cheat and
54% of men cheat today......Really surprised me...
40 yrs ago men were twice as likely to cheat as were women..


kevo m
its never ok


Johnny
Well I suppose if she was cheating on you it might be OK to do the same.
But NO I can't see it as ever being OK to cheat.
Can you think of a reason where it would be alright.

If I marooned on an island with a woman and she refused to give me food or put a gun to my head I guess you could consider that as OK because you wanted to stay alive for your wife.


none
Obviously your not happy in your marriage just get out, get the freedom you need to date. Or if for some reason you are happy just take her for a make over new make up, clothes. hair, even color contact lenses something that would attract you to her again with out having to hurt her change the look, hey it might just work but don't cheat don't lower yourself to that be unique or get out.


reeni_pb
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as long as you are prepared for the fallout and ongoing punishment (regardless of if you split) then ok. but remember you are the guilty one, you caused all the hurt, you are the only one to blame. your partner did not make the decision for you to cheat, no matter what they did that decision was all yours and yours alone so anything that happens is all your fault. if you hold your partner in such disregard taht you would risk passing on infections ect to them, i think you should just pack your bags and dissapear.


polly36 m
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If anyone has experienced infidelity in their relationship but found it did survive or did not and would like to share their views with a national magazine, please email Polly on polly_plie@hotmail.com.


maccaroni
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never


snickers
absolutely not!


friday
yes, if your partner does not take care of you or your needs, he is neglectful. Most people blame the cheater for cheating but dont stop to understand that many times it is that so called innocent person that drives you to cheating.
It is not cheating, it is the "little something you do for yourself". Sharing your selfish part and keeping yourself happy is ok, no one has to know.


?
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IF they did it first and are screwing you over it is appropriate.


Ari J
Of course everyone is just going to say NEVER EVER EVER! But not me. I understand to some extent how you might be feeling. OK, so you're married and you're thinking about cheating on your spouse, this doesn't sound too good. But I cant judge you because I dont know who your spouse it, they might be cheating on you, an alcoholic, abusing you. If not, if they are loving and caring, and you're just thinking of cheating, i'd say time to have a think about a divorce. Maybe just dont cheat on them for a few months and then if you still feel the urge and realise that is wasnt just a crush or a phase, then you should think about seperating/divorce etc. You married your spouse because you loved them and even if you have changed your mind, they still deserve your respect. Best of luck


blazegirl
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NO


Colleen O
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No.


ask me ?
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NEVER OK. Someone always gets hurt in the end. It aint worth it.


late fee
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get your spouse's permission first, buddy.





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