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DrMichael
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WHy would you want to? |
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Aundrea
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Definately not. My first love was when I was 22 years old. It was a very passionate love that imploded leaving both of us hurt. Now 10 years later we have reconnected and have some closure to our relationship.
We both made mistakes and both regret things that happened, but I still love him and seeing his photograph brough back a lot of memories, both good and bad.
But I am married now and have 2 children, so time has passed. But there will always be a part of me that adores and loves him. |
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neia
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no i dont thnk its ever possible. i will never tell my hubby that though.
there is always something in the back of your mind that makes you think about them once every blue moon. |
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Special K
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I have heard stories and stories about this same question. I can only go from what I know. I have never gotten over my first love. We both have been with other people. He married someone else, I never married, but had three children by someone. We reconnected, and are now going to be married. Through the last 22 years, I never got over him. I guess it's possible to move on with another person, but I don't know about totally getting over them. |
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Sammi♥
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I`m not sure, but after time your memories of them might fade, but I don`t believe they will go away. They will always be your first love and no one can take that away, but others can captivate your heart too and just because theyre not your first love doesn`t mean its not true love. |
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THREE RIVERS
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I can't speak for anyone else, but I never could forget. We were never even intimate.I looked for her in between marriages for 40 years and found her two years ago. she had a family , I saw her in the obituary. Still I dream of her. |
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★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥
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I never did - and never will... because, 20 years after we first met- we are finally back together- and married.
so - our first loves never left us - I would think about him daily- and he would think about me daily- just took us a long time to make the next move! |
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love my life
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I have always heard that you never forget your first love. I believe it. My soon to be ex husband was my first love and I won't forget him. (we have a son together, also) Our marriage is over because he was unfaithful...but I feel that I will always love him. I think in some way all of us will always love our first love. But I do think it is possible to find someone else that we love just as much or even more. Or at least I hope so! :) |
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youthpastor1955
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I don't know if it is possible. But after 40 years, I haven't. I don't "pine" away for her, but she will always have a soft spot in my heart. That is the way most first loves are. |
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lollypop
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I haven't forgotten mine.My first love began when i was 15.I married him when i was 19.I had a child when i was 21 and another when i was 25.He cheated and beat me and mentally abused me and was married for ten yrs.I haven't forgotten the love i once had for him,cause it was special at one time,but i also haven't forgotten the pain and hell i went through either. |
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Kailey
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I can't speak for the men out there, but I know I will never forget my first love. I don't think about him everyday, or wish that I was still with him, but I will never forget the experience we shared.
If you are trying to get over a broken heart, you will - with time. The first time you fall in love, it is very intense. It is a very hard thing to let go of, but eventually you will move on. Hopefully it was a good experience for you!! |
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MKS
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I don't think so unless you've officially damaged your brain or some memory loss. The truth I don't think you can forget love but you can avoid and think about something else to focus on. You will always remember if something strikes up your mind. It doesn't mean you can't cope with it. The 1st love is important in some ways but the best way is to think of the present and future, and not dwell on the past. You won't forget it though it will remain but you will be happy that it's your personal and very first experience and that makes you unique. |
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What? Me Worry?
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No. That was more years ago than I care to remember. (1950's) I still remember. |
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bettercockster3
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Been there done that. You may be too young now but as you get older you will begin to understand how lucky we men are to have the company of so many beautiful and nurturing women amongst us. In my opinion,the gifty of woman to man is a blessing from God one can lay his eyes upon everyday. Once you understand this and learn to learn from women and love them and all what they have to offer, you will find it very easy to move from one budding flower to another, just like a bumble bee. |
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Al B
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I don't think a person ever forgets but instead learns hopefully why that did not work out and that makes the next love better. It would be a perfect world if everyone found love the first time and made it work - that does happen - but usually the first love happens before the people involved have experienced enough life to appreciate it and how to make it grow so it dies and they move on with only a memory - usually of only the good parts and not the bad so the the first love is always still in the mind somewhere. |
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gypsy g
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I don't know, I haven't. |
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Dave
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To forget? maybe not, but how much effort goes into thinking about her/him years later? not much. Time takes care of a lot. You change, and when you do, the idea of that first love becomes less than what it means right now. |
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Eds
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WHT,
Not for me. I married her thirty-two years ago and we have three of the most wonderful children that you ever could meet. They remind me of her each and every time I look in their eyes. She is the most wonderful woman in this world. GOD truly blessed me with her. We became Christians about twenty years ago and I will be with her until the day that I die. Have a wonderful week.
.Thanks,
Eds
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Adam D
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I did, I forgot her voice and what she looked like. If I saw her today and heard her voice, I would know... |
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nita
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you will never forget your first love. they are the one that helped you grow. even if it was for good or bad. |
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sbuxlisa9
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Memories are memories, and will be with you always. Good or bad, accepting them and figuring out where they go in your present life is the key to either moving on or dwelling on the past.
Hope that helps. |
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cutie
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I wouldn't say you forget them, but I know I see my first love all the time and its hard to believe we were ever in love. When I see him now I find myself asking "What was I thinking?" |
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HELP!!!
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No.. Thats your frist love.. You cant ever forget that.. You can fall in love again but the same way you did with your frist love... It hard to get over that kind of love.. I'm still trying.. |
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Rosie
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yup. well, i think so anyways. i'm not sure if this counts, but i had forgotten all about my first crush from kindergarten until my friend started dating him over the summer. maybe it was because of my age, but i hadn't thought about him at all until them. |
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April
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How old are you? If you are still a teenager, then you are still young. But forget? No. Why would you want to? Never ever be sorry something is over. Be glad that you got to experience it, and hopefully learn from it. Nothing is forever. If you grow up and have a child, and it dies, don't let it ruin your entire rest of your life. Be glad that that child was part of your experience, and think what you would have missed had you never had that child. Sad? Oh, sure.
Is divorce sad? Oh sure. But the only way to never be sad and never feel is to never venture. Never fall in love, never get married, never have a family, never make any friends, and never own a pet. Then you will never be hurt, but..... Pretty sterile, huh? ahhh, but safe. Your choice. Drink of the beauty of life, be the best person you can, or sit in a corner somewhere, safe, and......... (you decide..).
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48Special
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No I don't think so!! I think we will always remember our first love and wonder what it would have been like to be with them to this day or to have stayed with them from then until now. |
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ally
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yes u can get over them but u wont forget them, u dont forget anybody you knew |
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*~Rux~*
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personally i think no u may mvoe on but never forget them |
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curiousaboutit
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I havent...i still think of her everyday...sometimes i think of choking her..sometimes the thoughts are more pleasant. But your first love is the person that introduced to a part of yourself that u never knew existed..thats pretty damned unforgetalble. They opened up feelings of passion and intesity that were silent in you...no.u wont forget. |
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Betty
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It depends on how serious the relationship was. For me, my 1st love lasted only for several months, so now, I still have memories of it, but have no feelings attached to it. I think you will not forget it, but whether or not you still have feelings for the person depends on how serious or strong the 1st love was. |
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dazzlin
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You never forget: the touch, the kiss, the smiles. Still looking for my first, somewhere in Canada, me in NY. Doubtful if things would work out, but I still tried. Wonder what he's doing, if he's married, children? If I stayed with him, what would have been? He's always in my thoughts, more so now than ever, and I wonder why? My heart still flutters at the thought of his voice, you know, the Canadian accent, his kindness. |
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